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Do you know: How many families ask Hualan for marriage, either rich or expensive, why do they choose the down-and-out Yuan family?
Although Sheng Hong is sometimes confused, he is also attentive to the choice of several daughters' marriages, especially Sheng Hualan, who is carefully selected, but in the end, people are not as good as heaven. Sheng Hong's investigation of Yuan Wenshao is almost comprehensive, and his investigation of this marriage is also very comprehensive, almost from Yuan Wenshao's personal ability, personality performance, family status and other aspects, and the matching degree with Sheng Hualan is quite high.
Do you know that Li Shenghong said when choosing a son-in-law for Hualan: "I don't expect to use Hua'er to climb the dragon and attach the phoenix, I just hope that she can marry a responsible man, the husband and wife are harmonious, the piano is harmonious, and she will have children in the future, and her life will be smooth." "Do you know that in the original book, Sheng Hong chose a son-in-law for his daughter Hua Lan, first looked at the second son of the Qiu family who was right with the Sheng family, considering that Hua Lan was arrogant, Sheng Hong and his wife did not like her to marry into the prince's mansion, although those families were rich and noble, but after all, they were deeply locked in the court, and they were worried that Hua Lan would be wronged.
Sheng Hong's vision of people is quite accurate, and he sincerely stands in Hualan's perspective for Hualan's sake. After Hua Lan married Yuan Shao, the husband and wife were in love with each other, and Yuan Shao also worked hard to become strong, and his career was all the way. Sheng Hong is still quite good in terms of looking at people, such as Wen Yanjing, who was selected for Mo Lan, is very good, but it is a pity that Mo Lan's short vision can not be shorter, and the beloved son of his parents is far-reaching.
In ancient times, the most important thing was to pay attention to the right door, and the right door was not only the economic door, but also the ideology and background. Everyone's economic status and family education background are similar, so they can communicate and exchange better, and they can agree on their children's education. The fact that the family is in charge minimizes some of the uncertainties in the marriage.
The importance of being the right person is self-evident, but there is often an element of luck in a happy marriage. Hua Lan, as the head of Yuan's house, has no money in his hands, and the important properties such as the fields and shops are in the hands of Yuan's mother herself, and Hua Lan has to use her dowry money to make up for the expenses, otherwise she will have a reputation as a housekeeper.
Of course, there are also grievances in this kind of high-match marriage, and when they got married, the Yuan family gave a dismount, and the eldest lady slapped the table, "Don't marry, don't marry, I don't want this dowry." Their Yuan family is engaged in this kind of flower, why bother hiring a boat to dock, it is better to turn around and go back to his father now, our Sheng family's daughter is not rare in their Earl's Palace. Sheng Hong walked behind the eldest lady, "This is a good marriage, what are you talking nonsense?."
When the eldest lady heard this, she turned around, "Nonsense?."If it wasn't me Hua'er who recruited today, but Mo Lan was so neglected, do you guess that Lin Yushuang Lin Xiaoniang on the tip of your heart would be nonsense. Sheng Hong was anxious, "Let's talk about Hua'er's marriage, what are you doing with her?"
The eldest lady stood up and said loudly, "You don't care about Hua'er, this is the marriage you talked about for her, and it was decided that the earl and his wife would come to Yangzhou to hire them, and now they only control a big man Yuan Wenchun and send it away."
After marriage, Sheng Hualan, as her father said, her husband is motivated, his career is successful, and his husband and wife are harmonious, which shows that Sheng Hong has indeed done a full investigation of her daughter's marriage.
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Before Hua Lan married into the Yuan family, her life could be described as chic, the so-called eldest daughter in the family, even Changbai couldn't take care of her, Sheng Hong was a good father, regarded this daughter as a treasure, and even said: Among all the daughters, he loved Hua Lan the most, because Hua Lan was the first daughter of him and Wang, and the relationship between Sheng Hong and Wang was still very good at that time.
Hua Lan and Yuan Wenshao are married first and then loved. Yuan Wenshao at the beginning did not accept this woman. Later, Hua Lan gave birth to several children for Yuan Wenshao in a row, Yuan Wenshao slowly regarded Hua Lan as a family member, at this time, Yuan Wenshao had no love for Hua Lan, after all, it was the words of the parents who ordered the matchmaker, but Mrs. Yuan just couldn't get used to the treatment that Hua Lan had, and she couldn't get used to her son favoring outsiders, so she made things difficult for Hua Lan everywhere, which also slowly matched Hua Lan and Yuan Wenshao to cherish each other.
Hua Lan's mother-in-law is also a loser, and the monthly salary of a small military general is not enough for the family to eat and drink, not to mention that Mrs. Yuan has to honor her maiden family every day, and the dowry brought by Hua Lan will be slowly emptied. Mrs. Yuan only has her own mother's family, and she will not take much care of her son, and Yuan Wenshao does not take it to heart. Every time there is a crisis in Yuan Wenshao's career, it is Hua Lan who is helping to take care of it, and in the process of getting along in the future, he also knows who is sincere to him.
