Why do people get married so late now?

It's too late, there's no need to waste time.

It's not late, it's that I don't have any money, and I can't afford to give a bride price.

First of all, I think it is a reason from the perspective of the overall environment, and then it is a reason from the perspective of a change in people's inner thoughts.

Judging from the current policy of opening up the second child, the number of marriageable people is getting smaller and smaller, compared with ten or twenty years ago, many families are only children or two children. Therefore, in terms of the population base of marriageable age, it is relatively small. This leads to the widespread situation that people today get married later.

Another is the late marriage and late childbearing advocated in the past, in fact, this concept has been generally accepted by people of marriageable age today.

From a human point of view, the first is that people today are more and more able to enjoy and pursue freedom. Especially now that the divorce rate is really getting higher and higher, many people feel that being single will be more free, and more and more people are financially independent, feeling that a person can live well, and no longer need to say that the other half or the company given by the children can live.

The second is that people are increasingly pursuing career success and feel that it will be better for them to marry a little later. Take myself as an example, I didn't talk about the object when I was in school, and if you work for a year or two after you come out of society, you will find that you don't look down on those accomplished people who have just graduated, and you don't look down on you, so what should I do? I have to say that I should be single and struggle for a few years first, so that I can meet better people.

Therefore, judging from the general environmental trend and a change in people's psychological development, it is relatively normal to get married later.

In the past, time was very slow, the traffic was flowing, and now the emotions are very light, and it is difficult to find someone suitable for marriage.

In the past, I got married early because I was influenced by traditional concepts, starting a family is a major event in life, and marriage is an important part of life, and even many people regard marriage as a woman's second reincarnation.

From the perspective of girls, women in the new era are relatively independent, have their own careers, have their own lives, and can live their lives very well without relying on men.

Most men are still very macho, that is, they want women to marry and raise children, but the current pace of life no longer allows women to be confined to the kitchen and balcony. If you can't balance this lever, your life will be out of balance.

And whether it is a man or a woman, after a few years of hard work, he is already considered old, and he is basically insulated from early marriage.

Then there is the current relationship is too fragile, and the kind of marriage in "Parents' Love" that is a lifetime is too rare now. For feelings are full of uncertainty and insecurity, who has the courage to step into the grave of love, marriage?

A fellow I know said that she is afraid of marriage, it is okay to fall in love, but she does not want to get married, she is Chinese New Year's Eve two years old today, and she also knows that this is not the way, but when she thinks of the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage, and the pressure of having children, she is afraid.

So even though they are emotionally stable, they have never come to the step of marriage.

Just 17 years have passed, and now many post-90s generations are also married, <>

In 2017, the marital status of Suzhou people, some data is a bit surprising......

According to the Civil Affairs Bureau, a total of 46,005 couples tied the knot in Suzhou in 2017.

In terms of the total number of marriage registrations, it has been declining for six consecutive years. In 2011, Suzhou hit a peak of 66,347 couples marrying, and the number of marriage registrations has been on a downward trend ever since. In 2017, there were 2,092 fewer pairs than in 2016 with 48,097 pairs.

Why the total number of marriages is decreasing can be seen from the age group of marriage registration.

Compared with the post-70s, post-80s, and post-90s generations have gradually become the main force, and most of the post-90s only children, some experts have analyzed that the downward trend in the total number of marriages is within the expected range, because the population base of the post-90s is already small.

In addition, most of the post-90s generation is still unmarried, still enjoying love, or still single, for them, marriage is still a very distant thing, not in the scope of consideration.

Last year 2017. The average age of first marriage in Suzhou is the age of the year, which is later than the age of 2016. Girls marry a little later than boys, with a difference of about years.

It seems that although the post-90s generation has become the main force of marriage, it has not been able to lower the average age of Suzhou people's first marriage registration. Post-80s. There are still many people who choose to get married after the 70s.

