Asking for help I encountered a problem in high school and was confused

In fact, whether you can shirk is not determined by the quality of eloquence, you don't shirk and can help shows that you still have this ability, why not give people roses to leave a lingering fragrance. High school is the best time to cultivate the purest and most sincere friends in a person's life. However, it is not right to be clear about your goals, and you can't blindly help others indiscriminately, or even affect your own learning.

When others ridicule you, if you can take it calmly, it's good, if you feel that you are just patient, you might as well fight back, so that you can be happy, and you can also exercise your eloquence! Anyway, it's good to be happy, isn't it?

They ridicule you because they are jealous of you, and if you help them, it shows that you are kind, and when you encounter sarcasm, you can endure sarcasm, which shows that you are steady. But you have to have your own character, don't behave like people who think you're cowardly, let them know that you will do it if you want to, and you won't do it if you don't. Kindness is not the same as cowardice.

Stick to what you want to do and help what you can. Trust you not in return. But there will definitely be a reward.

I used to be the same as you, first of all, I have to learn to speak loudly, if you are strong, I will be weak, and the momentum will intimidate others, if someone is sarcastic about you, if he is joking, you will also give him a few words, if he is malicious, don't be embarrassed, scold when you should scold, hit when you should beat, and use your momentum to scare him, this society is like this, the weaker you are, the more you will be bullied, our country is like this, so we have to fight for ourselves.

Forbearance is an ability, and you do it well, but you know best what your problems are, right? Face him, only if you find the problem and solve it slowly, you won't have such worries! For market management and scientific exploration, it is more important to find problems, but now the problems really exist in us, so there is no excuse or reason not to solve them!

You're right.

If you can't bear it, then you go to the playground for a run and come back to see if you still can't bear it, and if you still can't bear it, then beat him up (it seems that I'm going to take the bad guy) ......

You know that your character can't bear it, and it's better to push it if someone asks you to help.

High school students are confused, and most of the problems are lack of motivation and lack of clear and achievable goals.

To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, a plan, according to your performance in each subject and your future needs. Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step.

The goal must not be too big, it should be expected and achievable, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, so that you can get happiness from the success of achieving the goal, and progress is just around the corner.

It's normal to feel lost, because many times our own so-called ideals and goals are determined by the principle of seeing what others do, listening to what others say, and doing what others do. In most cases, this is the right thing to do, after all, the lessons of the previous car are the lessons of the future. But there are times when we might have to think a little more.

Everyone's situation is different, and other people's paths may not be suitable for themselves, maybe everyone is taking such a path, but that does not mean that it is the most suitable path for themselves. The rules of this society have never been formulated for the full development of a certain person, and only a small number of people are destined to live like a fish in water under the current screening rules, and most people are not doing well or badly. I can't say what kind of ideals and goals you should have, because this thing is only important when you actually have it.

It is not something that can be established simply, it requires repeated thinking, repeated verification, and a long-term wavering process before it can converge to a firm goal. If you don't have a goal, you can ask yourself these questions: How did you take the current development path come about?

Where does it end up? Am I comfortable walking on this path? Is your situation suitable for such a path?

Is there a better path for you?

As a person who has come over....In fact, don't worry about the ups and downs of high school grades, sometimes the grades say something, and sometimes they don't say anything. The most important thing is that you identify your own problems and understand those mistakes in the process. The mentality in high school is also very important, don't be discouraged because of one or two bad grades. Come on!

You don't have to think about these in the first year of high school, you focus on studying first, and the major you like may be captured when you usually read magazines or the class process or chat with others, study well first, so that you have more choices after the college entrance examination.

First of all, you have to adapt to high school life and keep up with the pace of the teacher. Then it is necessary to relax, don't put too much pressure on yourself, the knowledge of the first year of high school is not difficult, try to understand it, and lay the foundation for the second and third years of high school. In the process of studying, you can pay attention to your preferred subjects to prepare for future electives.

