Should the wedding be extravagant or ordinary

My opinion: 1. Whether the wedding should be extravagant or economical should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis;

2. If the economic conditions are not very good, of course, it should be saved;

3. The economic conditions are general, luxury and thrift, the ceremony and catering should be treated separately, the ceremony can be simple, but the catering should not let the guests disappoint;

4. If you are financially wealthy, I think the ceremony should not be too public, otherwise it will make the guests feel like they are rich, and they will not be able to end up with money;

5. The family conditions of the wedding are different, and the level of the guests is also different. If both parties are wealthy, the guests certainly don't care about the meal; However, if it is an ordinary family or a family with financial constraints, guests should pay more attention to food.

Whether the wedding should be extravagant or economical depends mainly on the family situation of the two people! I think depending on your family situation, you can just take a median value. It doesn't need to be too extravagant, and it doesn't need to be too frugal.

It mainly depends on the meaning of the woman and her family. Especially the mother-in-law, the basic wedding has nothing to do with the four words "ordinary saving", otherwise what would the man do if he wanted to buy a car, a house, and gold clothes!

Let's do what you want! Don't be too frugal, but you have to be reasonable.

Marriage for love, marriage is not a game, love needs to be the foundation, responsibility is the pillar, the meaning of the wedding is to declare your love to join the responsibility, the responsibility to each other and the family, the responsibility to parents and relatives, and most importantly, to announce the beginning of your life of happiness and mutual support. Wedding is just a formality, the important thing is happiness, and the married person, parents, and friends experience this happy day together. And there is only one meaning of wedding, that is, love.

Whether it is for family, friends, each other or yourself, this is the most important meaning. Weddings don't need to be extravagant, it's all about meaning.

Wedding is a scene in a girl's dream, a scene that all girls should look forward to, hoping that a prince will take his hand from his father's hand and have a fairytale wedding.

I've been looking forward to my wedding, I want it to be a fairytale dream scene, and most importantly, a unique one.

Is it luxury, or is it low-end? It doesn't matter at all, whether it's luxurious or low-end, as long as it's my most important wedding, it's no longer too crowded, it's no longer a lot of money, it's unique.

For weddings. Everyone has their own opinion, there is no doubt about it, some people want their wedding to be the most luxurious, and some people think that as long as it is the right person, it is okay to have it.

For weddings. Some people think that the meaning is fine, and there is no need for too big a scene, but some people think that this is the most important thing in life, maybe once in a lifetime, how can you not treat yourself badly, you must be grand.

For weddings, it's so bright. Everyone has their own ideas, and you can't say who is right and who is wrong, but if you want to say right and wrong, that is, everyone is right, because the starting point is different, each has its own reasons, the right reasons.

Yesterday, a pair of friends who were about to get married left the scene and ended a 10-year relationship, because of the wedding, because of the different concepts and changes about the wedding.

The concept lies in the fact that the man thinks that the wedding is done, not how high-end it is, but also a ceremony, and if it can be saved, it will be saved, and it will be done with the least amount of money.

The woman thinks that the wedding is once in a lifetime, not about how extravagant, but it can't be too low-end, it's okay to be average, and it's not too shabby.

Actually, it's good to take a step back, a little better, a little skimming, and a summary, but they don't back down, plus a little change, so they leave.

The so-called change is that in order not to give a dowry, the man said that the wine bowl would be done together, and the man would finish wrapping it, but when the parents of both parties met to talk about the marriage of their children, there was a change.

The man said that he had no money, and the wine bowl was done together, but only a certain amount was taken out, and this amount was not enough to make a wine bowl, and it was still a big difference, even if it was low-end, it was not enough.

In the end, what to do with the wedding changed, the original banquet was gone, and other customs were gone, and what to do in the end was not decided, because the man's father said that he had no money, and he couldn't take out the money anyway, and it was impossible to borrow it.

So, the embarrassment was there, and when I returned home, the woman took the initiative to ask the man the reason, but the man said that he tried his best, which was similar to what he said at the beginning, and the wine bowl was still done together.

