7 details of spoiled wife , men do it casually, why are they all happy?

Because the current society has too low requirements for boys, many people still have the traditional idea that women should do more things to be diligent and thrifty, so they indulge a bunch of middle-aged men who don't do anything at home and don't take children. As long as there are men who are willing to do something, those women who are PUA feel flattered.

Because as long as you spoil your wife very well, your wife will love you very much and will think that you are a very good man.

Because these 7 details will make the wife feel her husband's love for her, and the wife will be doubly good to her husband.

Because as long as you do one casually, your wife's senses will change a lot and it will make the family more harmonious.

willing to wash his wife's clothes, socks, and even trim his toenails; is willing to spend money on his wife, even if he is very critical of himself, he is also generous to his wife.

When arguing, no matter who is right and who is wrong, he will apologize as soon as possible.

In marriage, there is such a rule: those who love you will not make you sad, and those who do not love you do not have to compromise and admit their mistakes. Therefore, any man who can apologize and admit his mistakes in a low profile must have you in his heart.

Especially in life, sometimes the husband and wife Qingsheng dig two quarrels, and no one admits defeat after the emotional upset, and everyone feels that they are right. A man who spoils his wife to the bone will apologize as soon as possible after the quarrel, you must know that no one loses to who in a quarrel between husband and wife, and the man's tolerance just shows his love for his wife in his heart, he would rather sacrifice his so-called face than bear to let his wife be sad and sad.

Compared to feelings, marriage is completely different. Love is a flower, marriage is a piece of chicken feathers, there will be some problems in marriage, if there is no tolerance, marriage will not be happy. Some people say that even if you have a happy marriage in this world, you will have the idea of strangling the other party 500 times in your life.

It is not difficult to see that marriage is not always as happy as everyone thinks. These people who maintain a good marriage do not have any superpowers, but they know how to tolerate, after all, they know how to tolerate in marriage, so this relationship can last and be happy.

At this point, my good friend Wen Tao has the most right to speak. Before getting married, Wen Tao always thought that she would find an elegant woman and live with such a person for the rest of her life, but who expected to find a woman with a violent personality in the end. Otherwise, no one can analyze this love, obviously trying to find this kind of person, but in the end he found another kind of person.

Wen Tao and his wife knew each other on a blind date, just one glance, Wen Tao identified the other party in his heart, and he didn't hear the other party when he said that he was short-tempered.

At first, Wen Tao thought that the other party said that he was grumpy out of politeness, but in fact, this is true. When you are in love, the main performance of your girlfriend is not so significant, but after marriage, it is very obvious. Both of them have lost their tempers, everyone thinks that they are unlikely to achieve positive results, and they are very likely to become special people by walking, but no one would have imagined that they would actually run their marriage smoothly.

I once told me what little tricks Wen Tao has, Wen Tao showed that there are no all the little tricks at all, and under my repeated questioning, Wen Tao briefly said. Originally, he and his wife always quarreled, but after each quarrel, he would actively give in.

Even if it is not his own fault, he will first explain to his wife his weak mentality, and try not to delay the disagreement until tomorrow. From Wen Tao's meaning, I understand that he just knows how to tolerate and show weakness in marriage. Think about it, how can a man guarantee tolerance in marriage?

It's not because of love, how could he have done it if it weren't for love.

When a man loves you and loves you, he will naturally choose to tolerate it in his relationship, and take out his 100% gentleness and carefulness to treat you. In fact, this is really the case, there is no one in this world who let whom, who should compromise with whom, often want to do this because they love you, love is afraid that you will be angry, so they choose to tolerate. In the future, I hope every woman will know that a man's heart is necessary and needs to be reflected.

He has you in his heart and knows how to tolerate you, so should I do the same Do I have to know how to cherish If you don't know how to cherish, you feel that everything is taken for granted, and you can only suffer from it, because when a man loves someone, he can give you everything, and when he doesn't love someone, you are nothing, isn't it?

Particularly concerned about his wife's performance, he will surprise his wife, and when he sees interesting things, he will think of his wife and take the initiative to give his wife gifts.

He cares about you very much, takes care of you, gives you a sense of security, will pamper you very much, take you out to dinner, take you to meet his friends and parents.

They will share the housework for their other half, they will take the initiative to understand and respect all the decisions of the other party, they will not be cautious and forbear each other for money, and they will try to give each other a superior life.

Everything is based on your feelings, pampering you and protecting you, and I can't listen to anyone say a word of no. Like to stick to you, good things are always the first to be shared with you. Give you enough company and don't let you worry about the economy.

I will often buy you flowers, I will ask you about your various needs, I will consider your emotions, I will consult with you about everything, and I will respect your opinions.

Make breakfast for my wife, take the initiative to take on housework, bow my head and admit my mistakes every time I quarrel, my wife's birthday will be remembered, and the anniversary will be very ceremonial.

