What should I do if my popularity is not good, how can I improve my popularity?

Honestly, you just think he's a good guy. It is very, very important to have a good relationship. But if you do how to do it in order to have a good popularity, then it will be too much to spend. I have these things for you. Not necessarily, you can listen to it.

People sometimes do something not what they want to do, but see others do that, and sometimes people's values are not their own value view, but look at what others think, so that people are not themselves, they are others, consciousness has become the consciousness of society, and thoughts have become other people's thoughts.

People think that society is very realistic, but in fact, they see others saying that this society is very realistic, and they live with a realistic attitude, so they lose themselves, they are not living themselves, they are living others, living society.

We think we're right, but we've all been tricked by society.

Think about it, how much of the stuff in this world is what we really want?

Look at the mountains are mountains, and see the water is water; Look at the mountains are not mountains, and look at the water is not water; The mountains are still mountains, and the water is still water.

What did we want for ourselves as children?

Now what do we want for ourselves?

What do we want for ourselves in the future?

It is likely that it was a big circle back to the original.

Bad popularity has its own and the other party's factors, and if you have your own problems, you need to correct them, and the other party's problems can't be forced to force everyone to like him, in fact, the people around you are mirrors, you can see your own shortcomings through them, and see if your bf has any shortcomings. What does it mean to be related to you? Hehe, the landlord asked a little abstract.

Maybe people see that he has a girlfriend and don't want to bother you.

Light bulb who wants to be a girl.

There will be gains and losses.

You first find out why he is not liked, don't jump to conclusions, maybe it's not because of you, if you're a good interpersonal person, you can help deal with his relationship with his friends

There are many reasons for bad popularity, you have to find out your own reasons first, is it not good at communication and introverted? Or something else. Find out your own cause and find the root of the problem, and you can reap the benefits by starting from the root.

Generally speaking, you don't need to do anything too deliberately about whether your popularity is good or not, as long as you do things with your heart, behave with your heart, and treat people with your heart. Your popularity will be better!

Be careful about your words and deeds, talk less and say more words of encouragement and praise.

Smile more. That's going to be fine.

Learn to respect others more, and at the same time communicate with people more, chat, and attend more parties!

Laugh in moderation, because laughter is a good medicine, it can relieve fatigue of the tired. Caring for others in moderation, learning to understand others, and often contacting others, these have a premise, that is, to laugh moderately, moderately, others will think you are stupid and annoy you. If you don't care appropriately, others will think that you gossip, ask everything, don't understand appropriately, others think you are unreasonable, not appropriate contact, others will think that you are too dependent, in short, do it moderately, and you must be a good person, clean and neat, not dragging mud and water, everyone knows that money is a good thing, don't take money too seriously when gathering or buying things, you have to spend it.

Good luck.

It must be useful to keep smiling, even if you don't want to talk to others, but when you see them smiling more, they will be willing to approach you.

Slowly, there will be more friends.

Smiling may be hard at first, but stick to it. Make a smile your usual expression Speak softly to others, and try to help others when they need help.

Smile and nod and praise, recognize others more, others will recognize you, I wish you happiness.

Participate in group activities, help others, invite others to dinner, and give gifts to others.

If you have the opportunity, you can participate in more social activities, or sometimes go to the vegetable market with your mother to buy vegetables, you can ask the price yourself, or you can talk about the price. Observe how the people next to you interact with people, learn to communicate with people more, and get in touch with people in society. Try to communicate with people as naturally as possible, and slowly get used to interacting with people.

You can join a peer group and talk about things that your peers care about, so that you will have a common language.

First of all, you have to be confident when you interact with people.

If you want to change, you can change your hairstyle and clothes on a day off.

If you can't control it, don't talk nonsense.

After a while, and then you have more contact with the people in the class who are more popular, and slowly your popularity will become better.

Turnip greens, each has its own love, everyone's taste is different, why change yourself? Then if she meets another kind of person, it's not the type she likes, so isn't it tiring to change around? I think it's better to be your original self!! ~

Lewdness can be played, you can often tell jokes, or tease classmates.

I'm also quite obscene, but I'm very popular, (*hee-hee.)

Let's do it!!

Smile on behalf of others, be humorous, and be sincere.

Hello! Friend!

