What should I do if my lovelorn life is messy and I don t go to work?

I want to open a little, falling out of love is not a big deal, you say people, how can anyone never fall out of love, I have also fallen out of love, and I feel that without him, my world seems to be unable to continue, but as long as you don't go like he doesn't see him, try to divert his attention and make himself happy, and find that without him, my world is still going on, so no one will always be inseparable from anyone, it's just a matter of time, so I hope you want to open a little, oh, don't suppress yourself so much, life still has to go on without him, I hope you will be happy as soon as possible.

It's true or false, it's hurt so deeply, hey, look at it, love is an emotional game that you love and I want, and marriage is two different things, and the game will come again if you lose. Calm and calm.

Calm down for a while, and then look for a job, and work can also forget about previous feelings.

Falling out of love is just an experience, but life goes on. The lover is not your only one, because there is more than one person who loves you and the person you love, and there is still a long way to go.

Customer service yourself, falling out of love is not a big deal, you have to face it bravely, and you can live well without anyone. Take good care of yourself. To prove that I'm fine without him.

Do more, or get out for a while.

Brace yourself! Hehehe!

Hello. Did you quit your job or didn't get a job?

Your life shouldn't be all about love. After falling out of love, you are confused because you put all your energy on love, so you feel that there is nothing left when love is gone. For her sake, you lose touch with everyone, and she leaves. The others are gone.

Our lives should be colorful and diverse. Love is only a small part of it, it shouldn't be the whole story. But there will be some people who give up their friendship and ignore their family affection because of love.

Spend a lot of time on falling in love, so there is no energy and motivation for work. This is an unhealthy behavior. It's also a serious imbalance.

Many people will ask the question of whether love or friendship is important. The object is important or the friend is important. Love is important, love is bread important.

Why do you have to be more important than anyone. If someone asks me if it's important to be a partner or a friend, I'll tell him. My mom is important.

Whether it's love, friendship or family. He should be a part of our lives, not a ministry. Both are indispensable.

It's all important to us. In the same way, love is important, and so is bread. We can't ignore work because we're in love, and we shouldn't ignore love because we're working.

So it's important to get that balance right. Only after mastering it well, will you not fall out of love and be confused, nor will you be fired and confused. Because of the broken love, we still have a job.

We were fired and we had a lovely girlfriend with us.

So if you are lost after falling out of love, then go and get back those people or things that you have ignored because of love. And don't ignore them or even lose them for something.

If it were me, I would fill my time and not give myself a chance to get confused, only in this way can I get out of love!

You have to adjust your mentality, quickly adapt to a person's life, make yourself more independent, make a plan, such as reading five books a month, and then implement it, and you can get out of the confusion.

First of all, you should set a clear goal, and you should also explore your interests, only then you will not be confused, and you will continue to work hard for your goals.

It is necessary to actively come out of the state of broken love and try new feelings.

First of all, you should forget about that person, forget all about that person's past, and the reason for doing so is to start over. If you don't let go of the past, how can you catch and ask! If you fall out of love, sadness is indispensable.

Grief is to be desired, but please give your grief a deadline. When the time comes, stop grieving. It's not hard to start over, as long as you start with a fresh mindset.

You said, there is no direction in life, so find yourself something to do, you can think about what you want to do, what you want to do. It doesn't matter if it's far away, it's near it, it's big things, it's small things. Just head towards a small destination, don't think too much about it, just think about one thing.

Then, when you've done one thing, start another. Don't be discouraged, it will be fine.

First of all, I see this question of yours: what to do if you fall out of love? Life has no direction.

Know that it is he who takes the initiative to break up with you, first find the reason from yourself when you encounter problems, think about what caused the reason for your breakup, if it is your own reason, and you still love him and her, then change for her (him) and strive to go back to the past; If it's the other person's reason, you don't have to do this and start a new life of your own. Because she (he) has lost a you who loves him (her) so much.

To get out of the previous relationship, you need to go through your own psychological struggle and figure it out for yourself.

Coming out of a previous relationship can divert one's attention and do something else, which will be forgotten after a long time.

If you still can't, then start a new relationship, what you lose may not be the best, there are better ones waiting for you to discover

In fact, people will really rely on and get used to each other after being together for a long time, and when they lose it, they realize that the psychological aspect is so important. Since there is no fate and opportunity to get back together, you have to work hard to make your life better, excellent to each other, once you let go is wrong. My dear, be strong, don't be ruthless, no one will be strong for you, it's okay to cry and not eat, just be crazy for a while, life still has to go on, leave a person, then get used to being alone.

