Recently, I fell out of love, and my friends didn t sympathize with me too much

Falling out of love is a precious spiritual asset. It's an irreplaceable experience. It is also a worthy memory in your heart in the future.

After a few years, you will feel that you were so stupid and stupid at that time, and you will feel an inexplicable sense of happiness in your heart, and after falling out of love, you will be lost, depressed, and closed. It's all normal to vent. If a person is very happy after falling out of love, then if he is not a psychopath, then he must have looked at the other party unpleasantly for a long time, and finally got rid of the other party, so he should naturally be happy for a while.

Therefore, after your lovelorn heart, you feel a little cold and very conflicted. It's all normal. But for now, it's really not time to fall in love.

It should be learned. In the future, if you have a certain economic foundation, when you fall in love, your chips will be much heavier. It's not that I have a problem with my thinking these years.

What girl wants to find a poor and incompetent man? It's not that the head is in the water, it must be that there is too much money at home. Because it was never thought about"Earn money", so it doesn't matter if the other party or yourself have a job or not.

Of course, there are very few such people).I suggest that you still focus on studying, and then normal friendship is still needed. It is impossible to live without friends.

In other words. A person who has no friends is not a living person. Don't deliberately pursue love, when you don't expect it, love will take the initiative to come to you.

Because, love belongs to excellent people) "It has nothing to do with identity, status, wealth, and family background.

I don't know what I'm going to tell you here, I recommend reading psychology.

I've also fallen out of love recently, and my girlfriend is empathetic, don't fall in love, and I can't do this kind of thing, just divide it, and I said a lot of words to keep it, and I didn't use a word, and she didn't feel anything for me.

Think about how happy we were together some time ago, this is fate.

Accept the reality and work hard to meet the future, as long as you are patient, you will get true love.

You don't want to be hurt by others, do you only allow others to get hurt and don't allow others to hurt you? Is this possible? You may have hurt the person who loves you a long time ago before he will love someone else, have you thought about it? You're thinking all about it from your own point of view.

Also, if you love someone, have you ever wondered if this person is worthy of your love, you love him, but is he sincere to you? Have you ever considered that your effort is worth it? You said he forgot about you, but did he really treat you?

Finally, there are some things that you have to rely on, such as studying, and I hope you don't affect your learning because of bad emotions, which is not worth it.

Don't think too much about going to school.

To be honest, from a professional point of view, the landlord's post is superficial and obscure, and it is not worth reading at all; But since you have been fooled, click on the post and don't reply, it means that you will accumulate 2 points less and lose the opportunity to upgrade as soon as possible. To return, or not to return? There was a fierce struggle in my mind.

You can add a shameful but precious 2 points to yourself, but your noble faith and immaculate character are ruined; If you don't return, your noble demeanor will be preserved, and after a few years, you can still say to your grandson, "A long time ago, grandpa had a chance to .......""But there is no doubt that they will always be backward. I kept hesitating, hesitating, hesitating ... Seeing that it has dropped from the 1st floor to the 2nd floor, and from the 2nd floor to the 3rd floor, and then it will not return, it is estimated that the landlord will close the problem directly. . .

I was ruthless, gritted my teeth, and decided to reply to the landlord's post with a clear conscience. After making the decision, a deep sense of guilt strongly hit my upright heart, and for a moment I burst into tears and realized that in the long journey of life in the future, I will experience long-term soul struggle, mental pain and even psychological torment because of this disgraceful reply!!

It's all temporary, pluck up the courage, find what you want to do, set yourself a goal, love is only a small part of life, and when you get married, you will know that there are still many things you need to complete, your task now is to study hard and strive to make yourself more valuable.

Help her find a new one He just needs solace.

Then say that if you have the whole world, then she must be yours, if you don't have anything, then hold back, do what you want, don't waste resources.

If it's his own problem, help him analyze it, take him to meet more friends of the opposite sex, or go on a trip to shift his focus to see how it goes.

Friendship is often stronger and more long-lasting than love, and losing a friendship will be even more painful than falling out of love, because if you lose your lover, maybe you can have another one, or you will slowly let go, and if you lose a friend, you may not be able to continue to be friends with him in this life.

Most people think that love is definitely more important than friendship, more rare, but in fact, this is not the case, a love, you get along with your lover for a few years or even more than ten years, and it will slowly become family affection and habits, you are at least used to having such a person with you all the time.

But friendship is not the same, you may be poor all your life, and you will not have a real friendship, there will not be a person who is better to you than your parents to you, this feeling is different, just like parents love you because you are their child, this blood relationship is innate, but a friend, a person who has no blood relationship with you, even, was just a stranger before you met, such a person, willing to be good to you and take care of you, such a person, lost for a lifetime.

So, don't think that love is the most important thing in life, and losing a good friend is something that will be uncomfortable for a lifetime.

The answer is yes. If you want me to say, it is a man like clothes, and girlfriends are like siblings. If you don't have clothes, you'll only be cold, and if you don't have hands and feet, it's a heart-piercing pain.

What is a good friend, it is like the existence of air, he is silent, but always exists, try to ask who can survive without air. The relationship of good friends does not seek to be together all the time, but they will miss each other, even if they do not contact each other, they will not alienate each other, when you meet, you can still complain to each other, there are endless topics to talk about, and you will not feel embarrassed at all because you have not seen each other for a long time.

Every day's feelings are giving, we meet each other, know each other and then cherish each other, experience so many joys and sorrows together, but in the end we have to separate, no matter what the reason, it is painful. If you fall out of love, you may not have met true love, you can seek the next one, but it takes time and energy to run in with a good friend, and it is not easy to find a true friend who is like-minded with you.