That. 1. Actually, you are an excellent girl with a very rich heart, you are just not good at expressing yourself, not the kind of flamboyant character, you like to keep a low profile, there is nothing wrong with this;

That. 2. Be true to yourself, be straightforward, don't bend, and be in front of people who are familiar with you are advantages; But you can't avoid becoming a shortcoming in front of people who are not familiar with you, maybe you are kind, but because of a straightforward and undisguised word, you will not be understood and become a misunderstanding;

That. 3. Being a man is not only tolerance, but also the need to understand, understanding needs a process, the driving force of this process is your mentality, you must adjust your mentality at any time, to empathize with your thinking, remember: impulse is the devil!

That. Fourth, hundreds of people have their own nature, and everyone has their own ambitions. Try to be in front of people who are not familiar with you, pay attention to the way you speak, the language, the tone, of course, the principle of things can not lose themselves;

That. Fifth, a good word is warm in winter, and bad words hurt people in the hot summer and cold! Just remember this sentence and you're good to go! Respect benevolence and respect yourself, I believe you will have a new improvement and go to the next level!

Sometimes people are troubled not because they have rejected too much, but because they have compromised too much. Live with sincerity and read a few books about relationships (I think it's important to read books).

If there is an art festival, try your musical instruments! Just learn something simple, and as long as you know a little, you will be worshipped! If not, you can prepare more jokes and brain teasers.

In short, we often chat, guess riddles, and play chess together. Play the same online game! That's why I'm so popular!

If it doesn't work, you can do an activity in the process, "family tree" or something, in short, it would be good to have a common language (I also have someone to call me dad, (I am a woman) someone calls me husband, someone calls me son, someone calls me brother!). It's kind of fun)

Hope you are happy every day! o( o haha

Every girl has an experience like this, longing for friends, but indeed closing herself off, low self-esteem, pretending to be cold, impulsive, talking without brain, and blaming herself after discovering that she hurt others.

Now you don't need to do anything deliberately, you just take off your cold mask, show a sincere smile to your classmates, let go of your self-perceived face, take the initiative to talk to your classmates, take the initiative to apologize if you are wrong, treat the classmates around you with a normal heart, then you will quickly get along with your classmates.

Respect others to get the corresponding respect, don't be inferior and confident, smile at others, just these few words! Everything is OK

Don't be too honest, play stupid when you should. Especially for some people who like to tell the truth. Always rushing to speak in front of people, I feel that this will make me look very shrewd, and I look down on others, so that the popularity is naturally not good (it wasn't like this before, I was always bullied, and I was bullied and bullied, which is very important).

Don't be too obvious to who you don't like. It's good to know in your heart, even if you think your best friend, don't tell her something that you think is very secret, you know, the so-called secret is to hide it in your heart, no one will say it, and if you say it, it will not be called a secret, not to mention, the speaker has no intention of listening to the heart.

Be helpful. Just praise people, don't hurt people, don't say some things that are easy to misunderstand, study must be good, at least in the middle and upper, otherwise some people will look down on you must have close friends, at least you have difficulties and someone can help you.

You can't help but talk to people outside of your close friends, or at least be nodding friends with them.

Don't worry too much about personal gains and losses to friends within the scope of what you can afford, friends have something, try to help when you encounter them, and make friends to talk about a righteous word.

That's how I am, so I can make friends when I go to **.

Care more about others, friendship is not one-sided, you pay first, you will get in return.

You can't be bullied by others, you have to be tactful

People who are not popular often have a problem, they are self-righteous and look down on others; Always squint when looking at people; There is often an impatient look on the part of the question; Even when he asks for advice from others, he likes to put on a posture that seems to be confident, as if he is testing others. These performances, while not entirely conscious, are bound to arouse resentment among colleagues.

Narrow-mindedness and jealousy are important factors in bad popularity. If the ability is stronger than him, he is not convinced; He is not pleasing to the eye when he is valued by the leader; While others are close to each other, he is so stupid that he will lose even a subtle witticism. This invisibly built a thick, invisible wall between him and others.

Narrow-mindedness and jealousy are twin twin signs, both of which are characteristic signs of poor psychological quality. The reason for this is related to the imbalance between the subject's self-simplification and social understanding. They lack self-knowledge and do not tolerate others.

