Is it good for a girl to be engaged and not married, and to live together

Hello friend is lucky to be able to help you answer your questions, I think it is best not to live together before getting married, girls should not live with men whether they are in love or after engagement, because the dignity of girls is the most precious do not let the other party think that you are a casual and worthless girl, girls should be reserved no matter what they want, protect themselves and know how to refuse all bad actions of boys, so that you can get the attention of others, and the boy who loves you will love you more and focus on you, It's not that it's not good for girls to live together if you're engaged and don't get married, but that no matter who we're with, we have to protect ourselves, we have to be reserved and protect our dignity, and if you want others to respect you, you must first be strict with yourself, this is my answer for you, I hope I can help you, I wish you a happy life.

As long as you don't have a marriage certificate, cohabitation is not a very good thing, and once something goes wrong, it will hurt the girl the most. Girls should protect themselves.

1. Consume youth.

Women age earlier than men, and at the age of 25, their bodily functions begin to decline.

It is possible that after living together for a few years, the man is still not ready to get married, and the woman can only wait, after all, she has been waiting for many years.

The most tragic ending is that the woman waited for many years, wasted several years of youth, and finally broke up.

Second, the cost of physical health.

Young and strong two people, living together, it is inevitable that there will be physical contact, in case the baby comes, do you choose to get married and give birth to the baby or find another way?

Because there is no legal marriage as a guarantee, and the man does not agree to give birth, the innocent child can only choose to have an abortion, and frequent miscarriages must first bear the pain on the operating table, and secondly, it may lead to lifelong infertility because of the unsuccessful operation of **.

So before living together, girls must think about this issue clearly, because in this matter, you are the one who will be hurt in the end.

3. Causing psychological trauma.

The vast majority of unmarried women choose a cohabitation partner, most of them are based on the premise of true love or marriage, once they are ruthlessly abandoned after living together and having a ** experience, this will bring great harm to women emotionally.

Even when dealing with the next relationship, they are more inclined to get married than enjoy love.

Nowadays, it is inevitable that young couples will choose to live together before marriage when they are in love, but I still recommend that before that, you must consider all aspects of the problem.

There are still certain disadvantages to the girl who is engaged and not married and living together, after all, if she is not married, in case there is a moth, the girl will suffer a loss.

Now you can live together before marriage, it can be regarded as a trial marriage, although you are engaged, but you may not know each other very well, and you can better understand each other together, whether you are a person worthy of entrusting for life, if not, you can not get married, so as not to regret it.

Whether it's good or not is not absolute.

Engaged and unmarried, cohabitation can be very bad for girls, and it can cause trauma to the girl's body and mind, both physically and physically. Life is the process of constantly choosing to understand while walking, in case the end of engagement is to break up and not get married, then the damage caused by the girl's cohabitation is immeasurable, such as accidental pregnancy, **, slippery fetus, which has a profound impact on the body, spirit, psychology and physiology. Impure girls will be harassed by boys in their marriages in the future.

It's okay, as long as you have received a marriage certificate and are about to have a wedding, this kind of thing is nothing, but living together before marriage is indeed a little bad sometimes.

If you are engaged and not married, if you don't get a marriage certificate, cohabitation is definitely not good for girls.

There is no standard answer to this question, and Hu Fanna buries it because every couple's situation and thoughts are different. Some people may feel that cohabitation is a way to enhance their relationship and get to know each other, and some people may feel that cohabitation can bring some problems and stress.

Why do you want to live with your boyfriend? Have you discussed this?

Legal Analysis: Reasonable. Betrothal, also known as marriage contract, according to Chinese folk customs, usually precedes marriage with an engagement ceremony.

However, according to the current laws of our country, engagement is not a necessary procedure before marriage, and a marriage without engagement does not lose the validity of its marriage. Engagement is legally a contractual act, a status contract. Only after marriage registration and obtaining a marriage certificate can the relationship between husband and wife in Qinchang be confirmed.

Legal basis: Article 1049 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. If the provisions of this law are met, they shall be registered, and a marriage certificate shall be issued to Xunlu.

The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Legal analysis: China's law does not stipulate whether cohabitation can be made after engagement, there are not a few men and women who live together after engagement, but there are also some couples who choose to live together after marriage, which is the result of mutual consultation between the two parties.

Legal basis: "Interpretation of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China on Marriage and Family (1)" Article 3: Where a party initiates a lawsuit and only requests the dissolution of the cohabitation relationship, the people's court will not accept it; where it has already been accepted, a ruling is made to reject the lawsuit. Where parties initiate litigation due to disputes over the division of property or child support during the period of cohabitation, the people's courts shall accept it.

What's the deal with reluctance to cohabit after getting engaged? Here are some reasons to consider?

Second: due to the hindrance of the other party's family, the engagement may not have gotten the bride price, since the bride price has not been obtained, the other party's family is not allowed to live together, which can be said to be a hint, if the bride price is enough, then the next thing is easy to say, so don't give cohabitation first.

Generally speaking, when two people get engaged, it means that two people have already lived together, why do they have to talk about this settlement issue after they are engaged, haven't they lived together before the engagement? If this is the case, then the emotions of the two people really did not run in well. If you get married early like this, it will have a lot of impact on the future, because life is not an overnight thing, and it is difficult to find out the problems of both parties if you have not lived together.

If the other party doesn't want to say it, you can't force it, but it's not a good thing, because it's all come to the point of getting engaged, and there's nothing you can't say. However, no matter what the reason, everything has to be considered for marriage, and if you like someone, you choose to let go of these things.

It may be that the heart is more conservative, after all, engagement is not marriage, and you want to start experiencing real husband and wife life only after you want to get married.

After getting engaged, they are unwilling to live together either because they are sick, or they are cheating on marriage and defrauding money.

Everyone has their own little secrets and living space, and some conservative girls will not agree to live together before the wedding, and some girls refuse to live together because they don't want to live together too early.