However, according to the statistics of the Civil Affairs Bureau, this age is already the earliest among the 13 cities in the province. The whole province collectively "got married after thirty". In addition to Suzhou and Xuzhou. All other cities are over 31 years old. Is it because there are too few girls now?

Why do you get married so late?

It is undeniable that late marriage has become a trend. According to the statistics of the age group for marriage, nearly half of them are not willing to marry until they are over the age of 30. For them, marriage is getting later and later due to social climate, the concept of love, personal development, the cost of marriage, and so on.

In addition, there are some areas where a large part of the certificate is supplemented, accounting for nearly 4 percent, raising the age of first marriage.

More than 20,000 couples divorce a year. It's all emotional discord.

In 17 years, 21,290 couples in Suzhou chose to divorce. Even on holidays like Valentine's Day, there are still more than 70 couples who resolutely divorce.

According to the staff of the Civil Affairs Bureau, the reason for the divorce of husband and wife is basically "emotional discord."'.However, detailed reasons, family disputes, living in two places, and the involvement of a third party are all important reasons that lead to the end of the marriage.

The ancients said: "The hand that points directly is old with the son; Death and life are broad, and Zicheng said. ”

Marriage has always been sacred, contemporary young people should improve the ability of "lovers", do not reluctantly get married, do not get married for the sake of marriage, and do not divorce because of a momentary anger, when the shoes do not fit, do not easily change them, learn to cherish and understand each other, there are not so many opportunities for re-election.

Late marriage due to financial pressure, but there are many reasons for getting married later, and here are some common reasons:

1.Financial pressure: With the rising cost of living, many people find it difficult to bear the financial burden of marriage, so they choose to marry later or not at all.

2.Increased level of education: As the level of education increases, people begin to place more emphasis on their careers and career development, and as a result, they delay their marriage.

3.Independent thinking: Modern young people are more focused on self-independence and freedom, and they are more inclined to wait to find their true love rather than get married at an early age.

5.Changing attitudes about marriage and love: Modern people's expectations and attitudes towards marriage are very different from previous generations, and they pay more attention to marital happiness and mutual respect, so they need more time to find a better partner.

In summary, the reasons why people marry later vary from person to person, mainly influenced by social and personal factors.

Times are changing, and people in big cities get married later. The human mind is progressing. The environmental pressure of society is too great, and the price of goods is too high. Too much pressure on young people.

Cause and effect cycle, now people are too stressed, fate will naturally get married, don't worry.

The reason for late marriage and envy - the material conditions for marriage are not mature.

Some people say that most of the post-80s and post-90s generations now have almost nothing before the age of 30, except for the rich second generation. Therefore, housing, employment, income and other issues all make them feel pressured. It is not a simple thing to want to get married, life needs money, and money is needed in all aspects, but your material conditions are not mature at all, how can you give the other party a stable life, how to get married.

The reason for late marriage - the mental age is unbearable to withstand the pressure after marriage.

Now the post-90s generation, most of them are only children, these people have obtained the greatest love from their parents, although these loves make them happy, but for them, not all of them can play a positive role. Sometimes love can restrain a person's ability to be independent and weaken a person's ability to endure, because they have lived under the protective wing of their parents for a long time, and they rarely have the opportunity to face some of the difficulties that life brings on their own. There are many post-80s and post-90s who have depression after marriage, most of which are because they are unable to bear the pressure of life after marriage, and overestimate their ability to bear it.

The reason for late marriage - the state of work restricts married life.

Nowadays, college students are everywhere, and the problem of employment has become a huge problem, and the competition in the workplace is intensifying day by day. Therefore, many post-80s and 90s generations not only have to face low salaries, but also endure huge work pressure. Overtime is the norm that we are accustomed to, and we don't have much time for ourselves.

In this case, even if they are married, there is no time for the husband and wife to get along.

The reason for late marriage - less gathering and more separation.