After a long time, after Yuan Wenshao completely saw his mother's face, he and Hualan both fell in love, and after being in his 40s, the brother-in-law of the Yuan family also treated Hualan as a baby and gave birth to several childrenThe hard-won stay and love for each other is always emotional.
Later, Yuan Wenshao Hualan became a model for the Sheng family's 4 Lan marriages, and even such as Lan and Minglan were even sweeter
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Because the development of their mansion is not very good, there are still a lot of places where the family needs money, so they also need to subsidize the dowry.
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is because all his daughters are married, and then these daughters are all high-married, and then it also paves the way for the family's career.
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Because Hua Lan's mother-in-law has been suppressing her, bullying her all the time, and she is very stingy, so she will do this.
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Hua Lan is the eldest daughter of the Sheng family, and she has been more sensible since she was a child, so the reason why the Sheng family married Hua Lan to the Yuan family is actually because Sheng Hong wants to pave the way for her career, of course, Hua Lan also knows this, so she agreed to her father, even if it is the Longtan Tiger's Den, she will marry the Yuan family, after all, the Yuan family is the Earl of Yuanhuai's mansion.
But after Hua Lan married the Yuan family, she found that her husband was not valued in her own home, so Hua Lan's status in the Earl's Court was also quite chilling, but what she didn't expect was that the Yuan family actually gave Hua Lan the housekeeper's errand, in fact, the ancient housekeeper could actually get a lot of income, but for the Yuan family, there was basically no income to get, and Hua Lan had to pay out of his own pocket to fill the vacancy, it can be seen that the Earl's Court is already an empty shelf, It looks more beautiful on the outside, but inside, in fact, it has long been out of order, this ** is an errand for Hua Lan's housekeeper, and he clearly wants Hua Lan to use his dowry and his mother's money to subsidize the entire Yuan family.
Fortunately, Hua Lan's dowry is still relatively generous, and before Hua Lan left the cabinet, her grandmother treated her very well and often gave her some things, so Hua Lan's life in the Earl's Court was also relatively difficult, which can be known through the later TV series.
In fact, from the beginning when the Yuan family came to marry Hua Lan, you could see the style of the Earl's Mansion, at that time, the eldest son of the Yuan family was still holding a shelf, and he looked down on the Sheng family a little, in fact, at that time, the Earl's Mansion was already defeated, just a swollen face and a fat man, pretending to be a look.
It can be seen that a Hua Lan is for her own family, so she will marry the Yuan family at that time, because Hua Lan has witnessed the decline of her family since she was a child, so at a young age, she will become a victim of politics at that time, in fact, there are such families in society now, and some parents marry their daughters to people who want to cooperate with others for their own careers, and never ask their daughters if they like each other, in fact, this is a good practice, and it is disrespectful to women.
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First of all, because their family is gradually declining, so the potato replied that the family is generally used for interpersonal communication, so there is not much left. In addition, they put most of their savings into job hunting.
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It is because the Yuan family has been covered with foreign power, although the Yuan family has a knighthood, in fact, it has been going downhill, and has been treated coldly, and the family is not rich, but the Earl's Mansion is pure and the face outside still has to be enough, and the pants are sold, so although Hua Lan is in the name of the housekeeper.
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just wants Hua Lan to use her dowry and her mother's money to subsidize the entire Yuan family.
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Hua Lan has just begun her married life.
is not happy, because Hua Lan is married highly, not treated by her mother-in-law, for the honor of the family and let her sisters marry better, Hua Lan has never vented her temper, Zhongqing has been silently endured, until the finale, Hua Lan has a happier ending.
Hua Lan's happiness depends entirely on her own efforts, Hua Lan's husband Yuan Wenshao is not as good as she imagined, when Hua Lan first married into the Yuan family, she was often bullied, but as her husband Yuan Wenshao never helped Hua Lan, Hua Lan rarely went home to complain in order not to let her mother worry.
Hua Lan is the eldest sister of the Sheng family, when she got married, her parents worried a lot about her, and chose Yuan Wenshao, who had a better family, but Hua Lan's life in her mother-in-law's house was also difficult, she just silently endured all this, even after Hua Lan gave birth to a child, she did not get good treatment, Yuan Wenshao's money was handed over to her mother, and even Hua Lan's dowry, his mother took more than half, Yuan Wenshao knew that his mother often bullied his wife, but as a husband, he never showed anything.
Yuan Wenshao is more like most men, he cares about his face and future, maybe he likes Hua Lan, but he doesn't want to go against his mother and get a reputation for unfilial piety, because Yuan Wenshao's weakness Hua Lan has suffered for many years in her mother-in-law's family, and later, although Hua Lan is doing well, it is also by virtue of Hua Lan's own personality charm.
Happiness created.
Later, the Sheng family rose, and Minglan or Pei Wei married Gu Tingye.
