Friends who have walked through adolescence please enter 5

People don't take teenagers lightly, teenagers don't know the taste of sorrow, when they were young, they were like this, and when they grow up, they will understand the good intentions of their parents, it doesn't matter, time is a good thing, let it help you.

This is a stage that everyone will go through. When you're going to confront your parents, think about what you've done wrong and don't get into the nitty-gritty! Be empathetic!

Communicate with your parents to know why they are talking about you, and apologize to them

Disagreements with adults, sometimes, are really hard to control. Or sometimes you are really in a bad mood, or sometimes you are really disgusted with what adults do. But in fact, after thinking about it, patience is over.

There's really no way, just keep silent, don't talk back at every turn

I think this has a lot to do with the fact that your parents are too strict with you, and generally parents will have this kind of rebellious mentality if they are too strict.

I'm the same as you, I'm half angry with my mother, what about you, it's better to learn to endure it, endure it, everything is over, and relax your heart.

I'm not entirely to blame for being like that in adolescence, I've had the same experience as you, as long as I master my normal mentality, OK?

Buy her a small gift for her, or cook a meal (even if it's not tasty, she'll be happy), and you can communicate with your mom through your dad

I'm speaking from experience!

This is youth

There's no way, adolescence meets menopause, Mars hits the earth!

Try to talk less and do more! ~~

Communicate with your mother.

If you don't fight back, you can't fight back.

It's just to be silent, but let's think about it.

What would you do if you had children of your own?

People become sensible when they reach a certain age.

Everyone is very headstrong

Only time will teach you

Slowly sensible

I also my mom off a lot, and sometimes I get angry too!

Try to control yourself.

It's normal, I also quarrel a lot.

It doesn't matter.

Slowly you will understand.

Is your diary about something very private? Then you should keep your diary in a very secret place, and if you don't want your parents to see your diary, you should write it secretly, and don't even let them know that you have a diary.

For example, like me, my private diary is full of super horrific content, and my parents saw that I definitely died a miserable death. I think Diary 1Parents like to keep a diary when their children are not at home, and if you find out which of your drawers is locked, you will do whatever it takes to get the key.

Some parents may have lifted the drawer, taken it out, and seen enough. That's the scariest thing!!

2.I'm pulling this the way I'm used to! I don't know if you have the habit of writing every day.

I write it every few weeks, and each time I write another page and say, "Haha, I'm such a genius, I can make up a few pages in front of me in exchange for someone else's diary!! And so on, and make some markings, this is to pave the way for yourself, just in case!

If you think that the method I said is not good, then you can simply do it, forget it, if you don't write it, it will be difficult for your parents to ask you, will you still say it? In fact, some of them are just memorized in your mind, and you don't have to write them all out, I don't believe that some of the things that make you unforgettable are that you can forget them

If your mother really reads the words, according to what you said, she didn't scold you, envy you for having such a mother, if my mother would scold me to death 100%. After this lesson, don't let your parents see your diary, be sure to hide it

Good luck pulling.

It's okay, if your mother pays attention to your growth and education, she will not criticize you, but should better guide your growth in adolescence!

It's normal that I also keep a diary and mine is a codebook.

What a diary?

I'm afraid my parents will burn when they see it.

I've also encountered it, unlike you, I went directly to my parents and told them not to read it again in the future, and they didn't say anything after seeing what I wrote, and they will never peek at it again.

My diary was also seen by my dad

I was angry when I found out, but what could I do

He is my elder after all

I haven't kept a diary since

He couldn't see it if he wanted to

Important things don't need to be recorded, what is really important will be written down by your heart

On the one hand. It shows that mom cares about you. The growth to be worried about.

Since it's mom. I should have had puberty. I think she would understand some of the feelings of a child at this age.

For example, a liking for someone or other small feelings. Mom should have experienced it too. If your mother doesn't have any serious objections to you.

I think even mom really watched it. It shows that she also understands your feelings.

Of course, on the other hand, Mom's approach may not be quite right. Is it that there is a lack of communication with your family at home, but your mother has a desire to know you, so she has adopted this not very good method. If you have the chance, you should talk openly with your family.

It's not that there are little secrets that can't be kept. But sometimes parents can be a person to talk about. I am sure they will support and help you unconditionally.

Nowadays, some people still write diaries in the space for us to see, and often ask us to step on them.

You're right, you can make it clear to her, you want your own space. Your territory, your way.

You put a hair in your journal, and the next time you find it missing, it means that it has been read.

Is it important to keep a diary?

Depending on what is written.

If it's something inconsequential. Doesn't matter.

If it were. Quite serious. Tell your mom directly.

Please respect my privacy".

It's very emotional......Questions?

If so, then you don't have to think about anything.

As if I didn't know anything.

I guess your mom won't say anything.

I've had this happen to me too.

The way to do this is to play dumb

Parents have a quirk of reading their children's diaries, who makes them parents? It is right to worry about it, and the biggest obligation of people like us is to hide the diary, or don't write it, and whoever lets others read their diary will feel uncomfortable.

Try to go alone on the noisy street to get rid of the embarrassment and fear in your heart. Remember to keep your journal locked up or hidden in a hard-to-find place in the future.

High school is very stressful, if it is possible, try to make a friend who can talk to you, so that the pressure can be released as soon as possible without squeezing. When two people share happiness, there will often be a 1+1 2 effect; There will also be 1 2 half as much relief for two people to bear the pain. A bosom friend is important during adolescence.

