Why don t my friends always care about my feelings?

I think you're a very kind and lovely person. You really want to be one with your classmates. You are very friendly to your classmates and cherish the relationship with them.

I think the problem is mainly with your classmates, you invite them warmly, why don't they come? It's because they don't value the friendship, not you. If you're doing well, there's nothing to be sad about.

You say you're not social, I don't think so. Since you really want to make friends with everyone, it's not that you don't fit in, but that you are a bit introverted and sometimes don't know how to socialize with your classmates. I'm also very introverted. So I'm well aware of that.

You have to be confident. Believe that you are no worse than others. You were admitted to the university, who dares to say that you can't? To make friends, you must be neither humble nor arrogant, in order to gain the respect of your friends.

Don't be too sensitive, sometimes you think that your classmates are hurting, maybe they are unintentional and just want to play a joke with you.

Be open-minded and brave to do what you want to do. Be honest with others, and you will eventually be loved by your classmates!

College is a new beginning, cherish it and don't waste it!

You say"It wasn't until I graduated from high school that I realized that every single one of my friends had hurt me", which shows that you are very sensitive inside. Due to your introverted personality, you should be lacking enough communication with the people around you. In what way do you say you cherish them?

You have to think about this for yourself.

In your subconscious, you are lonely, and you wish you could be part of a group like your friends. But your own personality problem has become your biggest obstacle, that is, you close the door of your heart and do not communicate with the outside world. Most people hope that their friends can enliven the atmosphere, because the pressure of social work and study is very high nowadays, you don't like to talk in front of your friends, and your friends don't know what you are thinking or what topics you are interested in.

Over time, everyone will feel that there is nothing to say with you, and subconsciously, in order to avoid the embarrassment of the cold scene, there will naturally be the situation of the banquet you are talking about. So, to change this phenomenon, you must first change yourself.

People can change, I used to be a very introverted personality and didn't talk much, but as long as you open your heart and are willing to communicate with others, everyone will naturally want to be with you, and there will be more and more friends around you.

I don't know exactly what you mean by being unsociable, but relationships between people are maintained by communication, so here are a few tips to help you take the first step towards making friends: 1. Talk about the anecdotes you have encountered. 2. Discuss your views on something with your friends (note that it is not for the two of you to debate, but to understand each other's views in this way, and at the same time achieve the purpose of communication.)

3. If you are with a group of friends, first observe which ones should share the same values as you, and then see what topics they are interested in. In the case that you don't reject these topics, look up some information and you'll have something to say the next time we meet.

Blindly tolerating and tolerating will not solve the problem in many cases.

Especially in today's society, in the era of emotional desert, we must learn to protect ourselves with a strong attitude and reduce harm.

Bless you to meet a friend who can make you strong.

Help you get out of the dark room of introverted closure.

It could be that you are too sensitive.

Don't think too much about it when interacting with people, and be confident.

If someone really has a prejudice against themselves, then go their own way, and others love how they are.

Forget about it: College is a new beginning.

College learns to be human.

Universities learn to fit into the community.

Don't always think about other people's feelings, think about your own feelings!

I feel that I am living for others, not for myself.

Then don't grieve yourself, have fun, use less Internet and have more contact with people.

In fact, life is like this.

In fact, it's not that you don't care about other people's feelings, maybe you haven't been greatly hindered in the process of growing up, your parents may protect you too well, or maybe you have too little contact with others, etc., in fact, you don't blame yourself too much, everyone has everyone's temper, and you don't need to cater to other people's temper, and change yourself, maybe after a while and look back, you will find that the people who love you always love you, and the people who don't love you never love you, in short, just do your best.

Because you are a self-centered person. There are also self-centered people everywhere in life, which is why they are like this. At that time, you were also a selfish person, who didn't care about other people's feelings, only your own feelings.