It is said that as long as two people love each other, no matter how far away they are, it is not a problem. However, the reality is that distance is a big problem for them. The marriage of two people must be built on the basis of life at the beginning, if both of them are not living together and do not know each other well enough, how can they believe that they can manage their marriage well.

Nowadays, more and more people are choosing to delay their marriage. The "age of marriage" criterion between the sexes has become blurred, with some people marrying before the age of 30, while others decide to marry after the age of 30, or even later.

There are many reasons why people marry later. First of all, the present generation has more freedom and opportunities to freely choose their own way of life. In addition, it takes time to develop social skills such as mutual understanding and communication, and it is difficult to find time to pursue love and marriage in the fast-paced life of constant study and work.

In addition, modern people pay more attention to self-realization, the pursuit of career development, economic independence and personal value embodiment, which requires time and energy. Getting married often means giving more responsibilities and work, which is why many people delay getting married.

Although late marriage has its advantages, it also comes with many risks and disadvantages. Women's fertility shrinks due to age, career development and financial support are affected by marrying too late, and the inability to enjoy the married life of a young age after late marriage. [As an AI assistant, I don't get involved in any sensitive topics, please try other topics.] 】

Stressful, just an adult in college, college to go to graduate school, into the society to do an internship, part of it is to start in three years, right, with Chen Shiqing's calendar, to find a girlfriend, right, the premise of finding a girlfriend is two (car, house), except for a few, it's almost about 30 years old, married, to maintain family relations, to make money, for the next generation to fight, the previous generation to struggle, this pressure is not hit, a bad maintenance is not to divorce

There are various reasons for late marriage, but the common ones are the following:

2.Career development: Some people focus on their careers for a long time in order to pursue career success, resulting in no time and energy to focus on marriage and family.

3.Financial pressure: In some loss-making cities, the cost of living is higher, and some people may need a longer time to accumulate enough financial foundation to afford the cost of family living, so they will choose to marry later.

4.Personal choice: Some people may be more focused on their personal space and freedom, or they may be more focused on their career and pursuits, and therefore choose to delay their marriage.

5.Family background: In some families, family pressures and expectations may lead children to choose to marry later in order to better fulfill other family responsibilities.

In conclusion, there are many reasons for late marriage, and everyone's pure or divine situation is different. Before making a decision, one should carefully consider one's own personal circumstances and needs, and carefully assess what marriage means and affects you.

In modern society, more and more people choose to marry later, and this phenomenon is mainly due to the following reasons:

First, the level of education has improved. With the popularization and development of education, more and more people are pursuing higher education and have more opportunities in their careers. After receiving a higher education, people will have more goals and plans, and later marriage becomes an option for some of them.

In addition, the high cost of investment in higher education has made people more focused on their career development.

Second, economic pressures. The cost of living in modern society is getting higher and higher, and the demands on the economy are getting higher and higher. Due to the pressures of housing prices, education costs and living costs, many people need to take a longer period of time to accumulate enough financial strength to be able to take on the responsibilities of their families.

Therefore, getting married later has become an option for many people to ensure that they have enough financial foundation before getting married.

Third, personal development. With the emphasis on personal development and free choice, many people want to explore more opportunities in their professional and personal lives, or to better understand their inner needs and goals. Therefore, marrying later has also become a good option in order to better understand yourself and your future direction.

Fourth, the change in the concept of marriage and love. In traditional culture, marriage is considered a duty and obligation, while young people in modern society pay more attention to the individualization and equality of marriage. Therefore, many people prefer to wait until they meet the right person rather than rush to get married because of social pressure.

Fifth, changes in the social environment. With the continuous changes in the social environment, people's concept of marriage has also changed. More and more women are independent and have their own careers, no longer dependent on men, and no longer see marriage as the only way out.

As a result, many people choose to marry later to pursue their career and life goals.

In general, people choose to marry later mainly due to factors such as improved education level, economic pressure, personal development, changes in the concept of marriage and love, and changes in the social environment. Late marriage has become a trend.