In the end, it was over, and it became an unsuccessful wedding.

Wedding, is it luxurious or low-end? I have the answer in my heart. However, marriage is not child's play, the most lacking key is to talk and count, the so-called luxury wedding, not how much money is used, but how close the two hearts are!

For many people, a wedding is one of the most important events in life. It represents the recognition and blessing of the love of two people, and it is an important turning point in life. In my opinion, weddings don't have to be extravagant and wasteful, and simple weddings can also express the sincere feelings of two people.

First of all, I think the meaning of a wedding is the love of two people, not the size and cost of the wedding. While a lavish wedding can be impressive, if two people are genuine in their feelings for each other, then the size and cost of the wedding will not affect their marriage and happiness. Therefore, for me, a simple wedding can also make me feel happy and satisfied.

Secondly, I think a simple wedding is more in line with my values. In a society that constantly emphasizes consumerism and materialistic pursuits, we need to pay more attention to the importance of inner feelings and relationships. A modest wedding allows me to focus more on the love and commitment between me and my partner rather than being distracted by expenses and material things.

Finally, I think a modest wedding can also be more eco-friendly and sustainable. In modern society, environmental protection has become a global issue. A lavish wedding can require a lot of resources and energy to complete, which can have a negative impact on the environment.

A simple wedding can be more environmentally friendly and sustainable, so that we can also do our part for environmental protection at the wedding.

To sum up, for me, a wedding does not need to be lavish and wasteful, and a simple wedding can also make me feel happy and satisfied. A modest wedding can be more focused on love and commitment between two people, in line with my values, and more environmentally friendly and sustainable. In my mind, a wedding should be a warm and happy thing to make people's hearts feel warm, and dressing up is not a show-off and waste of material things.

Many people may think that such a minimalist wedding lacks a sense of ceremony. However, newcomers don't think so. They said that although the wedding did not have those expensive decorations and gorgeous scripts, the wedding was full of love and touch.

This wedding shows their heart and heart, making this wedding even more special and memorable.

Marriage doesn't have to cost a lot of money to make it perfect. Marriage is more about feelings and commitments between two people. Such a wedding emphasizes the importance of two people supporting each other in marriage, rather than the accumulation of money and material things.

This unique wedding makes people feel the true meaning of love and life, and also makes people pay more attention to the value and meaning of marriage.

The wedding may not be luxurious, but it is so fresh, simple, authentic and warm. It allows us to see the important factors in marriage, and it also lets us know that marriage does not necessarily have to spend too much money to become perfect, and love and touching are the most valuable assets of marriage.

Such a marriage is also attracting more and more attention in today's society. Frugal marriage is undoubtedly a new concept of marriage, emphasizing the essence of marriage and focusing on the deeper meaning of the wedding rather than the superficial form. Compared with high-profile weddings, such marriages focus more on emotional communication and family harmony.

In such a marriage, the couple will not accumulate debts for the sake of the pursuit of luxury, and when they grow up early, they can easily start a life together and have more time and energy to care about the development of the family and mutual affection.

However, whether it is a gorgeous wedding or a frugal marriage, the true meaning of marriage is not in the luxury of the wedding, but in the happiness and stability of the marriage. As a mature society, we should pay more attention to the essence of marriage rather than appearance, and let marriage become the true emotional bond between two people and the cornerstone of home.

For the sake of face and comparison, a wedding that blindly spends a lot of money regardless of the actual situation is not only irrelevant to love, but also brings pressure to young people.

On December 1, a netizen uploaded a paragraph of eating a wedding banquet in rural Guizhou, which caused heated discussions because of the simple wedding environment. Subsequently, the publisher responded: Why do you have to marry someone with good conditions? As long as the two work together, I believe that they can live the life they want.

Weddings and wedding banquets are a very sensitive topic for many young people who are now preparing to enter the marriage hall. Is it worth putting a new burden on the whole family for the sake of a ritual? Is everything simple for weddings and wedding receptions? Or is it atmospheric luxury?

