Why do I always feel that the boys in my class hate me very much???

Updated on psychology 2024-06-30
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Long live understanding and try to see how others are doing!

    It's not about being like everyone else, but don't be unconventional either, and don't think "yes" to yourself. Don't think what you think, how do you know that others are hateful, except for hatred, then maybe you think that when others praise you again, how do you know that they are not hateful?

    What you see with your eyes and what you think for yourself is not necessarily the most real, you have to look with your heart and use your heart!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I don't know if you're a junior high school student.

    I think in the words of a politics textbook.

    You have fallen into the trap of self-confidence, and you have gone vanity.

    I think you should take a good look at the political books.

    Apply. Be a confident and self-respecting person.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    for thou yourselves hated them first. Then what are you afraid of hating you? Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you, and repay them in the way of others. Let's understand these two sentences well.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's okay, you're going to change it now.

    Such as changing your mindset.

    Mingle with them.

    But you have to accept your classmates from the bottom of your heart.

    Same-sex exclusive.

    So this is usually the case for you.

    Don't doubt yourself, landlord.

    Actually, it's quite normal.

    Slowly learn to adapt and get used to playing with your classmates.

    I'm going to be happy and I'm sure you will.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You're pretty self-aware! No wonder they are hated? If I were your classmate, I'd smack you to death with a big mouth!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    See a psychiatrist, I'm really worried about you if you go on like this! See for yourself!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not that others hate you, it's that you hate others.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because people want to hear good things.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It seems like you're not just inferior, narcissistic, you're a little silly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. First of all, there is often a reason for any kind of targeting, usually because there is something special in the group, which makes you not a member of the general public in the group.

    Secondly, you should not be too nervous when this situation arises. Analyze yourself and ask your friends who have a good relationship with you if you know the reason, or if you are special. Get to the crux of the problem.

    Again, if you find the cause, you have to solve it! It may be that you are not communicating enough with the people who are targeting you, and they have misunderstood you. Be brave enough to communicate with them calmly, rather than against them, as that will only escalate and make things worse.

    Why would a boy in the same class target a boy?

    Good afternoon, dear<>

    First of all, there is often a reason for any kind of targeting, usually because there is something special in the group, which makes you not a member of the general public in the group. Secondly, you should not be too nervous when this situation arises. Analyze yourself and ask your friends who have a better relationship with the bridge if you know the reason, or if you are special.

    Get to the crux of the problem. Again, if you find the cause, you have to solve it! It may be that you are not communicating enough with the people who are targeting you, and they have misunderstood you.

    Be brave enough to communicate calmly with his socks, rather than with them, as that will only escalate things and make them worse.

    In the end, your family background, your academic situation, your appearance, all your outstanding points may not be the cause of being targeted. Rather, your way of doing things, the way you express yourself, and the way you deal with people, make them disgusted with the shed. It's like someone said, you're right, but the way you speak is really annoying.

    I would like to add that you must not tell the secrets of the collective to people outside the collective, because then you feel bad. There are no airtight walls.

    Finally, you can ask teachers, friends or parents to help

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In the future, if there is anything to do in front of the people in the class, for example, if he squeezes you with a table, he says, "What are you doing!" "Wait, boy.

    Generally, you still value face, you can also find a reason to say to the teacher that you want to change seats, just say that he affects your learning or be direct, say that it doesn't matter, don't be afraid to tell the teacher! Or ask for help from a guy who has a good relationship with you, pretend to be on good terms, and so on! I don't know what you're reading, so it's hard to say.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since it's useless to tell the teacher, then tell your parents, and ask your parents to find the boy's parents through the teacher, because I see that if you don't make the matter "bigger" in this situation, the man won't stop.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In a tough tone, he told the teacher to change the table and set a deadline for the teacher to solve the problem.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    One. Absolutely no crying.

    Two. Every time he bullies you, stop him loudly.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Try to find his weaknesses and then hit him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Try to fall in love with him, and you will find that all of a sudden everything is different. Life couldn't be better!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There are many ways for a man to express his love, it mainly depends on what kind of person the man is, if he is usually this kind of naughty personality, he is like this to everyone, and he who likes to play around is definitely not liked. If he does this to you alone, then as the saying goes, beating is love and scolding, and it is trying to attract your attention by teasing you, of course, if you also like him, you will feel that you are happy to cooperate with such jokes, and if you don't like him, then you will definitely find him annoying!

    It's also possible that he thinks you're a good friend and thinks you're funny, which is what he thinks is a good way to get along with you! If you can't wait to find out if the other person really likes you, or find a suitable opportunity to ask, I don't think there's anything to be embarrassed about!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In fact, to judge whether a boy likes you or hates you when he bullies you, just look at his eyes.

    When you were a student, the way boys expressed their feelings was to play tricks on you except by writing love letters. At that time, most of the boys were shy and not good at words. Even their brain circuits are a little strange, and the boys at that time always liked to pull girls' braids.

    In their minds, this is one of the ways they show their affection, to get your attention, to get you to have a fight with him. This kind of magical brain circuit cannot appear in adulthood, only the hazy love of student days.

    If it's a guy who hates you, then they have a banter in their eyes when they bully you. They bully you for their own pleasure. This is a typical example of basing one's own happiness on the suffering of others.

    This kind of person's behavior can sometimes be tinged with a hint of obscenity. In this case, remember to resist, otherwise he will think that you have given in and will always bully you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think this is a matter of situation.

    I think this happened when I was in junior high school and high school, and now I don't have to deal with this situation when I go to college, so now that I'm older, I can see this situation clearly.

    There is another situation. Kindness.. Some boys are just very naïve, immature, and like to bully girls, so that's another story. There's no liking or hating.,It's his own personality.,Personally, I think such a boy is really low.。。

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