How to talk in order to make the other person sympathize with you and help you

Hehe! How the people upstairs see the world so dark!

Sympathize? Help? Sounds awkward to me!

Why should people be sympathetic? You deserve to be respected!

First of all, you have to improve your self-esteem, people will look at you, think you are a good person, very good, admire you, respect you, and they will really help you when they see you in trouble!

If someone you admire and respect is in trouble, will you help him?

Oh, change the angle, change the mood!

When you are in trouble, someone will sympathize with you and help you.

I feel like this, I have a colleague, I treat him well, he thinks I'm begging him, I ignore him, I make fun of him every day, but he treats me as a benefactor, some people, old disrespect, little disrespect!

Take a look at the beggars on the streets, how do you feel about their expressions? And how many people are going to help them? One out of ten is good. Why?

Maybe we can learn something from this. But it's hard to say. Think about the current state of human compassion, and think about the pursuit of human beings.

Maybe you can only let others get what they want or what is good for him from your expression, from your promises, which can be material or spiritualAfter all, we can go further in a win-win situation.

Haha, pretend to be pitiful. It's easier if it's for the opposite sex. coquettish, and he will be confused.

It can't be false, and it should be realistic.

There are band grooves. Unless you know Japanese.!

Don't be nervous when you introduce yourself, say it easily, and have a smile on your face, then it will not be difficult to make a good impression.

For example, the name can be quoted from some poems and said in a witty tone. Don't look at it like you're writing a resume.

I remember writing an essay in elementary school, 'How to be a qualified Young Pioneer,' and I said a bunch of rules and regulations, but I finally said, 'Those like me are qualified Young Pioneers'

I remember at that time, the whole class burst into laughter.

The finishing touch is important.

You have to understand the things that are more thunderous or a lot of popular things now, or watch popular TV series and movies, so that you can chat and have topics, and when you have topics, you have to talk humorously, and you have to put me on the scale of chatting, other people's girls think that you want to stick to other people's chats, and talk about the temperature and point, and I am like this.

To chat happily with girls, of course, the first can find a topic, the second is to know more things, the topic is often not fixed, but to talk about what topic can be connected, otherwise girls will think you are very boring, the third I think it is still necessary to be humorous and not vulgar, chat or make others feel happy, otherwise girls will not want to talk to you.

Talking nonsense, looking at the sky blindly, what you say is not boundary. So he doesn't know what you're talking about.

Swallow water warmly, half-dead, haha.

Everything from here is illusory, and not very practical, after all, there are very few.

So since you are willing to learn from the pain, landlord, I suggest you buy books, I remember that many books are about the art of communication, or the skills of communication. You can search it from **, which is not expensive, about 30 yuan.

Very practical.

Be polite in speech and demeanor; 3.find common topics; 4.Don't talk about the same topic for too long; 5.

Don't talk about other people's sadness; 6.Don't use dirty words when you speak; 7.Be brave enough to admit mistakes and so on.

1.Smiling and soft-spoken.

Everyone likes to talk to someone who is smiling and soft-spoken, because they can hear a sense of intimacy in that person's speech. Do you feel comfortable when the person you're chatting with is smiling all the time? When his tone of voice makes you comfortable, do you feel the urge to continue talking to him?

2.Be polite in speech and demeanor;

When talking to people, be sure to be mindful of what you say and do. If you want to talk effectively with others, you must learn to get along with others politely and make others have a good impression of you!

3.find common topics;

The ancients said that if you don't speculate more than half a sentence, it means that in order to communicate effectively with people, you must find speculative people, that is, people who have a common topic. Therefore, the focus of effective communication with others is on common topics.

In the process of communication, if you have a problem or put forward an unreasonable opinion, you should take the initiative to apologize to the other party and bravely admit your mistake, such as "I was wrong, I didn't think it through." "Wait, it's all good.

I didn't think it was inappropriate to ask myself what I said at the time, but in retrospect, it was very bad, how to avoid it.

After all, there are still people who care, so it's best not to have a gap between people, and it's best to explain everything clearly.

The main thing is that you can't let go, I guess you don't usually hang out with your classmates, right? If so, be sure to go out and play with friends more often, so that you will become cheerful and lively, and it will become less difficult to socialize?!! Secondly, it depends on your personality, sometimes you don't know how to speak, so you don't talk much, but you have to be calm.

I think you get the idea.