Because the mind is always out of balance, it is bound to manifest itself in verbal behavior.

In addition, suspicion is too severe, which is also a major weakness of people with bad popularity. If someone is almost 40 years old and has not yet found a partner, as long as others talk about love issues, he suspects that others are deliberately insinuating him; When I saw a few people whispering, I suspected that they were talking about him; Even if someone inadvertently glances at him, he can't stand it. All these things keep him in a state of panic all day long, and make others avoid him.

The main causes of hypochondria are low psychological maturity, lack of security, and focus on the defense of the outside world. They have no trust in interpersonal relationships, and of course they cannot communicate with others, and even normal communication of information is severely hindered. Those who are not popular may wish to check whether they have a similar situation.

Learning a little social psychology is very necessary to deal with interpersonal relationships, which will bring happy emotions and be beneficial to work and life.

Of course, what we advocate is an interpersonal relationship that conforms to social morality and embodies mutual assistance and friendship between people, and as for the kind of practice of being tactful, being good at doing what others like, and even using unscrupulous means to flatter and sow discord to gain "popularity," naturally we should not imitate it, but on the contrary, we should be vigilant against it.

Nowadays, if we do not understand the truth of the "Three Realms of Idealism", insist on using Buddhism to correct our body, speech and mind, and never forget to respect all sages and compassion for all sentient beings, then we will follow the magic of competition to help the fate, detonate the power of arrogance, jealousy, and suspicion in our habits, and then completely cover up our inherent compassion and wisdom, and create all kinds of unkind words and deeds, and as a result, we will inevitably fall into the desolate retribution of helplessness. Therefore, I submit this article, I hope that when you and I are in a helpless situation, we can open the knot with our hearts, smile and hold hands, and walk the Bodhisattva path together!

The first is cordiality. People who love to put on a show, everyone will stay away when they see it. Being able to put down your status anytime and anywhere and get along happily with other people is a person who is truly loved.

Whether it is a big official, a big boss, a big person, or a big star, he is willing to get close to the people around him, keep a happy mood at any time, and be willing to say some homely words. The second point is cheerfulness. People who are happy every day will like it when they see it.

With a smile on his face, he will feel happy to meet him, and this optimistic attitude will unconsciously infect the people around him, and everyone will involuntarily want to get close to him. The third point is zealousness. Those who are enthusiastic in the group will always be respected by others.

Many people are afraid of trouble for some trivial things, and will only blindly shirk, always thinking why I am doing it, and always afraid of losing, such people are not easy to be welcome. Enthusiastic people, many people will stand up and do it when they need help; Sometimes we don't care about the benefits we lose to benefit the public, and we tend to feel grateful and respectful of such a person for what he has done. The fourth point is humor.

People who can laugh and make everyone happy have the upper hand wherever they go. Everyone loves pistachios, but who loves to be sad? Although they may have a lot of bitterness behind them, but they still bring out laughter when facing everyone, who can not love them?

The fifth point is to look good. Among the ugly people, there are also people who are likable, but if you are good-looking, take advantage of them everywhere! This is an undeniable fact.

The psalmist says, "Beauty is eternal joy." "It is human nature to like beautiful things, and beautiful people are surrounded by people everywhere, which is also a reflection of this nature.

Appearance, dressing, and dressing can make people feel pleasing to the tax, and they are also important conditions for attracting people! The other two very important conditions are "popularity" and "affinity". There will always be some people who are born with a trait, popularity is very good, and everyone will have different reactions when they mention him, so if you have a good condition, but the popularity is not good, it will still fail.

And some big officials and celebrities, if they don't have affinity, will only put on a show, and such people, although they have a high status or popularity, are still not successful. The above traits are all traits of popular people, what have you achieved? Observe the people around you who have these qualities, and think about how such people will handle things when you encounter any situation, and I believe that you will become a very popular person...

The most important thing is to treat people with integrity, narrow-mindedness is a disadvantage, to be sincere, to be tolerant, to be appropriate to forbearance, not to be too competitive, not to worry about gains and losses with others (under normal circumstances), and wait until you can bear it again! Also, you have to be confident and smiling, so I think it will be taken care of! Of course, it's better to be humorous, so that it will be easier to blend in with the group or the individual!