What should a student of Buddhism do when he meets someone he likes?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-17
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    When a person who studies Buddhism meets someone he likes, he can also pursue it. There is no rule that says that a person who studies Buddhism cannot get married, have children, or fall in love. As long as you truly cultivate your mind and cultivate virtue, you don't need to care about those rules and regulations.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Studying Buddhism also has its own view of happiness. There are also the pursuit of human nature and the pursuit of true happiness in life. Buddhism summarizes happiness as:

    1) Healthy and reasonable lifestyle; 2) Optimistic and open-minded mental state; 3) civilized and noble social behavior; 4) Positive and responsible life ideals. Pursuing someone you like and doing what you like is also one of the teachings of Buddhism.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Actually, I think it's okay, there are a lot of students now, but they still have their own love, it doesn't matter, as long as they love each other, their lives will be very satisfying, don't think about it so much to pursue it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The Buddha said that everything goes naturally. To like is to like it from the heart, and to like it is the same as seeing the object you like.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When you meet someone you like, you should cut off the Buddha's fate and return to the city.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is okay to cultivate the view of impurity, to cultivate the view of white bones, to be a relative, and to immediately and sincerely recite the Nam Wu Great Pessimistic Guanyin Bodhisattva or the Great Compassion Mantra and so on.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think that although you study Buddhism, people have seven emotions and six desires. If you are dedicated to the Buddha and cut off the seven emotions and six desires, then you will reject him, but if you will still be moved, it proves that you are still Chen Yuan and will not cut off.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Look at your own heart.

    It's up to you to decide.

    If you are full of concentration, you will decide directly.

    If you decide that you can love, accept it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's been decades, and all of it has been blown away by the wind, and there's nothing about it, he said his. You do it with a clear conscience.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Loving and being loved has nothing to do with your personal beliefs. If you like it, accept it, and if you don't like it, you just reject it. In any case, it's all fate.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Personally, I think that believing in Buddhism is just a kind of faith, but also a kind of spiritual sustenance, and it is not a substitute for everything, so believing in Buddhism does not mean that you can't deal with objects or start a family, because believing in Buddhism does not mean that you can't become a monk, so you can do everything for normal people, faith is faith is not a substitute for everything, so it's a good thing to have faith, but don't use faith to bind yourself, because you are not one of them.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's normal to believe in Buddhism, and it's normal to be loved? As long as they are not ordained, Buddhist believers can get married and form a family.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If we love each other, we can continue, which is a good thing.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    That's just the cause or debt of your past life.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Believing in Buddhism can also fall in love, what's so strange about this, it's a good thing to be loved.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you're not married, think about it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you love him, be brave enough to accept it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This shows that you are not in the world, and the Buddha did not say that you have to become a monk, whether you are married or unmarried, you can practice at home.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Cause and effect over the years, not easy to elute.

    Let go of ego, then there is no self, no opposite sex, and no ambiguity.

    All sentient beings have Buddha nature and can become Buddhas, so how do you know that she is not here to hone and transform your Bodhisattva?

    Just face it with purity, respect, and compassion.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    How do people who study Buddhism deal with the ambiguity of the opposite sex? Then I think if he likes it, he will protect it for the rest of his life. If you don't like it, you'll be honest.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    To learn Buddhism, the Buddha is in the heart, and the goodness is the foundation, but in the era of self-choice in the new society, one's own life is led by oneself, because, in the great era, master the choice, and treat yourself well and go with the flow.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Go with the flow. Be calm.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The body cannot be protected, let alone the outside of the body!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Color is emptiness, and emptiness is color

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I personally think that you yourself know that you are married, have your own family, you still believe in Buddhism, a man loves you no longer he is not here to save you, but to harm you, this is estimated to be your own calamity, you have to spend more time with your husband, put your energy more on your own family, collect your own heart, control yourself, stay away from that man, as long as you don't want no one to control you, this is up to you, good luck! Come on!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Believe in Buddhism or Fate? This has nothing to do with being tempted. Since you are married, you should keep your distance from that man and not give the other person a chance to think about it. Otherwise, it will ruin your family. Of course, if your family is not in harmony, you may have to think about it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Whether you believe in Buddhism or not, since you are married, you can't be tempted by anyone, and you can't accept that other men love you except your husband.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's best to have less contact with him, less to be alone, take care of yourself, and don't make a slap sound.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You are married, and it is unhealthy to have this kind of mentality, not only is it not allowed by law, but it is also not allowed morally, and it is best not to.

    To think about so many of these messy things.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you don't want to get a divorce, stay away from him, it's good for everyone.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Can't I get married if I believe in Buddhism?

    Some laymen can.

    If you don't want to get married, you can control it.

    The Buddha also hopes that people will live happily and have good hearts.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It shows that the cultivation of Buddhism is not high enough, and we need to continue to work hard.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Your husband doesn't stay with you often.

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