**From the web.

Most women think that after getting married, marry a rich man, if the other party has no money! Don't get married? Marry it!

But at least you have to hurt me, otherwise I marry him and I don't have money, and I don't love me, what do I want, yes, in this real society, you say that you think it's realistic to want money, if after getting married, women don't want money, and they can't get a little love, so what are you doing when you get married?

In fact, in marriage, if the man has no money, it is not the most important thing, it mainly depends on how he treats you, and how he loves you after marriage, so that the marriage is happy, just like the three characteristics of a man after marriage, as a woman after marriage, he will be very happy.

1. Give you the salary card, and the people and money belong to you.

Maybe before marriage, the man will call the salary to his mother, but after marriage, if the man gives you the salary card, it is a manifestation of your pampering, although it is now popular to tie the money in the mobile phone, but can hand over the salary card to you, it proves that he spoils you, do not say with a kind of psychology that hits him, you card me, but the money is not in your hands?

In this way, it is easy to dispel a man's self-sensitivity, and if he can give you a salary card, it proves that this man is seeking stability, not thinking about his own money, he should make his own decisions, after all, he has a family, many times, he is faced with the responsibility of a family, women should not be deliberately sarcastic.

2. Help you with the housework and share it for you.

After marriage, women are easy to become verbose, it is true, when a woman who loves cleanliness gets married, it is even more verbose, because after living with a man after marriage, if the man does not love cleanliness and does not help with housework, women are easy to get angry, so if a man can help you share the housework after marriage, no matter how big or small the matter is, it is a kind of concern for women.

Home is for two people, it can't be all a woman busy at home, the man knows how to go home to help you do housework, it is a performance of spoiling you, because he doesn't want to watch you tired alone, he is busy with work outside, and he can come back to help you at home, women must not dampen his enthusiasm.

3. Choose to let you mess around when you quarrel and please you afterwards.

It's impossible to get married without quarreling, everyone has everyone's temper and personality, maybe putting up with your temper before marriage is to get you, but after getting married, you can still let you mess around when you quarrel, saying that he really loves you when he pat Na Hongming, how you make trouble, he spoils you, because if he quarrels with you, he knows that it must be you who is hurt.

If you can coax you when you quarrel, even if you look ugly, you really love you, because no man can continue to endure your unreasonable troubles after remarrying.

Conclusion: In marriage, men have these three characteristics of "spoiling their wives like life", women learn to cherish the same, don't discourage men's performance, not all men can follow women to perform, if you meet such a man in marriage, occupy the same, women will steal the fun!

Maybe men don't know what women are most looking forward to in their hearts, women don't expect how much money men can make for themselves, and they don't expect men to buy themselves how big a house, what women look forward to most is that men can pamper themselves enough and be good enough for themselves, for women, men's favor is more important than anything else, and they would rather not have a house or a car, but also have to be favored by men.

More than 3 of the 6 manifestations of a man's "spoiled wife", you are the happiest woman, especially the 3rd, the spoiled woman is so happy, are you a spoiled woman?

1. He will listen to whatever you say.

If a man, no matter what you say, he will listen, he takes everything you say very seriously, you let him go east he never goes west, you let him go west he never goes east, you let him do what he wants, you don't want you to do anything, he won't do anything, he obeys what you say, men do this, not afraid of you, but spoiling you.

2. I will hand over my money to you for safekeeping.

If a man will hand over all his money to you for safekeeping, no matter how you spend it, he will never ask, nor will he feel distressed, and he is willing to hand over all his hard-earned money to you, not that he will not manage the money, let alone buy you with money, but he is spoiling you, willing to let you control his money, spend his money casually, and his money is earned for you.

3. Every holiday will give you gifts.

If a man, on every holiday, will give you a gift to Wang Wu, every day of your birthday he will not forget, no matter how busy, no matter how important things, will not delay him to give you gifts, he is willing to express his love for you in this way, the importance of you, he hopes that you can be like other women, can always receive gifts, he is spoiling you.

4. Be on call when you need him.

If a man is willing to be by your side, he will be by your side whenever he has time, as long as you need him, no matter how big or small, he will immediately appear by your side, on call, never let you down, let alone make you feel hopeless, he will never let you face difficult things alone, he always rushes in front of you and paves the way for you.

5. I don't get angry with you when I am scolded by you.

If a man, no matter how you get angry with him, he doesn't get angry with you, he doesn't have the same knowledge as you, even if he is scolded by you, he won't be angry with you, he will say good things to you, and even gently coax you to be happy and make you happy, it's not that he has no heart or lungs, but he is willing to tolerate everything about you, and he spoils you like a little girl.

6. He will change himself for your sake.

If a man will change himself for you, what you don't like about him, he will work hard to get rid of it, his little faults, bad habits after being with you, will work hard to get rid of it, he is willing to gradually become better for you, he is willing to become what you expect, a man does this, it means that he attaches enough importance to you, cares about you enough, and spoils you enough.