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A person doesn't even support his parents, do you think this person is still useful in living in the world?
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Summary. If you encounter sentient beings who are unfilial to your parents and disobey your parents, you will suffer all kinds of disasters and punishments in the future.
At the very least, in the future, your children and grandchildren will follow you, and they will not be filial to you, do not flatter, and do not know how to care and take care of you. His hidden years will be very bleak and lonely. Not only that, but in the process of doing any business on your own, you will encounter many obstacles.
Life is very painful.
If you encounter sentient beings who are unfilial to your parents and disobey your parents, you will suffer all kinds of disasters and punishments in the future.
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Summary. We will be happy to answer your questions. From the point of view of cause and effect, you must first be a great filial son.
If a person is not filial to his parents, he will not be blessed with official luck. Led by filial piety. If you want to obtain good fortune, you must grasp the key points when doing good deeds and accumulating virtues.
Since doing good deeds can accumulate good fortune, and filial piety ranks first among all virtues, then we should first serve and take care of our parents, and naturally we will do great good deeds and accumulate a lot of good fortune.
We will be happy to answer your questions. From the perspective of cause and effect, we must first be a great filial son. If a person is not filial to his parents, he will not be blessed with his brother's official fortune.
Led by filial piety. If you want to obtain good fortune, you must grasp the key points when doing good deeds and accumulating virtues. Since doing good deeds can accumulate good fortune, and filial piety ranks first among the hundred virtues, then we can serve and take care of our parents first, and naturally we will do great goodness and accumulate a lot of good fortune.
The ancients once taught us: "Our parents were buried in the Buddha, so why should we respect the immortals in the mountains." Buddhism also says that parents are two Buddhas in the family, if the family can respect and filial piety to their parents, respect and serve their parents, then the benefits obtained are very Ming and Qing.
During my daughter's birth, she became more and more unaware of the word filial piety, felt terrible, and was restless.
This is likely to be due to childbirth, which causes pregnant women to be very emotionally irritable. Sensitive.
I also taught her, but I didn't listen, and I quarreled with me even more.
Chilling scolding. At present, there are also some pregnant women who have a great change in their personality after giving birth. Give her some time for the time being, perhaps because of the reason brought by her husband's family.
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Summary. Dear and happy to answer for you the consequences of unfilial piety Buddhism often says that parents are the two Buddhas in the family, and the best way to seek good fortune in the world is to be filial to your parents.
You also guess and be happy to answer for you, the karma of your parents is often said that your parents are the two Buddhas in the family, and the good way to do this is to be filial to your parents.
In our Confucianism, sages often say: filial piety comes first, and filial piety is the source of all goodness. If a person is not filial, his life and work will often be unsatisfactory, and it is often impossible to seek wealth and officials.
There is such a story that shows the importance of filial piety on permeability.
In Renhe, Zhejiang, there is a talented man named Ou Sizhi, who is over forty years old and has not yet given birth to a son. In order to continue the lineage of incense, he tried many methods, went to temples and temples to pray to the gods, used various yao materials and meat to replenish the body, and took various home remedies, but it still had no effect. One day, a passing monk came to visit and claimed to be able to know about the past and the future
For some reason, I still have no children. The monk said, "This is because of the mistakes you have made in the past, and you should release your life and confess in order to remove your karma from your past life."
Ou Sizhi was very happy and took the monk home and prepared to make a meal for the fast. When the monk saw his emaciated, sorrowful mother, who had her clothes torn apart and in tatters, he was shocked and said, "You have a living Buddha at home and you don't make offerings, but you look for other ways.
If you can reform your life and serve your mother as a Buddha, you will definitely have a feeling within three years. After listening to the monk's words, Ou Sizhi suddenly realized that he had reformed his ways, loved and cared for his mother, treated him well everywhere, and obeyed everything; The wife of the family was influenced by his behavior and treated the Hou family with sincerity, and in the following years, the Ou couple gave birth to two sons one after another. This incident is also known to the neighbors who lived in the late residence before the neighborhood, and people said that this monk was an incarnation of a bodhisattva, and specially instructed them.