Because high school is only going to get more and more intense, there isn't that much time for you to find a friend you can trust. You also can't really trust someone in a short period of time. Given your situation, the following two solutions are recommended:

Take the time to think about what you really want. Once you know what you want, make a short-term plan (what you should do when you want, what goals you want to achieve in the next month, what you should achieve in the next year, etc.). It's best to make a timetable and stick to your plan) Now that the plan is set, just go according to the plan, don't care too much about other people's comments and ideas, and go your own way and let others say it.

After all, it's mediocre who is not envied and talked about.

Take the time to make a friend, and you can put aside the things you want to study. Because listening to your introduction, your foundation in the early years of high school is very good, so it is not very difficult to maintain this grade and squeeze out some time to chat with friends. Alone but not in adolescence.

Having a close friend during adolescence is very helpful for one's own psychological growth.

I can only provide so much help, I'm also a high school student, but I'm more interested in life, I hope to help your younger sister. (I'm in my third year of high school, hehe, next year's college entrance examination).

Hehe, it's the same as when I was a child, which means that your parents are still relatively strict.

I'm not a psychology expert, and I haven't studied psychology, but I'm also in adolescence, and my mind is complex and weird, and I think a lot. The environment in which we grew up had a great impact on us, and many times we felt that living was just to die one day, and there was no point in it. But I feel that no matter how I spend my day, I have to face it the same, why not be happy and relaxed, say what grievances you have, try to fight for what you want, try to avoid people and things you don't like, don't be sensitive to other people's emotions, and it will be better to be numb in this regard.

As for the parents, it is purely because they do not understand the hearts of their children, due to the pressure from all aspects of life, they also have their own suffering, but in any case, they love us, and we should also be more considerate of them. Sometimes what we think for ourselves isn't necessarily right. Just be the best version of yourself and don't think about it.

In your adolescence, maybe your parents did not give the right guidance, but you personally worked hard, so that you did not fall, but rose up to catch up, but you did not allocate your study and entertainment time correctly, resulting in you missing a lot, and now you are only studying, studying, and learning. So now you are lost and afraid.

Maybe your parents think you're stronger! In fact, there is no need to see whether your parents are happy or not, you have to see whether it is worth it, whether it should be or not, and you must learn to judge the value.

It's that you think too much, in fact, I also thought so, this is caused by too much study pressure, you should not be good at making friends. To be honest, when you bury your head in studying, people may say, study really hard, maybe there is nothing, whether you say it or not, they forget it in a blink of an eye, and it is only you who are sad, right? You just have to remember:

Stick to your original intention, don't care about other people's opinions, others will not accompany you all your life, on the road of your life, only yourself, others are floating clouds. Stick to yourself, work hard, and don't let yourself regret the years of your youth when you're old. Parents choose a good school, then you just try your best to study, don't have too much baggage, when you are stressed, it's not that you're really tired, but you want to escape.

The road of life is always to walk alone, and you can't solve problems by escaping, and you have to face it if you are strong. Believe in yourself! You're the best!

What do you want to ask? Be specific.

This is too harsh, right? You're an adult.

It's still not good to rest, so I have no choice but to find a book and see what's going on.

I've had iron buddies for 5 years, two.

The perception is very deep and worth learning.

Do you want me to be honest. It's impossible for a girl not to care at all, the focus is on what relationship to develop. If it's a boyfriend or girlfriend, it will definitely pay attention to it, and girls are very face-saving.

If it's a normal and ordinary friend, as long as you're good enough, over time, good-looking girls will ignore it. And you have to be confident enough, for example, I'm an impatient, I don't like people to ask some people if they don't get something, and they cringe. Happy.

It's good to be happy, don't think too much, be confident, if you have good grades, it's even better, girls look at boys in addition to appearance, pay more attention to grades, if it's not good, it's too late to work hard, since there is no advantage in appearance, why not study hard, let him see a new you? Heartfelt words, respectfully.

Dizzy, maybe you're thinking too much, maybe people just want to recognize a brother, and they don't mean anything else. Girls of this age want a brother who is good to them, such as me. I dreamed of having a biological brother, but God wouldn't give it to me.

It also depends on how she is, if she is the kind of person who is obedient and has no scheming, it is that you think too much, if it is the kind of very xx, she may be greedy for your money, but it all depends on what you think.

Also, gossip and ask: Are you interesting to others, so care about her thoughts.

I don't think adolescent girls care too much about how their friends look, at least for me. But if you have a good feeling, then you have to look good.

Adolescent girls pay the most attention to their appearance, and it is recommended that you divert your energy.

You'll understand later, and I wish you a happy one.

I'm not rebellious.

But they're too verbose.

Especially my dad.

I'm happy everywhere.

Maybe you are psychological, feeling that adolescence will be rebellious.

Hehe, get along with your parents.

Happy ha.

I used to be like that, but now that I think about it's been a long time since I've talked back to them, 555555555555

My puberty is over

No matter how big the conflict is now, it won't take long for you to understand that although they are a little impersonal in many things, the starting point is right, and we can forgive love!

I am very rebellious 16, and my parents can't control me.

But I'm still good at studying, so no matter what I do, they don't care much about me.

I talk to friends and they all know it, they let us divide it, I don't do it.

I had a fight with them that day, and I stayed at the same school for a few days and didn't go back.

It's good to be rebellious!