When couples are together, they promise a lifetime, why do so few people do it?

Couples will promise a lifetime when they are together, but it is difficult to do it afterwards because two people will encounter conflicts when they get along together, and sometimes the contradictions will be handled poorly and the two people will part ways. <>

When couples first got together, they promised to live for a lifetime because they liked each other, thinking that each other was their fate, and they couldn't see each other's shortcomings when they first fell in love. When a couple has been together for a long time, the shortcomings of the two people will be exposed, and at this time, the two people will quarrel because of each other's shortcomings, sometimes they will quarrel, and sometimes they will quarrel with each other. Therefore, two people will re-examine each other, consider whether they are suitable to be with him, and consider what to do if the two of them get married in the future, so the relationship between the two people is not as good as when they first fell in love.

I think it's true that two people love each other very much together, but when the conflict is exposed in the end, it's also true that they don't want to be with each other. So I think the reason why few couples promise to be together after a lifetime is because sometimes love is not as simple as they think, when they are first together, they are carefree, and they don't need to think about it, but if two people want to go on forever, there are many things to consider. If the man has no sense of responsibility at this time, or the woman does not care about the family, then the two of them are likely to separate.

So I think couples should not easily promise a lifetime when they are together, because some promises really can't be fulfilled. <>

I think that when I am with my lover, it is enough to be happy, cherish it when we are together, and I will not regret it if I am separated. There are some promises that you can only say if you have fulfilled them, and don't say anything that you can't be sure about for a lifetime, because if you can't do it after you finish speaking, the other party will use this as an excuse to count you down. I think that when we are together, we should cherish the time we spend with each other, so that we can discover each other's strengths and get along with each other well.

That's because two people will encounter contradictions when they get along together, and after being together for a long time, they will understand each other, each other's shortcomings will be exposed, and if they can't tolerate it, they will quarrel or have a cold war, and when they make promises, they don't think that love also needs to be tested, so few people can do it.

The main thing is that the will is not firm, when the love promise, the difficulties in the future are not considered, and when the environment changes, the original intention is forgotten.

Because the promise is too good, the reality is too cruel. Plans can never catch up with changes, and when you really get to this point, you will realize how ridiculous the original promise was.

Because the promise is not made and it will not be illegal, and many girls are willing to hear the man's promise, so the man will make it casually regardless of whether it can be fulfilled or not.

You have been with me for a lifetime, but it is difficult for you to do it, the most important thing is that you should do it first, and then it will not affect your life, because when your promise is not fulfilled, it is often a hurtful thing for the other party.

Friends of the opposite sex around you may be the fuse that affects the relationship, and most of them affect the relationship because of the different opinions of the two parties of the bride price, and there are also because of a little contradiction in life, and because of the difference in lifestyle and living habits, it will affect the relationship. There are also too many differences in economic conditions because of the different views of the two sides.

Promised to be together for the rest of our lives! But ordinary and trivial life makes things not as expected! Whether the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious!

The couple can't have a cold war when they encounter something, hurt their feelings, what can they communicate! Or a long period of separation, distrust between husband and wife, will affect the relationship!

The door is not the right one, the two people do not have a common language and common interests, and the obstruction of their parents makes both of them exhausted, these things will affect the relationship.

Lack of money. As the saying goes, poor couples mourn everything, lack of money will make people feel distressed, and everything must be considered again and again before being done, which is boring.

The first obstacle should be the trivial things in life, many people will have disagreements because of trivial matters, the second obstacle is the difference in lifestyle, which is also easy to contradict, and the third obstacle is the difference in three views, which will affect the feelings.

Those who promise to live together for a lifetime may have small things in their lives that affect their feelings, especially some very small details, which really affect the relationship if they are not handled well. Moreover, it is also possible to encounter the disunity of the positions of the two families, which hinders the relationship between the two people.

Parental opposition, economics, third parties. Unblessed love will not be happy; The economic base determines the superstructure; Relationships involving a third party do not end well.

A lot, time, distance, friends, parents, and firewood, rice, oil and salt in life in the future, all of which need to be overcome by them.

After graduation, you may have to break up. This whole thing sounds like graduation is extremely painful and sad, and it is unacceptable and unacceptable, and I believe that most fresh graduates will have this feeling. Couples who promised to be together for the rest of their lives after graduation often find it difficult to be together.

This is the helplessness of reality and the sorrow of separation.

Everyone feels that campus love is as fragile as a flower in a greenhouse, and it is even more vulnerable. To be honest, I really don't think the breakup has anything to do with graduation or long-distance relationships. There is only one reason, not enough love.

In fact, to be honest, everyone understands it in their hearts. Who can be important, who has just graduated, who can give up family and work for whom, let alone convince both parents for you. The other person is not important enough to make me feel that I will never meet a better person than you.

I'm sure I'll be better in the future, and there are better people waiting for me, but there's a good chance that that person won't be you.

Most college students are too naïve to have a clear understanding of the future, and falling in love is just to enjoy the feeling of happiness, of course, it is understandable, and it is also a very valuable experience or experience；However, most people do not consider the reality of the situation and consider the issue of marriage. Generally, most of the people who have the ability to determine the future residence of themselves and their couples are top people in society, people who exist at the top of the pyramid, they have graduated from prestigious schools or have mines at home, and they can go to the first-tier cities to live and develop together. However, most people can only return to their hometowns after graduation to develop, and they have no choice but to break up with their couples.

Therefore, I think that college should indeed fall in love, but it must not indulge in love and give everything for love. Because, nearly 9 percent of people will eventually break up. On the contrary, in fact, in high school love, the success rate of being able to get together in the end is higher, as far as I know, there are quite a few successful casesTo put it bluntly, it's still a matter of distance.

Our journey together is coming to an end, and from now on, let's go our separate ways and cherish each other.

Couples who promise to be together for the rest of their lives after graduation may not be able to be together in the future, mainly because life is more realistic after graduation.

In my opinion, the couples who promised to be together after graduation were difficult to be together in the end because of their powerlessness to face reality.

It's all verbal promises, and there's never anything practical to do for the future of the two people.

can only say that he was too young and ignorant, and he made a vow blindly, and he didn't know how to love someone at that time.

Because in the face of reality, any emotion seems to be pale and weak.