After breaking up with his ex boyfriend, he found out that he was sick, should he pay for it?

After breaking up with your ex-boyfriend, if you find out that you are sick, whether you need him to bear your ** expenses is a more complicated issue. Here are some considerations:

1.If the breakup between you was due to him and he is still responsible for you right now, then you may consider talking to him to see if he is willing to pay some or all of the ** expenses.

2.If the breakup between you is not his fault, then there is no reason for you to ask him directly for a fee. Nor is he obliged to take responsibility for it.

However, that doesn't mean you can't get help. You may consider making a request to him in a more indirect way, such as communicating your needs to him through mutual friends or through social interactions. At the same time, you can also seek other ways to share the cost, such as through health insurance or seeking help from other relatives and friends.

Whichever way you choose, be mindful of maintaining good communication and understanding to avoid unnecessary conflict and harm.

Is it because of him? If it's his reason, although they have broken up, I think it is necessary for you to discuss with him, and if he is a responsible man, he should give it to you. If it's not his reason, you have no reason to ask him for money, and he has no reason to give you money.

As for how to speak, I can't help...

Since it is all shared, it will be very embarrassing to ask for this money, and I told the friend of LS: Zhou Yu beat Huang Gai, and he is willing to fight.

3 All ex-boyfriends, then don't want it!

Since he chose to break up and turned him into an ex-boyfriend, then it's good to be thorough and not get along. Really, I don't know how you separated in the first place, because you knew you were seriously ill, so you forced yourself to leave, or was it not appropriate for you to separate later?

If you choose to break up because of your illness, then you shouldn't go back. After all, you just chose to be noble, so you might as well be noble to the end, so why bother to entangle with him and drag him down? If, after you are not suitable with him, you find out about your illness, you go to tell him, why?

Is it to win his sympathy, or do you want someone to be by your side when you are in danger and never leave you?

Don't be stupid, my dear. If a person loves you, even if they are separated, he will be unwilling and will always pay attention to you, then he must know your news in his own heart. Why do you bother, go to him for a showdown, I don't understand if you want to test your humanity, or if you want to dream?

I know that when you are seriously ill, you must be panicked, confused, and don't even know what to do. And at this moment, the person you once loved with you is like the last straw, you want to hold on to him tightly, you want to draw strength from him.

However, you have forgotten that you are separated and have no relationship, so what reason do you have to go to him? So, be strong, fight the disease well, and welcome your new life as soon as possible. Also, you have to be optimistic and cheerful, because, many times, people's mood directly affects the final effect.

So, I hope you can focus on your own body, accept ** well, and strive for an early recovery.

In short, I hope you are strong and can be your own backing, besides, you still have the parents who love you the most, I think, this is enough to support you to persevere! Finally, I wish you a sooner time and a new relationship.

If it is a minor illness, then there is no need to tell him. But you are seriously ill, and you can hide this matter for a while, but you can't hide it for a lifetime, rather than let him find out for himself, it is better for you to tell him the truth yourself.

Because if you don't tell him, you usually give people two reasons, one is that after telling your boyfriend, you are afraid that your boyfriend will be sad and angry because of this, so in order not to make him too sad, so you endure it yourself, and if you can't let him know, you won't let him know; Another reason is that he was afraid that his boyfriend would break up with him after he knew that he was seriously ill, so he didn't dare to tell him.

Whatever the reason, in my opinion, instead of enduring the fire yourself, it is better to let him know early that if he feels sorry for you, then let him share a little, and the so-called pain sharing with another person will become half of the pain. With him, you can also increase your courage to overcome the disease; If you are afraid that he will break up, instead of worrying about it all day long, it is better to tell him as soon as possible, whether it is a division or a union, so that you know in your heart, and if you drag it out too long, the more pain you will have in your heart. From this, it is better to tell him early!

I don't think you should tell him that since they have already broken up, don't let him worry about you anymore, he should have his own life now, since the two of them chose to break up at the beginning, don't let him worry about your affairs anymore, and think about it, when he knows that you are seriously ill, whether he comes to see you or not, he comes to see what you want to say to you, and the scene will be really embarrassing.

I know that you are seriously ill now, and then you especially need someone to comfort and hurt, but the past is really in the past, maybe he has a new girlfriend now, and he is living a very good life now, why should you let your own affairs disturb his beauty, what you have to do now is to cooperate with the doctor, strive to get yourself up as soon as possible, and then welcome your new life.

He's your ex-boyfriend, and there's no obligation to do anything to you, if you really want to tell him, you can send a circle of friends, or send a QQ dynamic, if you don't want others to see it, you can get him into a separate group in QQ, and then that one can only be visible to him.

I don't understand why I am entangled in this issue, why do I want to tell him this question when I am an ex-boyfriend. If you are single now, shouldn't you discuss with your parents how to treat the disease? Are you stupid or do you think that in your heart your parents are more important than your boyfriend, and they are ex-boyfriends.

If you broke up because of your illness, it means that you didn't tell him that you were sick at the time, so since you didn't tell him at the time, then please don't tell you now, you are not the heroine of a Korean drama, and you won't have an ex-boyfriend who has loved you for 10,000 years. I won't say that I will accompany you to the last journey of your life. You should be the one who spends your limited life with your parents.

Of course, a serious illness does not mean that it cannot be cured. If he really loves you, you can try to cooperate** and come back to him when you are healthy, if you really love you, you will still be together. If you don't love you, you now tell her you're sick and all you get is sympathy.

Just like using lies to verify lies, what you get is always a lie. Think about it from the perspective of inequality, and you will always be at a disadvantage. Love is inherently a matter of equality.

You can't disturb someone's normal life because you're sick.

So definitely don't tell him. In the movie breakup contract with Bai Baihe and Peng Yuyan, the hero and heroine broke up, and the heroine thought she was cured because she had cancer, but she still didn't tell the male protagonist about her illness, and she didn't come to the male protagonist until she was cured. This is adult love, don't involve morality, after all, you tell him that you are sick, do you want him to stay by your side to take care of you because of sympathy for you, or do you want him to ruthlessly leave you alone to face the disease?

Wake up, fairy tales are all lies, instant TV series ** in life, but life is not just a TV series.

If you want to see him, I think you should tell him that even if he doesn't love you anymore, he will still come to see you when he sees that you are seriously ill. In short, you must be strong, even if things are wrong, you should still face life with an optimistic attitude.