Even with Hua Lan to live in her mother-in-law's house, Minglan gave Hua Lan an idea and asked Hua Lan to take a concubine to her father-in-law, Hua Lan's mother-in-law was busy dealing with concubines every day, so she didn't come to Hua Lan's business. Later, Hua Lan's mother-in-law really didn't embarrass Hua Lan anymore, Hua Lan didn't live happily until the second half of her life, Yuan Wenshao's career became more and more smooth, maybe she felt the grievances of her wife for many years, so she was very good to Hua Lan, and the middle-aged two began to have a feeling of love.
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Later, they lived a happy life, Hua Lan and Yuan Wenshao still had a good relationship after they got married, and the child's body was also very healthy.
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The two did not live happily ever after, because their families were gradually declining, and in the end they lived miserably.
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Yes, they later lived this happy life, the two of them still loved each other very much, and their lives were relatively uneventful.
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Life is still very good, because her background is relatively strong, in fact, it is also because she is a more scheming person.
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Hua Lan's life in the Yuan family is still very good, after all, the Yuan family is slowly declining, so it is very good to Hua Lan.
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After marrying into the Yuan family, her life was not very satisfactory, and her mother-in-law kept staring at her and embarrassed her, but later Minglan gave Hua Lan a basic idea to fight a lot, and the husband and wife were still very harmonious.
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Hua Lan is the most noble girl in the Sheng family, she is the eldest daughter of the Sheng family, Wang Ruofu's first daughter, she is deeply liked by the whole family, although Sheng Hong does not want to see Wang Ruofu, but she likes Hua Lan very much. Hua Lan is excellent and noble, as a girl from a big family, her marriage is to pave the way for the Sheng family, the Sheng family was thriving at that time, Hua Lan married to the Yuan family of the Earl's Mansion with her own excellence, the Yuan family is the Earl's Palace, even if she is snubbed by the emperor, it is much better than the Sheng family, the Yuan family can also see that the Yuan family looks down on the Sheng family everywhere, since it is so unattractive, why does the Yuan family still marry Hua Lan?
Hua Lan is very good, but she was not born enough, in this era of paying attention to the wrong door, Hua Lan will indeed be looked down upon by the Yuan family with official rank. At the time of hiring, the subordinates of the Yuan family were changed from the second elder of the Yuan family to the eldest young master and wife of the Yuan family, and in the Sheng family, the Yuan family and even allowed Gu Tingye to shoot the bride price of winning Hualan, this was indeed a slap in the face of the Sheng family, and the various practices of the Yuan family could see that they did not look down on the Sheng family.
The Yuan family chose Hualan, and Hualan was also good enough. If Hua Lan is not outstanding, how can she succeed in marrying into the Earl's Court? With the Sheng family at that time, there was no way to fight against the Yuan family.
Hua Lan has been raised by Mrs. Sheng since she was a child, she is reasonable, whether it is her appearance or personality, she is all of the best grades, if it is not for the birth limit, it is not easy for her to marry into the Yuan family. Hua Lan's excellence is valued by the old man of the Yuan family, so he wants Hua Lan to marry the Yuan family's sister-in-law.
Moreover, the Yuan family is not so beautiful. The Yuan family is indeed the Earl's Palace, but it is the Earl's Mansion that is cold, in such a family, the door is not right, and the Yuan family is generally not looked down upon, and the Yuan family is of course unlikely to reduce too many norms, so that the eldest son can marry a very poor girl and go home. Hua Lan was indeed not born into a family of dukes and earls, but she was also educated by the daughter of the Marquis of Yongyi, and there is also a grandfather who is worthy of enjoying the Taimiao, and the concubine of the Yuan family is also a good face when she marries such a girl.
The Yuan family is not famous enough, and the Sheng family is not in decline, coupled with the highlights of Hua Lan's body, this is enough to create this marriage.
Although Yuan Wenshao is the eldest son of the Yuan family, he is the second son of the Yuan family, it is very likely that he did not inherit the official rank, and the mother-in-law of the Yuan family only cherishes her own son, Yuan Wenshao is not too excluded in the Yuan family, that is, he is exempt from exclusion, of course, the Yuan family does not pay so much attention to his marriage, even if he marries a woman with a low background, he doesn't care, maybe for the Yuan family's mother-in-law and the eldest young master of the Yuan family, letting Yuan Wenshao marry a girl with a low family is exactly what they want to see.
The Sheng family must marry the Yuan family, the Yuan family, as a declining earl's house, also wants to marry a girl who looks at the past, the Sheng family and the Yuan family can be said to be you and me, although the vast majority of the Yuan family does not look down on the Sheng family, but for a declining earl's house, a girl like Hualan has long been their most suitable choice.
Because she is really very set, crying, making trouble and pretending to be dizzy, she is really very good at pondering people's psychology and knowing that officials like their weak appearance.
Because the Yuan family had gradually fallen at that time, and Sheng Hong's career was smooth, the Yuan family attached more importance to the development of the Sheng family.
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