I used to have such a friend, but then I drifted away, and now there is no contact, think about it has been more than ten years of not seeing, only to find that oh, the world is so big, say that you can't find a person really can't find it, once said goodbye is really never seen again, how sad it is. I still feel embarrassed when I think about those happy, sad memories now. But time will not stand still, and you can only go forward alone.

So, enjoy your time with good friends. Don't wait until you lose it to regret it, and then understand the value of cherishing.

Friendship is much more important than love in my opinion, and it is common to see friends who have been friends for ten years, but rarely to hear about love that has been dating for ten years. A friend is someone who understands me, in this world, it is really not easy to find a bosom friend, there are many people in their thirties who have no friends, running around every day for a living, they are all wine and meat friends on the wine table, ** There are close friends who usually talk about their hearts. But it's still very simple for people in their thirties to fall in love, and even people in their forties and fifties, as long as they have money, they have everything, but they don't have good friends.

I'm very proud to say that I have three good girlfriends, who have been playing together since junior high school, who have played poker together in class, skipped class together, signed up for sports meetings together, and made a fool of themselves together, the kind of honor and disgrace that has been carried together, and it has been almost ten years now, and they can be regarded as people who have experienced ups and downs together, and my boyfriend asked me out with them, and chose them decisively, because my boyfriend may not be able to accompany me to the end, but they will definitely always accompany me to go on.

When I fell out of love, they also spent it with me, when I was a sophomore in high school, they skipped class to come to my class to find me, obviously they were in different schools, and they came to eat with me at noon, and then sent me back to the dormitory in the evening and bought me a lot of snacks. But my boyfriend hasn't done anything for me that touched me once, so I cherish these best friends of mine very much, they accompany me when I am the saddest, and they accompany me through difficulties again and again. I can't imagine what it would be like if they left me one day.

Friends have accompanied me throughout my youth, my naivety, my growth, they all see it, friendship has been sublimated to family affection for me, and I will be sad to lose them.

If she is a very important friend to you, I think it should be even more sad than falling out of love after breaking up with her, because such a good friend, it is difficult to get an identical one after losing it, so I will feel very sad and sad.

There was once an ancient poem that said: There is a confidant in the sea, and the end of the world is like a neighbor. Presumably, people have already told us some things about friends, so in real life, we pay more attention to friends.

Friends are like windows, life is like a room, the more friends, the brighter the house, it is extremely difficult to find a friend who is very similar to your personality, so we must cherish this friendship between friends.

Having friends is equivalent to a colorful and gorgeous scenery on the road to growth. Because friends are long-term passers-by who accompany you for most of your life, we meet many people in our lives, how many can we talk about things sincerely? So after meeting a good friend, you must cherish the relationship with her.

It is inevitable that there will be some small differences, small contradictions, small frictions between two people after a long time, and when we encounter things, we must treat them calmly, do not shirk responsibility to each other, and should consider the cause of the problem from our own point of view: whether it is because of your self-blame or other circumstances. Be careful, discuss and communicate with her!

The problem should not be allowed to worsen.

A very good and very good friend, if you are separated from you, then you will feel uncomfortable...If you do lose a good friend, I think it's hard to find a good friend like this! So cherish the feelings and interactions with your friends, because good friends are more important than boyfriends, so cherish them.

That's right, yes. This answer is unquestionable, certainly for me. Everyone is different, some people may pay more attention to love, and some people will feel that in a person's life, there will always be friends who will leave and stay, and now they have lost a friend, but they will make more friends in the future, so it is also a normal thing.

But I'm more emotional, especially my former friends, the longer the wine is left, the more mellow the taste will be, I just prefer old wine. We all make friends, no matter what age we are. And really making a good friend, a very good friend, is undoubtedly a great asset for us, give me to her.

When I was in junior high school, I changed classes once a year, and I was with one person a year, and now I met with my good friend in the first year of junior high school, and we still met like we just met yesterday, I can tell her my troubles without fear, and I will not be afraid of her laughing at me, I know that she is good to me, and now I still have a letter written to me by my best friend in the second year of junior high school, she said that I hope that in ten years I will carry the old wine, you and I are still old friends, and we also agreed that we will meet in front of Tiananmen Square in Beijing on April Fool's Day in 2020, When the time comes, I will invite her to dinner, and we both remember the agreement of the second year of junior high school. She was cold, but she loved to smile at me.

When we were in high school, we didn't have a class, and we followed for 3 years. I still remember the first thing she said to me, you are also 78, let's follow in the future. We're still doing well.

As long as you are good to me and you treat me as a friend, I am willing to do anything for you, and I think of you in everything. So for me, if I lose a very good friend, it will be really sadder than falling out of love.

In my cognition, I have always felt that family affection is the most important, friendship is secondary, and love is dispensable. Because relatives will never leave themselves and abandon themselves, no matter what mistakes you make, your parents will not abandon you, will help you, will forgive you. And friends are your relatives when they are not around, and sometimes some friends are more intimate than relatives and have a greater sense of security than relatives.

And love is so beautiful to say, but the ups and downs of it are known by themselves, such as people who drink water and know themselves. But even if someone knows that love is sour, bitter, and astringent, he is willing to go, which is also the wonder of love.

A good friend will be when you have been wronged and you are unhappy. You don't have to say he knows it too. It's the kind of tacit understanding that can be experienced with just one look.

It's like my best friend knows that I'm suddenly stopped talking, and I'm not happy. Sometimes I say something very ordinary, and he knows what I'm trying to say. Of course, this is also accumulated by getting along, understanding, and running in for a long time.

So if you lose such a good friend, you will definitely be sad for a long time. After all, it's hard to find such a tacit friend, and you don't have the energy to spend the same amount of time to meet a new friend. It's like falling in love, if you lose someone you've loved for a long time, you won't have the energy to spend the same amount of time loving another person.