For these questions, the answers given by the society are also the opinions of the benevolent and the wise. Some young people believe that the wedding is one of the important moments in life, or they should have a basic sense of ceremony, do it decently, and leave good memories. After all, most people have good wishes for love and are ready to stay for life, and they don't want to wronged themselves at such an important moment.

There are also young people who believe that the wedding is just a formality, not a high-end and luxurious wedding, and life will be happy. In their eyes, it doesn't make sense to spend hundreds of thousands or even millions of dollars on a wedding. If it is really not bad for money, it is better to "use good steel on the blade" for food, clothing, housing and transportation, children's education and parents' pension.

As long as the family is happy together, no matter how ordinary the wedding, you can find warmth and happiness.

For these two points of view, as long as the parties accept it, do not be extravagant and wasteful because of the luxury of the wedding, and are not dissatisfied because of the simplicity of the wedding, and can see happiness and feel sweetness in the wedding, there is no right or wrong.

However, there is still a logic worth being wary of in the current conversation, that is, in the face of a simple wedding, with a disdainful face, and understanding it as "poor couples mourn everything". If the wedding is simple, it must be poor? Will you have a bad time in the future? "Wedding extravagance is right" is also a misconception.

I have registered and obtained the certificate by myself for more than a year, and I have not had a wedding for a long time. As for the reason, on the one hand, only after experiencing it, will you know how difficult it is to lose Hu in the city, mainly relying on yourself to buy a house, buy a car and then have a wedding; On the other hand, I have attended many weddings of relatives and friends, and I know that weddings are not all happiness and sweetness, but also troubles and fatigue. There is a "most complete flow chart of marriage" circulating on the Internet, which is as many as 9 pages from engagement to wedding preparation to wedding banquet, and in this case, it is inevitable to have a fear of weddings.

At present, I am also very entangled in my attitude towards weddings, I want to give my lover a beautiful ceremony, but I can't accept a luxurious wedding with a huge cost. My most likely choice is to have a warm and simple small wedding in the city where we live, and then go back to our hometowns for dinner.

For the sake of face and comparison, a wedding that blindly spends a lot of money regardless of the actual situation is not only irrelevant to love, but also brings pressure to young people. Material conditions are indeed the basis of life, but they are not the only prerequisite for a happy life. A family understands and supports each other, thinks in one place, works hard in one place, works hard, and lives a good life step by step, which is the real life.

Wedding is one of the most important ceremonies in life, and for many people who come to Wibbu, they actually have an ideal appearance in their minds.

In my opinion, a perfect wedding does not necessarily need to be lavish and expensive, but more important is the sincere love and unwavering commitment of the couple.

In fact, a simple wedding also has its special charm, which focuses more on the inner things, such as the blessings of relatives and friends, the firm commitment of the couple, and so on. Of course, it is also very important to deal with some details to make the wedding process more beautiful and cordial.

Whether it is a simple or luxurious wedding, the most important factor should be the sincere and deep love of the couple, as well as the commitment to each other, which is the most precious core of the wedding.

The best weddings vary from person to person, as everyone has the same expectations and meaning. Some people think that a wedding is a warm celebration that requires elaborate decorations and luxurious meals, while some people pay more attention to the connotation and meaning of the wedding, believing that a simple wedding is more reflective of the love and commitment between the two people.

A simple wedding is acceptable because the value of a wedding is not in its size and luxury, but in the love and commitment between two people. A simple wedding may be more able to arouse people's thinking and reflection on marriage, and make people cherish the true meaning of marriage more. Of course, the simplicity of the wedding should also be based on the actual situation and wishes of the couple, and the solemnity and significance of the wedding should not be sacrificed for the sake of simplicity.

In short, the meaning and value of a wedding should not be defined solely by its size and luxury, but should be a true manifestation of the love and commitment between two people. A simple wedding can also make people feel the true meaning and value of marriage, so it can be accepted by people.