You can set some short-term goals, and do a three-year plan or one-year plan, and if you don't understand, you can ask seniors or teachers. In short, don't put so much pressure on yourself. This is the first year of high school, not the third year of high school.

I am confused in the first year of high school, what to do in the third year of high school, your problem now is to think too much, don't burden yourself, I think if you have to take the university entrance examination, don't think about the future for the time being, those things will wait until the college entrance examination is over to have time to think. At this stage, the only thing is to study, and if you encounter other problems, you will leave them to your parents and teachers, and they will be your escorts during this time. Be self-disciplined in learning, take the initiative, ask questions if you don't understand, don't be afraid of trouble and embarrassment, and sometimes you need to "don't lose face".

I envy you for being a freshman in high school, it's best to be young, there are infinite possibilities, (I'm a freshman, but I just regret high school, my grades must be very good if I study hard, what I said above is actually what I regret not doing at that time.) But this may be the regret of my life) You have to work hard, set a goal, which university you want to go to, just bury your head in hard work, and you must take it after two years.

In high school, there is actually appropriate pressure, always forcing yourself to do something, just like Wang Jianlin said, set a small goal for yourself. People can't live without dreams, and people who don't have a little pursuit are no different from those who are wasted. High school is actually a new starting point, and you're still a freshman in high school, so everything is in time.

When I was in my third year of high school, it dawned on me that when I started studying, it was really a super tiring process. The most important thing in the first and second years of high school is to lay a good foundation. You don't have to study hard every day, you can play hard after class or after school.

But first you have to be in class, listen carefully and do your homework. Of course, higher expectations are still required for review and preparation after class. If you feel like you don't have a goal yet, like the university you want to go to, or something.

You can buy a small post-it note, write down what you want to do every day, and tick one after you finish one thing, just like me in my third year of high school. You can write the homework assigned by the teacher today, and if you have less homework, you can arrange some things for yourself, such as memorizing 20 more English words, writing two math problems or Chinese reading, etc. Don't be ambitious and arrange a lot for yourself at once, do it in moderation, so that you will stick to it.

Nowadays, high school students are very stressed, and many people will feel lost, what is the purpose of studying so hard now? When I was in high school, I also felt lost for a while, I was very tired at that time, I didn't know what I kept brushing questions for every day, shouldn't people be happy in life? Aren't they all supposed to live their lives on their own terms?

At that time, my studies were no longer in the same state, my grades had dropped a lot, and my teachers also felt very strange about what caused me to be the way I am now. And then he had a conversation with me, and I'll never forget some of the big things he told me at that time. He said:

Studying is a very hard thing, you have to read every morning when you get up early, but at your age, isn't it your responsibility to study hard? Teachers are like this, if you don't go to school, what can you do? It's a very difficult thing to make money now, and if you don't have a good academic qualification, you can't find a good job.

You are wasting your time like this, you are living up to your parents' expectations of you."

The teacher's words made me realize that we are destined to be busy all our lives, and we have different things to do at different ages. Blindly avoiding will only make us more useless, and each of us longs to be able to live the life we want, but it is all created by our own hands.

Later, the teacher invited a student who was in college to come back, and she told me what life was like at university. To sum up "that's heaven" in one sentence, when I have a purpose again, I am no longer confused.

Who is not confused in high school, as a child from the village, no strength, no background, all rely on the entrance examination, high school is simply a dividing point in life, whether it is family or themselves are very important.

At this node full of beautiful expectations for the future, we are looking forward to passing quickly and welcoming a new beginning; But I look forward to time being slower, I don't want to leave these friends, and I don't want to change the existing state of life, so the two contradictory ideas keep colliding alternately.

When the age of fun-loving encounters and has to take on the choice, you can't have fun playing, and there will be an invisible pressure sinking in the depths of your heart to do anything, and you can't get rid of it. Looking at what kind of school the friends around me are determined to go to, I am also envious, jealous, and afraid; Seeing that some friends left the campus without finishing their studies, they were also envious, jealous, and afraid.

