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Being is lonely, don't be afraid of being alone, this is the pure enlightenment that life gives us, it doesn't carry any meaning. If you mend the relationship with yourself, learn tolerance, and know how to respect each other's freedom, there is not much difference between two people and one person, and one person can live better than two people. If you believe, it will be a little better and understand the happiness of self-sufficiency.
The biggest knot in people's hearts is that they only see the fault of others, and identify themselves as victims, but the unfortunate poor people can't see through them, and the victims are often self-harmful, using the existence of others to harm themselves, and thinking about living a bad relationship, I don't know what to do. Can you take love seriously? Let go of yourself a little bit and love yourself a little more?
A person who loves himself does not allow himself to live in the shadow of self-pity and hurt is a sign of cowardice. It is necessary to distinguish the difference between love and harm. This is true for loved ones, for lovers, and even more so for self.
When you are still you and I am still me, you know how to respect and love each other, and we walk together for a period of care, which is the gift of fate, and it is too late to thank you. When you are not afraid of loneliness, there is no need to divide between one person and two people, women and men, gentleness and violence, loyalty and betrayal, love and hate. The human energy is such that when you internalize the feelings and emotions that have gone bad and let yourself bear and bear it alone, sooner or later you will break down.
Theoretically, people are bound to be lonely, and no one can live for you, but emotionally, if you can't find a point to rely on, you will easily collapse if you are helpless. When the energy is exhausted, the strongest man in the world will fall. When we are tired, our energy falls to the bottom, our emotions are traumatic, we encourage negative imagination, and everything suddenly becomes gray and meaningless.
You must remind yourself that this feeling is just an inertial loop of cranial nerves that tend to negative reactions, not a reflection of life, so don't identify with it. When the energy declines, don't hold on to it, people are lonely animals, but don't be attached to loneliness.
Find an emotional point to rely on, such as a lover, such as a pet, such as yourself, like God, put it in your heart, love him, and then smile at yourself and say thank you. Don't care whether this reliance point is real or not, people are people, and you have to rely on emotional pillars that are stronger than yourself to live. Don't mind relying on it, don't care about saving face or anything, people are originally group animals, and there is no reason and need to be lonely and clinging.
Grasp a point of reliance that allows you to be centered, calm yourself, and then surpass yourself, if you can improve, you can realize the meaning of life and be satisfied.
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It can't be said that happiness is not very absolute, it can only be said that people are social animals, if there is no life circle of their own, his life will be very monotonous, and of course he will lose a lot of happiness!
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A person who lacks social interaction, no circle, and no friends, if he continues like this for a long time, will close himself off, become less confident, and dare not go out to communicate and interact with others. It is even possible that finding a job has become a problem.
If you are alone without friends, it will also have a great impact on his growth. For example, if you can't get in touch with people and things, you can't grow faster, and you don't even know how to communicate correctly when you communicate with others. This is the state of a person who has no circle to think about returning to annihilation, and who is often lonely in the world.
Of course, it's not completely absolute.
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Hello, I lack friends in my life to recognize my achievements, so I don't want to post on Moments, and there is no one to share my happiness or sorrows. The fundamental attribute of human beings is society, so most people like to gather in groups, eat, walk, struggle, and even go to the toilet, and want to call their partners together. Liang Shiqiu also said that only gods and beasts like to be lonely, and people want friends.
Therefore, making friends can be regarded as a part of human nature, but in daily life, there are often people who do not have many friends.
Friend. People are born different, some people are extroverted and enthusiastic, some people are introverted, and they will blush when they talk to others, which is actually normal. But being too introverted or even socially phobic will lead to a person who can't make any friends and always lives a lonely life.
However, after all, people want to make friends, and Komi Xiaozi has always had a wish, that is, to make enough friends for a hundred. This wish may be very simple for normal people, but it is difficult for Koko Furumi, who suffers from communication disorder.
Most people can't make friends because they are introverted and afraid to make friends. But not all extroverts can make a lot of friends, after all, human society is very complex. Some people are obviously very outgoing, and they are obviously very enthusiastic and like to make friends, but for some reason, they are targeted and isolated by others, resulting in not being able to make friends.
But whether you want to make friends, and what kind of people you want to be, is ultimately up to you. You must not make friends for the sake of making friends, but for the sake of your heart. Because there are times when it can be better to have no friends than to have a group of friends.
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This requires you to open your heart, take the initiative to chat more with people you think you can, occasionally know Zhaojuer to eat, go out to play together, you treat others sincerely, and I believe that your friends will be more and more. Guess what.
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It can be said that you will not be unhappy without friends, but you will be happy with friends.
Finally got through a morning of class, wanted to go back to the dormitory to eat, found that I forgot to bring the key, knocked on the door, only went in, angrily finished lunch, and went to class again before I could digest it, even if I was sleepy, no one helped you, so I could only stand up. In the evening, I finally took a break, opened Weibo to brush up on the popularity, found a funny joke, and when I looked up, I found that other people were chattering, not only could I not interject, but the joke had nowhere to share. Depressed, no, at night, you want to study, others want to sleep, you can only tiptoe through the materials with a lamp, but no one reminds you to go to bed early, your body is important.
Watching others walk in groups, talking and laughing, encountering difficulties, a ** to a friend The problem is solved, and you will be jealous, so ah, you must have your own friends. So you won't be unhappy without friends, you just won't be happy. You can't appreciate the righteousness and generosity of friendship and the care that goes into it.
We are all ordinary people, and we are still inseparable from friendship.
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If you don't have friends, you will find it difficult to move an inch, and you won't know who to ask for help when you encounter difficulties, and that's when you are really desperate. Friends can help you a lot by sticking a knife in your ribs. When you are sad, friends can comfort you, they will always make you happy, you don't want to talk anymore, they will be there for you quietly.
Aren't all friends like that, you help me, I help you, support each other to live life, you will find that life without friends is really difficult.
What if you want to go out on vacation, but you don't have any friends, is it fun to go out by yourself? When you see something interesting on the road, you want to turn around and tell someone, but who can you tell you, you came by yourself. Seeing the pairs of people next to you, you will feel very uncomfortable in your heart, you will feel very aggrieved, and you will walk away silently, not wanting to see a pair of people again, seeing sadness, and feeling so pitiful.
I don't think you'll ever feel like you're going to be happy without your friends.
When you're distressed and overwhelmed by something, you want to find someone to answer you, but who can you turn to, friend? You don't have it. Family?
The problems you have experienced may not have been experienced by anyone in your family, so how can they give you advice. Only friends, friends who are not very different in age from you, can better understand your troubles, your feelings, and give you the most sincere advice.
At least in my opinion, you can't live happily without friends, and if you don't have friends with you when you eat and go shopping, then these things seem so meaningless. I'm always alone, I don't have friends, I think the whole person will go crazy sooner or later, not to mention that it's not as simple as happiness, it's just going to be depressed, okay?
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People who have no friends generally have a world of their own in their hearts, and they can be completely filled in their own world, unrestrained, without any restrictions, and the so-called saints in ancient times are living in their own realm, isolated from the world, and will also live a good life.
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Some people like to be lonely, do things alone, travel alone, eat alone, go shopping alone, and they are also very happy.
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Yes, but with friends you will be happier and have a better life.
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I feel that sharing with others is a happy thing, and if I am alone, whether I am happy or sad, I can only be borne by one person, and I will become more and more depressed, so friends are very important to me.
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I don't have friends, I don't have any friends, I'm miserable, I crave friends, I crave friendship, but I don't have the means to get it all.
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It's good, I don't have any friends, only classmates with whom I have a good relationship.
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