We people in the world often seek riches, officials, and all things that we desire. But they don't understand that everything is caused and effected, and that only when we sow good causes can we get good results, and if all we plant is ecauses, how can we avoid the coming of e-effects? As a human being, we should know how to be grateful and filial piety, filial piety is the fate of all goodness, if even the basic filial piety is discarded, then the other good we do will also be greatly discounted.
If you don't understand filial piety, how can you really understand the meaning of goodness. If we can't sow the causes of true goodness, how can we get the fruits of true goodness?
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This is rare.
Generally speaking, it is natural for parents to be kind to their children. If parents treat their children badly, because no matter how bad they are, they still have the grace of nurturing, it is estimated that there will be no bad consequences. Unless it's child abuse or something like that.
If children treat their parents badly, they are spoiling Entian. Because it is difficult for parents to repay their kindness. Parents are roots, and if they don't nourish their own roots, they won't flourish if they make their own branches and leaves, but they will only wither more and more.
Of course, if parents do not take good care of their children, it is equivalent to not taking good care of the branches and leaves, and if the branches and leaves are not good, they will not be able to absorb the sun, and the natural roots will also wither. It can be seen that parents and children are one. One loss and one loss, one glory and glory.
Based on the above principles, parents should love their children and children should be filial to their parents. In this way, the family business will become more and more prosperous. As far as you are concerned, as a child, you should be filial to your parents, and you should be filial to your parents regardless of whether your parents are good or bad for you.
As a parent, you should not care what your children do, you should love your children, raise them to be useful to society, and pay attention to their moral education. In this way, you can accumulate merit for yourself, fertilize the field, and fulfill your parental responsibilities.
There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south!
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Onda? There are also many people who come into this world unwillingly, are forcibly kidnapped by others, and live a life at the mercy of their parents No one has the right to choose whether to be born or not?
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This one. It depends on how the children look at this issue when they grow up, and the world is unpredictable.
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When you are old, your children will support you.
Legal analysis: The adoptive child can take the surname of the adoptive father or the adoptive mother, and the adoptive parents shall agree on the wilderness. It is a right of the adoptive parents to change the surname of the adoptive child after the adoption is established, and the biological parents have no right to interfere or obstruct it. >>>More
Because I have just entered the social work, two or three years, I have not yet reached the stage of really supporting my parents, but I will send some money to my parents every month, or buy a little gift to go back to see my parents when I have no money. Some time ago, when my mother had surgery, I took a month's long vacation to go back and stay with her, massage her, and help her recover. I will always try to do what I can.
As the saying goes, it is better to be born than to be nurtured, after all, your adoptive parents have worked hard to raise you for more than 20 years, even if you are not your biological parents, I think you should still have the surname of your adoptive father. Your biological parents gave you away in order to give birth to a boy, which is too undeserved.
Your background is quite pitiful, so young by your biological parents to give away, but you are lucky, meet your current adoptive parents, so good to you, although there is no fertility grace but the parenting grace is greater, you try to avoid contact with your grandparents, to tell your adoptive parents, don't embarrass them, don't always quarrel with grandparents, family and everything is prosperous, don't make my family so unhappy because I am alone, isn't it a matter of property, (let your adoptive parents agree to the grandparents' request first.) , Make a will, and the will can only be made one, right, you can first make a copy to meet the requirements of your grandparents, and then make a copy of the true wishes of your adoptive parents, isn't that okay, this is not a deception, it is just a white lie). If you don't care about your adoptive parents' property, you can also make it clear to your grandparents and your adoptive parents face to face, I don't care about your property but feelings, so you can say it face to face to let your grandparents rest assured and your adoptive parents rest assured, don't worry about this, they raised you, and you have to go through this kind of pain, and you look very heartbroken,,, so you have to fight for it, come on, I hope it can help you.
According to the provisions of Articles 1111, 1117 and 1131 of the Civil Code, from the date of the establishment of the adoption relationship, the rights and obligations between the adoptive parents and the adoptive children shall be governed by the provisions of the law on the relationship between parents and children; >>>More