If you want to find a loved one and have a child, you don t have to get married

It's also a disservice to the child! When the child grows up, ask my dad in**! What do you say?

I can't hide it for a while! Find someone who loves you to marry! See how he treats you?

It's not his fault that he's ugly! Personality can be changed! Hope you are happy!

You have to think clearly, your thoughts for the time being don't mean the future. You have to know that when a woman is pregnant for ten months, there is also the bitterness of a person with a big child. Do you really think that as long as you have children, it doesn't matter if you don't have a husband?

Letting a child grow up in a single family is also a disservice to him, please think about it carefully. I also wish you to find your own happiness soon!

The thinking is very avant-garde, the angle is very unique, and the words are very clear, I wish you happiness!

I'm also 34 years old, but unfortunately, I can't meet a good woman, and marriage is just a form of framework that is not necessary!

A good person does not mean that he is a good wife and mother!

In the end, it is not necessarily the best people who achieve the goal!

Say whatever you want, don't mind, don't be angry!

I thought we could talk about it and talk about it. It's nothing, I think it's good. I don't have either.

I'm in a similar situation to you, and my thoughts are similar, but people are not beasts, and the topic is solemn enough, can you talk about it in a different way, thank you.

34 gave birth to the first child, belonging to the advanced maternal age, the landlord still has to think about it, whether these secular visions of family members and colleagues can get by!

Summary. Hello! Marriage does not last a lifetime and wants children. Kiss, why don't you want children after marriage?

Hello! Marriage does not last a lifetime and wants children. Kiss, why don't you want children after marriage?

Now that you are young, you don't have children, and when you are old, you will have no children to support yourself.

I was 70 years old, and my health was not good at that time, what should I do?

Look at the 70-year-old people around you, who have sons and daughters, how happy they are.

But really don't want children.

It doesn't hurt when you want a child to be born.

Now I am afraid of pain and can have a caesarean section.

Pregnancy is like a person who has eaten enough, and his belly swells.

I had a little reaction in the first trimester of pregnancy, but then it slowly became normal and didn't react.

See stir-fried vegetable fumes vomiting, nausea.

I like to eat sour and spicy food.

I was hungry very fast, and I ate three or four meals a day.

How good it is to conceive a baby while you are young.

That's a blessing, it's best to be pregnant with a dragon and phoenix fetus. <>

Summary. Hello, I am very happy to provide you with the answer, I personally think that it is good not to get married and find someone to have a child, the loss of the woman in all aspects during pregnancy and breastfeeding, the man is responsible for making up for it, and half of the money spent on the child, and after the lactation period, the time required for the child is responsible for half of the time. The most important thing is that there is no trouble for both families, and women can have their own lives after giving birth, how good!

Of course, some people will say that such children will be traumatized psychologically in the future, but if this becomes a common situation, children will also be surprised and accustomed to it.

Hello, I'm glad to provide you with an answer, I personally think it's good not to get married and find someone to have a child, during pregnancy and breastfeeding, the woman quarrels all aspects of the loss, the man is responsible for making up for it, all the money spent on the child is half of the money, after the lactation period, the child needs to spend half of the time. The most important thing is that there is no trouble for both families, and women can have their own lives after giving birth, how good! Of course, some people will say that such children will be traumatized in the future, but if this becomes a common situation, children will also be surprised and accustomed to it.

But you need to know in advance the problems with such a phenomenon:1Children may suffer from strange eyes from the outside world in the future2

How is the child's daily life and learning divided? Who will take care of it? Who do the slow sedan chair children live with?

3.What if either parent suddenly stops raising the child? 4.

This parenting style may change the child's thinking and perception of society, and if these problems can be solved, it is possible not to fall in love, not to get married, to find strangers to gang up, and to have stupid children. Hello, are you asking this question because you are being urged to marry, or do you have some other questions?

Maybe you are too naïve, you don't live in a vacuum, you do have this kind of thin oxygen idea, your dream will never come true, life without a soul is just a cruel nightmare after all.

First of all, you are a human being, not a god, you have normal emotions and desires, the emotion of loving a person is not something you can break off, and it is impossible for any woman to be willing to have children with you just after a short period of love without children, not to mention love and emotion, flesh and blood love is a love that is difficult for any mother and child in the world to give up, even if it is a painful part, unless it is a last resort, no one will take the initiative to accept the result of knowing the outcome from the beginning. Your idea of cruelly stripping away human emotions in this way is not impossible, even if it is possible, I am afraid that even you can't imagine what will destroy and ravage your emotions in the future. If you are a woman, then the existence of children in an environment without a solid foundation for marriage and family is lifeless and meaningless for you and your children.

Secondly, as a child, you may be able to give him good paternal love (or maternal love), but what about maternal love (paternal love), can you give it? Can you give the love from your grandparents (grandparents)? Can a child who can be given but is deprived of maternal love (paternal love) grow up healthy?

