Confusion about biological parents and adoptive parents! 15

As the saying goes, it is better to be born than to be nurtured, after all, your adoptive parents have worked hard to raise you for more than 20 years, even if you are not your biological parents, I think you should still have the surname of your adoptive father. Your biological parents gave you away in order to give birth to a boy, which is too undeserved.

Don't be ungrateful, it's not easy to raise you.

Many biological parents are not as good as adoptive parents, this is a common problem in a country with a large population, people are advanced animals, but they are also animals, they enter school to study from an early age, it is to dilute the nature of animals, countries with large populations, most of them have no culture, so the nature of animals is dominant, everything can have children do not care much about children (can also be born), everything can not give birth to children as treasures (can not be born), this is the good and bad of a country with a large population.

Are your adoptive parents treating you badly? If you are raised so hard, you can change it if you can get by on conscience, this is your freedom.

Affection is not the maintenance of blood relationship, but the sincere dedication.

Children are the hope of the family, and every family hopes that their children can grow up healthy and happy. Many parents are very pampered when they treat their children, but many people feel that when parents pamper their children, they are not sincere to those adopted children. When you don't have your own children, you will treat those adopted children as if they were your own children, but after you have adopted children, you will give your love to your own children, and this kind of thinking is one-sided.

Many parents treat their love equally, whether it is an adopted son or their own biological children, they will treat it sensibly.

But there are also many parents who belong to that kind of eccentricity in their hearts, and after having their own biological children, they don't treat those adopted children sincerely, and some good things will be left to their biological children, feeling that those adopted children are not their own. They won't be good to themselves when they grow up, so they will be selfish. For such parents, they will not be respected by their adopted son, and even if you are old, your adopted son will not respect you.

When many parents get old, they find that their adopted son treats them better than their own children, and they regret it. Therefore, we should also treat those adopted sons rationally, and don't leave regrets in life because of some of our own dead hearts. They are also children, whether they are related by blood or not, they are also the closest people to them, so we should not have selfish intentions.

We must treat those adopted sons equally and treat him as our own biological child, and only in this way can we leave no regrets in our lives.

It's not very good, if you want to raise a child, you have to treat it sincerely, and don't treat it differently. This really hurts the adopted child. However, it is also a test of human nature, and most people will be treated differently after having biological children.

I think this matter is very shameful, since he has been adopted, you must treat him in the same way as you treat your children, and you can't be alienated because you are not related by blood.

Personally, I don't agree with the adoptive parents' approach, and I think that since the adopted child has been adopted, then it should be treated equally, and only in this way can I have a clear conscience.

I think it still depends on the individual's personality, because not all adoptive parents are only good for their biological children. But no matter what, as children, we must know how to be grateful, know how to reciprocate, and know how to be filial.

I think this should be a normal psychological change, after all, there must be a big difference between biological and adoptive, but if the child is still very young, it is best not to let them feel it, otherwise they will be very uncomfortable.

This is very unfair to the adopted son, although they have their own biological children, but they also have to love the adopted son.

I think this kind of behavior is very bad, since I have chosen this child, I should be responsible for this child, and give due fatherly and maternal love to this child.

The prototype of the child being abducted in "Honey", the parents found the child and recognized each other, from the age of four to eighteen, with a gap of 14 years.

The journey of biological parents to find their children is tortuous and difficult, and the children's memories of them are blank.

I have seen the comments of many netizens, if it were not for the adoptive parents to buy and sell, there would not have been such a thing as being abducted. The buyer should be held legally responsible.

For children, it is difficult to choose, and in the interview, the child said that he would return to live with his adoptive parents, and when I saw it, it was undoubtedly a blow to the biological parents.

Indeed, all the memories of the fourteen years are all adoptive parents, and they all say that the grace of parenting should be reciprocated, and this may be a good choice for children.

The biological parents know that their son is living a healthy life, and they should be at ease, both sides are parents, and they hope that Sen Chenbi's life will get better and better in the future.

I hope there will be fewer such incidents in my life, and there will be no harm without trafficking.

<> if you find out that you are adopted, you will not look for your biological parents, you have your own parents, so you will put your feelings completely on your parents. Because looking for biological parents, you also need to let yourself feel some emotional twists and turns. Silvery.