They have all chosen the future path for themselves and for themselves, at least from that period they are people with directions and goals, not like most of us who live in a mess and don't know what they want to do in the future, and it is this general direction that they don't work hard and feel lost and overwhelmed.

The collision of the maturing body and the immature mind back and forth, all kinds of practical and unrealistic thoughts swarm into the whole brain nerves, and I don't know which way is the final way back, and I still go to class, get out of class, sleep ...... every dayAnd just keep it going.

In my opinion, it is normal for such a phenomenon to occur, after all, it is in a period of transition, but no matter what, you still have to remember the word "forbearance", to be able to endure this turbulent heart, do what you should do, have your own goals, and persevere in the struggle, then in the following days, this confusion will fade a lot.

Confused.,I think everyone should be confused and overwhelmed in the third year of high school.,Grades can't be improved.,For girls,It's really terrible to have chemicals.。

As a girl, everything else is very good, but chemistry and physics, no matter what the teacher says, I can't understand it, and if I understand it, I won't do the questions.

In the first and second years of high school, I didn't take it very seriously, I was in a daze in class, and in the third year of high school, I was more nervous about studying, so I realized the importance of the college entrance examination, and then I began to study hard, listen carefully to the teacher's lectures in class, write practice questions after class, and ask teachers and classmates if I don't understand.

When I went back to the dormitory at night, I turned on the small lamp I brought from home to do the exercises, and I didn't go to bed until late, sometimes when the dormitory was urged.

Two months before the college entrance examination, the school made a board newspaper for each class, which said that each student wanted to go to the school, I was full of fighting spirit and filled in a medical school, everyone knows that the score of the general medical school will be relatively high, but I am really inspired to be a good doctor.

However, I didn't get a good score in the three mock exams, and then I was confused for a long time, I didn't know if I had to keep trying, and no matter how hard I tried, I still couldn't reach my target score.

There are still a lot of questions that can't be written, the score of the comprehensive exam is still so low, there are still a lot of English words that I haven't memorized, and there are still so many poems in Chinese that I haven't memorized, just like that, how to take the college entrance examination, but in the end, I think that as long as I work hard, no matter what the outcome is, I have no regrets about how many points I scored.

Therefore, there is only one way to overcome it, that is, to maintain a good attitude to face the college entrance examination, the pressure is there, but don't push yourself too much to reach a whimsical height, and recognize your own ability.

Confused! When I was a freshman and sophomore in high school, I basically didn't study hard, and my academic performance was almost always in the thirties or forty in the class. But the first and second years of high school only knew how to play like crazy, and never thought about what would happen after graduating from the college entrance examination!

I only started to think about how to go in life during the summer vacation of my sophomore year and junior year of high school, I was really panicked at that time, I really didn't know what to do, I wanted to study hard and I didn't know if it was too late, but I felt that I couldn't go to college and I was sorry for my parents!

Let's talk about the moment when I really realized that it was never too late, and that moment will be remembered for the rest of my life, because every time I think about it, it feels turbulent. The third year of high school started early, and school was about to start in August, once after class, I was going to squint a little and take a break, but subconsciously twisted it back, when I was sitting in the second row, I turned my head and found that everyone in the class was seriously doing questions or reading, no one slept or lay down, the fan was babbling at that time, and no one gave up!

Suddenly, there was an urge to burst into tears, everyone worked so hard, everyone didn't give up on themselves, why should I give up on myself! So that moment was really the moment when I was on the rise, I started to study hard, not to let myself slack off, and whenever I got tired, I thought about that moment that exhilarated me and fought again.

Maybe you don't believe it, but in the third year of high school, my grades went from thirty or forty in the class to basically stable around the tenth place later! So I'm really confused, because according to my performance in the first and second years of high school, I can't even get into three books, but I haven't given up on myself, I still want to work hard to try, you may succeed if you work hard, but if you don't work hard, you will never succeed!