Don't you feel cruel in the face of such a reality? If this kid were yours, would you think it would be fair? Don't you think it's ridiculous to bring so much undue destruction and lack to his father (or mother) just because he is at the end of some kind of thought?

Are you deceived by love, are you afraid of marriage, are you intimidated by the responsibility you owe to the other person? Any thoughts and behaviors that strip away emotions are unrealistic, they are to be thrown and shattered in reality, put away your fantasies, and walk into life realistically.

It is estimated that you are a woman, and there may be some kind of fear or boredom about marriage, look at the relationship between Jin Liang and Xiaomi in the recent hit "Kintaro's Happy Life", don't you envy it? If you only see the troubles from two families, you can't appreciate the happiness and sweetness of the relationship between the two of them, and if you really have a happy relationship, I don't think you will be willing to part with him. Because of this, I can tell that you don't have a real emotion and love yet, and if you do, you won't be so naïve to fantasize about anything!

Hehe, I wish you a real happy life for your family of three that belongs to you as soon as possible!

Why do you think so? Have you ever been hurt?

Why do you think so, have you been hurt emotionally before???

Hehe, it seems that you have watched too many Korean dramas... The plot of a young single mother makes you intoxicated, love is not so simple, and life will not be like a piece in a TV show...

But, of course, you can choose your lifestyle this way ... How can you, who can't endure hardship, understand how naïve and naïve you are? I personally support your thinking and approach ... If you want to grow up early, then do it ...

Good idea, but worth it**.

Estimates are difficult to execute, and if you are very rich, you can make an exception!

If they live separately in the future, will the child still be called the crystallization of love?

Yes?! It's so unfair to that girl!

It's unrealistic and irresponsible.

But you can't live a lifetime alone...The natural law of life is like this....Come and go....Over and over again....Although a person is quite good....But how can there be a person for a lifetime....Think about how good it would be to have a companion when you get old...It's cold, someone puts a dress on you....When you're hungry, someone cooks for you....There is no guarantee that you will be able to leave...The world of all things....As long as you are understanding, trusting, tolerant, respectful...I think you're happy.

Whether it is one person or two people, both have their own benefits and troubles, and there are many foreign singles, and China is relatively traditional, and those who choose to marry are just to go with the flow, or to find a caring and considerate partner.

In fact, it's nothing, it's just that you don't have children, how do you think the population comes from, you can still have a life goal after having a child, and many developed countries also have your thoughts, but you see they always say that the birthrate is declining, urging people to have children.

！！Do you want to be lonely for the rest of your life, and when you are old, whoever is filial in front of you, whose marriage is not smooth sailing, and you have to go through too much suffering to get sweet.

Sympathy. Giving birth to children and raising children is the only way in life, otherwise when you are old, who will take care of you.

Maybe everyone's concept is different, some people yearn to be with the person they love the most, have children, yearn for a romantic life, endure hardships with the person they love the most, enjoy happiness, accompany their children to school together, watch them grow up, and see their own figure in them!! Everyone has their own point of view, and your point of view I feel like a foreigner, hehe!!

I can only say that you haven't met someone you like yet, that's why you have such thoughts. Just let it be.

Young couples and old companions. You don't want to be old, you don't even have someone to help!

If your parents had done this, they wouldn't have you! Also traveling. Everyone is like this, and no one on the earth has long been planted.

Depending on what you think, maybe by the time you get married, you'll change those minds

When you're old, you don't feel good.

I don't understand this, it's all about the process of slowly changing.

A person has a person's way of living.

I feel the same way, and I don't want to get married.

Hopefully, you won't regret it years later.

When it comes to getting married, I believe many people are looking forward to it, because we all know that marriage is happy, and it is very beautiful.

Especially when we meet our favorite limb bridge person, then many people want to be able to marry each other even more. Because in this way, they can be with the person they like, and it will also allow them to have a happy and sweet love.

We all know that when two people get married, they may want to have their own children after they have been married for a while. But there are also some people who don't necessarily want children after they get married, so some people want to know if you think you have to have children when you get married? What happens if you don't have children?

Indeed, we see that there are now a small number of young people. Although they are married, they don't want to have children after they get married, and they even want to become the Dinks. He rents the group that it is enough for the husband and wife to live happily together.

But we see such people, after all, they are in the minority. Because for most couples, once they get married, they still want to have children of their own. Because we know that once a family has children, it will make their family more complete.

And having children will also make their family more warm and happy.

So we see that for most couples, when they get married, they still want to have their own children. Because once they have children, they will feel that the whole family is more complete, and they will be happier and happier.

So we're seeing more and more couples who are going to have their own children when they get married. Because in this way, the family can be happier and happier together, and the whole family will be more warm and happy.