My wife is wrong, or my father is wrong

The sons are all married, which means that they can live independently, and from an ethical point of view, the elderly should be honored in turn.

The conclusion is: the elders should be the mainstay, the father's approach, understandable, on the basis of determining the 2nd mother's personality, should support the father to live a happy old age.

Your dad is wrong, treat it with heart.

No one is wrong, they are all for the sake of their own lives, is your wife wrong? Whose father doesn't spend money on his son, even if the son doesn't want it, the old man should also keep some pension money for his own use, now the old man's marriage is mixed with a lot of complicated emotions, who can guarantee that your second mother will be dedicated to your father to the end? In case your second mother cheats your father one day, won't you and your daughter-in-law be in trouble in the end?

Your daughter-in-law is doing this, on the one hand, to plan for you, and on the other hand, to leave a way out for your father.

Your father is not wrong, everyone wants to be happy in their old age, and they all want to give the other half a stable life, and the second mother is not easy to be, isn't it quite difficult for your father to be caught in the middle, and it is understandable to give her a support.

The key is that you have to check for your father, and see if your second mother is sincere to your father or temporary, and the original couple is still divorced, not to mention love in old age, right? I feel that you have to persuade your father not to give everything to the second mother as much as possible, if the second mother is really good to your father, she will give it in the future, but it's too early to give it now, really.

Are you short of money to spend, if not, tell your wife not to have nothing to do, home and everything is new!

Do you want to learn to understand others?

I've always felt that once I'm married, I shouldn't ask for my parents' money anymore.

Gnawing at the old all the time doesn't seem like what a good boy should do.

What does LZ think?

Personally, I think your daughter-in-law is wrong.

Something is wrong with my wife. Treat it sincerely, since it is sincere, how can it be measured by money.

Summary. My wife said it was my fault, and my parents also replied: If you are wrong, we have to review it together, first of all, we will review it ourselves. ：

To be emotionally intelligent when talking to your wife, you must first learn to listen effectively. Listen effectively, when it is your turn, you can speak efficiently, and the reply will be more accurate. Especially in the face of the other party's long-term narration, it is necessary to listen patiently, understand the key points in the other party's words, grasp the psychology of the other party, and then respond to the other party based on this.

My wife said it was my fault, and my parents also replied: If you are wrong, we have to review it together, first of all, we will review it ourselves. To be emotionally intelligent when talking to your wife, you must first learn to listen effectively.

Listen effectively, when it is your turn, you can speak efficiently, and the reply will be more accurate. Especially in the face of the other party's long-term narration, it is necessary to listen patiently, understand the key points in the other party's words, grasp the psychology of the other party, and then respond to the other party based on this.

So what should I say.

It should be said: be considerate of each other, and we should examine ourselves more.

Saying that, she didn't get any angrier.

No, you add later, first of all, I will review it myself.

1. I'm sorry, just kidding, please include any offense.

2. I'm sorry to make you angry these two days! Not intentionally, forgive me! Don't take it to heart!

2. I'm sorry to make you angry these two days! Not intentionally, forgive me! Don't take it to heart!

3. It was not my original intention to hurt you, the past must always pass, I am reluctant to ask for your forgiveness to me, I just want you not to be angry.

Fourth, if you apologize to your girlfriend - I am a farmer, don't be like me!

Fifth, I will use actions to illustrate the cut, will no longer make you feel sad and disappointed, the long road looks forward to working with them, and the people who will always love you.

6. If a man does not get a woman's understanding. What if you have ** under your knees. I kneel down to make 100 per cent reparations!

Seventh, I really want to blow the wind with you, blow away the unpleasantness I gave you, and only leave the happiness I gave you.

8. I'm a fool, I'm a fool, but believe me, I didn't mean to. Can you forgive me? My dear.

9. You seem to be angry, and I feel bad in my heart! If I made this mistake, I hope you will forgive me! If I can't forgive myself, I can't forgive myself.

10. Give you a stick, and beg you to beat me with a stick, and let out your bad breath; Give you a pistol, and beg me to reward me with a gun, and let out the stuffiness in your breast; Send you a cannon, and I beg you to shoot at me, and let out the resentment of your heart; I will defend you all over my body, and I ask you to forgive me for my mistakes, my dear, and have mercy on me.

Ten. 1. I made a mistake in my stinginess, you can kick me with your foot, don't ignore me, so that I blame myself more, tossing and turning and unable to sleep, send a message to apologize, my dear, as long as you are willing to forgive me, I will do anything!

Ten. 2. If my greeting scratches you, I'm helpless; It's a burden for you and me to get along, and I'm sad; It is a pity if the distance of the heart has been far away; If it's all gone, please make it clear.