Listen to songs, do something to relax, go to the drenching rain (in my words, drenching the drizzle, cultivating sentiments), observe the joys and sorrows of children, watch cartoons, go for a run, then take a bath and get some sleep.

Look at the sunrise, this world is beautiful, no one can leave anyone, either find another one, or it's good to be alone.

Love is to use the love of others to protect one's heart layer by layer, but if you don't even cherish yourself, you don't love yourself. So why make others love you. Two people separate, no matter who leaves first, it only means that he or she does not belong to you, God often lets us meet the wrong person before meeting the right person, then when we meet the right person, we will cherish and be more grateful, protect our hearts with our love, and let ourselves live a full life.

In addition to missing you, in addition to loving you! I'm willing to do anything. Open the diary and organize your mood.

I really, really want to give up that you've never loved, you're perfunctory to me! Ignoring my feelings again and again, I really feel overwhelmed! Unable to continue!

This feeling, not worth it, I hesitate! Not worth my consideration! Not worthy of my love for you.

Such memories! It's not worth mentioning! I don't know what I remember!

It's not worth crying! This relationship! It's long overdue!

I shouldn't have wasted my time looking for miracles! Such a you! It's not worth it for me to hate you, I don't know that I'm in the mood for you!

I decided not to ruin my heart for you! Give up loving you! It's not worth crying!

This relationship! It's long overdue! I shouldn't have wasted my time looking for miracles!

Such a you! It's not worth my hatred of you! It's not worth my bad mood for you!

I decided not to ruin my heart for you! Give up love for you! Don't ruin your heart!

I decided not to ruin my heart for you! Give up loving you! --You hypocrisy have made me despise you even more.

When I put my heart on you, you don't belong to me.

I was trying to treat you with all my heart, but in exchange for your misunderstanding and speculation. It was then that I chose to give up on you, and you turned my mind so that I could not face the love that you gave me.

But, no matter what, I just want to tell you that I love you--- for your happiness, I am willing to give up everything--- including you.

Maybe you're still worried about my intentions, so I'm here to tell you about my love for you, without any material mixes.

As for all you are thinking, it's all speculation that doesn't make any sense.

Drink to make yourself learn to be strong--- and time will prove how much I love you.

Here's your chance! There are not many times in a lifetime when you can encounter this kind of double happiness. If you are unemployed, you can calmly think about the direction of your life, if you have money, you can go out to travel, do what you like, and when you come back, everything may be different.

Falling out of love shows that you can have the opportunity to fall in love again, and love is the preservative of life. If you walk into the grave of marriage, you will regret that you don't enjoy life much now. God has given you another chance to choose, and you have to face it with gratitude.

So do you say that "unemployment and falling out of love" is a good thing or a bad thing?

First of all, I don't think unemployment is a big deal, because you also said that you are living a messy life after all, and I think that instead of messing around in a job you don't like and wasting time, it is better to find a job that you like to really want to do, so that you will be valuable. Secondly, I don't think it's a big deal to fall out of love, since your boyfriend doesn't like you anymore, it means that he is not the person God has in store for you.

After I graduated from university, I worked for a while, and then I quit, and when I quit, I didn't have a job for nearly half a year, because I looked for a lot, I didn't know what I wanted to do, and I was even very confused, I often asked myself, what can I do, what do I want to do, but there has been no answer. It wasn't until half a year later that I found a job that suited me very well, and now I work very well, and I like it very much, and I am actually very happy when I work every day, because in the previous job, I didn't really want to go every day, but now I am really very attentive to this job. Because I love this job from the bottom of my heart, I really want to do it, and I feel motivated every day.

In fact, of course, everyone will have times when they are tired in every job, and when I am tired, I will continue to cheer myself on, because after all, it is not easy to encounter a job I like, so I still need to work hard.

So it is very important to find a job that you like, of course, I believe that after you find a job, you will not worry about your boyfriend, because people are always luckier when they are luckier, so, if you lose your job, it means that the job is not suitable for you, and if you break up with your boyfriend, it means that your boyfriend is not suitable for you, and you need to organize your pace and move on!

For what reason broke up,

Are you sure you're out of love? Is there no possibility of reuniting?