First, the emotional levelFor many adopters, the desire to find biological parents is out of emotional need. Some people may have a sense of unfillable emptiness and want to find their biological parents in order to understand their roots and make up for the lack of hearts. This emotional need is very strong for a person to decide to explore his past and explore it.

2.IdentityFor some people, looking for their biological parents is also to confirm their identity. In some cases, adoptees may not be given enough information, such as the names and addresses of their birth parents, to prevent them from being able to confirm their identity.

In this case, finding the biological parents can help them confirm their identity and obtain some necessary supporting documents, such as birth certificates, etc. 3.At the genetic level, some people may want to seek out their biological parents to understand their genetic information, such as risk of disease, personality traits, etc.

This information can have an impact on an individual's life and health, so some people may choose to seek out their biological parents in order to learn about their genetic information. 4.Moral DimensionIn some cases, there may be some moral problems in the adoption process, such as concealing the fact of adoption, or being forced to give up the child due to the pressure of life.

In such cases, the adoptee may wish to seek out the biological parents to understand the story behind them, and may even want to seek an apology or mediation. Overall, whether or not to go to find birth parents is a very personal decision that needs to be weighed against many factors. For many adoptees, finding birth parents can help them understand their identity, fill emotional gaps, access genetic information, etc., but there are also risks and challenges that may come with taking into account.

Go according to your own heart and thoughts. A lot of people don't feel your heart. In my opinion, it depends on your life now and why you went to your biological parents.

1. If your adoptive parents are very good to you and you are treated well, then you have to talk to your biological parents about it and ask for their consent before doing it. Otherwise, you'll break their hearts. In this state, in fact, you will find your biological parents will also have a lot of uncertainty:

They're doing well, and you're 2 more close relatives. If they are having a bad time, will you take on the obligation to support them?

Second, if you are not doing well at your adoptive parents' house, it should be more likely to go to your biological parents. The lack of family affection and care will make you want to find your biological parents even more, and you have gained family affection that you have never felt. This is a very personal question, and everyone can think and feel differently.

Some people may be very interested in knowing their biological parents and their birth background, while others may prefer to focus on their present and future and not so much on the past. If a person knows that he is adopted, he may face some emotional and psychological challenges, such as curiosity, uncertainty about his identity, loneliness, and so on. In such cases, he may consider looking for his biological parents or other relatives to get more information and learn about his origins.

3. Finding biological parents may also face some difficulties and challenges, such as lack of information, reluctance of biological parents to meet, and the emotional impact of revealing the secrets of their life experiences. Therefore, everyone needs to carefully weigh the pros and cons and consider their own emotional and psychological capacity when deciding whether to seek out their biological parents. At the same time, you can also seek help from a counsellor or relevant institutions for better support and advice.

If. After finding out that they are adopted, many people will want to go to their biological parents, to be honest, this is understandable, human nature, but if you say that you abandon your adoptive father and adoptive mother in order to find your biological parents, I dare not agree with this point of view, and I think that people who have this point of view, there is a bit of a problem with the three views, is there any contradiction between taking care of the adoptive father and adoptive mother and looking for the biological parents? No, there will never be anyone who travels around the world without a purpose to find their biological father and mother, right?

Finding your biological parents also requires an opportunity, and it is not something you can find if you want to.

2. Have you ever abandoned your adoptive father or adoptive mother to find your biological parents?

This kind of person can't say no, there must be, but it must be a minority, I have seen such a case, a couple because one of them lacks fertility, so they choose to adopt a child, after the child is adopted, they have no prejudice, completely as their own to raise, to spoil, but as the child grows up, after all, will know the truth, after knowing the truth, the child can not accept the fact that he is not born to his parents, after a period of consideration and persuasion, the child is recovered, But he made a decision that everyone didn't expect, that is, he abandoned his adoptive parents and went to find his biological parents.

I think this kind of person lacks the most basic moral qualities, as the saying goes: the grace of nurturing is greater than heaven. Even now, I can't figure out what their motivation was for abandoning their adoptive parents and going to their biological parents.

Summary: It is understandable to find out that you are adopted, and go to your biological parents, but if you are willing to abandon your adoptive parents and go directly to your biological parents, I think such behavior is an ungrateful person.