Regarding my husband, I don t know how to open the knot hidden in my heart.

The previous is in the past tense, and you are his present tense.

Because human nature is greedy, there is no limit to the standard positioning of perfection, and there is no white and flawless perfect life.

As long as he's good to you now, what do you want to do, turn back time? You divorced for perfectionism? Do you think it's feasible?

At present, people are good to you, you are fine, although you are a little wronged, but you can't restrain yourself and become a lifetime of pain, you can think of his previous marriage as your union, mature his mentality.

When you are in a panic, your psychology will breed something, and if you think about it, you want to act. Rational containment is the right one.

This is a single aspect of your own psychological problem, which is a bit too deliberate to say that it is ugly, and a little unhealthy to say that it is extreme.

Let's talk to him directly! If he really understands you'll not care! I'm a man too!

Why is it only told on the day of collection? It's not a trivial matter to be married and divorced! I don't think I can accept it.

First of all, there is no prior confession about this matter, this point lies with your husband, see if you mind. Again, women have knots in their hearts, although they know that the more they know, the deeper they should hurt, but they still can't help it. But since you're married, let's think about how to live a good life.

Normal, everyone will have a knot, since you are married, you still have to manage your marriage well, as long as your husband is good to you. The future days are spent by the two of you together, don't often bring up the past, and let this third party who has disappeared affect the relationship.

Divorce is not a fault, if you are not happy in life, of course you have to get divorced, it is not up to the individual to have the final say. It is indeed not easy for people to be satisfied, and the person they like also likes themselves, and they will think that it would be nice if they had other conditions better - in fact, they are all false. Happiness in life is the most important thing!

Besides, you're doing well now. Cherish it, friend!

Since your husband confessed to you that he did a good job, you should be glad that he didn't hide it from you, so that you suddenly found out that he was married after a few years, what would it be like, I want to open a little, as long as my husband and his family are good to you now.

When encountering this kind of thing, it mainly depends on your own mentality, and I will send you a word. If you are not happy, if you are not happy, then let go, if you are reluctant to let go, then be miserable.

The past has nothing to do with you, as long as he is good to you now. Would you care if he was a bad boy as a kid? You'll think he's cute. So don't let the past stand in the way of your happiness now.

Oh, you have to live well in the next few decades, as long as your husband is good to you now and has nothing to do with his ex-wife, why bother yourself?

As long as your husband treats you well now, try to forget it. After all, you've chosen him. No matter how much you know, what's the point.

Everyone has a past, and when they are all married, don't mention the past, it's better to know than not to know, now that he is your husband, you have to believe him.

Well, as a woman, you do think like this, but dear, you still have to look forward, don't look backward, as long as he treats you well now, that's fine, you don't think too much.

Let him pass the past, why bother to increase his troubles, besides, everyone has a past, if you don't tell you that you are covered in your bones, it is not more uncomfortable. I want to open some.

Everyone makes some mistakes, depending on the size of the nature. Relax your heart, don't be too concerned about the past, as long as he treats you well in the future, the past is all floating clouds.

In fact, if it's an ex-girlfriend, you may also care, but since it's all in the past, you have to know how to let go. He will cherish you more.

Oh, women are always not so atmospheric, haha, this has to be conditioned by yourself, live a good life now, don't think so much.

I think you should let go of this matter slowly, your husband and in-laws are more important to you than anything.

Look away, and he tells you that he cares about you. As long as he's nice to you, try not to think about the past tense.

Everyone has a past, and the most important thing is the present, as long as the present is good.

Now that you're married, don't think about those unpleasant things, and think about it.

It shows that you really love your husband, and let him go over the past.

You're going to have a good time for decades to come, as long as your husband is good to you now.

You have to think about everything, as long as your husband is good to you now.

Your husband will do it to you.

It's normal, you love him and you must know everything about him.

Don't always drill the horns, and don't always think about the past when you get married.

Everyone has a past, and there is nothing to be sad about.

Since you've told you and you know, you should be relieved.

Don't be sad. The road is self-guided. Don't regret your choice.

1. Understand what is the knot in your husband's heart? to be able to unravel.

2. Care more about your husband and communicate more.

3. As long as you have a heart that loves your husband and the determination to give wholeheartedly, I believe that the knot in your husband's heart will be untied.

Do you know what the knot is?

It's hard to help you. After all, I don't know what kind of knot your husband has in his heart.

What is this knot?

Sometimes I like other girls.

But it's just a thought.

Maybe it's something else, anyway, there are things that men don't think is a big deal, but women feel unacceptable when they hear it.

For example, career distress.

Trouble between colleagues and friends.

There is something sad about the family.

I will be embarrassed to say something to you, or I don't want to bring his troubles to you, and boys prefer to carry it themselves.

Everybody has it. If you want me to have a girlfriend, I say it. Now I like a girl who is very nice.

She also knows that I like her. I told her everything. said that the heart is steady.

There is really no need to hide anything from the person you really love, and generally people who don't say it have a problem, that is, they have a weak heart. People with weak hearts generally have other people or other things in their hearts.

Since it's a secret, don't ask any more questions.

You have to show that you don't care at all.

Maybe that's what he did.

Now that it's all about this, what else do you ask? You let him say it himself, or leave him.

I'm going to tell you in the words of all men's hearts, that is, men's are women, don't care, hehe, in fact, no one wants to tell their secrets, you must have your own privacy.

That's generally going to be two boats, but you're definitely in the dark.

Favorite. Others have no memory.

Three ha, one is what she loves, one is what she hates, and the other one is her husband.

Two, the first and the last.

Woman, you have to understand: wonderful.

Love doesn't necessarily make for a good marriage. Remember: love and marriage are two different things.

Love emotionality, he is born with human nature, in love can abandon reality, prejudice, desperate love, at this time the two are very sincere. People describe love as romantic, romantic, also known as romantic, and the dictionary explanation is: poetic and full of fantasy.

This is the nature of love, unrealistic, poetic, fantastical. Love is entirely a matter of two people, and it has nothing to do with anything else around it.

But marriage is realistic, marriage is not a matter of two people, a perfect marriage includes the blessings and support of the hero and heroine as well as the family, friends and neighbors around the hero and heroine. If there is a little disharmony, the marriage is imperfect. Again, marriage is not a matter of two people, and if you don't understand, then you will never have a happy marriage.

Your boyfriend is a perfectionist, perfectionists want everything around them to be harmonious, if there is the slightest disharmony, their psychology will be damaged, woman, you are a person who can bring perfect love to your boyfriend, but not someone who can bring him a perfect marriage.

Your man is sensible and knows that love is an unstable and short-term relationship, once the pressure is put on love, it is easy to reveal his fragile and vulnerable nature, so give up, it is the wisest choice to find a person who suits him, people are profit-oriented, and your man knows very well what kind of person can bring him a stable family. Only a harmonious and stable family can bring him success in his career and life. So give up, the object of marriage is always the most suitable for you but not your favorite, don't force it, otherwise there will be no good results, and entanglement will only hurt each other.

If the other party loves me the most, I will do my best to live with her for the rest of my life. Because it is not easy for each other to love each other deeply, this must be a blessing for a hundred generations! In reality, one party often pays more than one party and loves deeply.

Now your man says to you: (He said that he will keep the best love in his heart for the rest of his life, I am the person he loves the most, and he will find a suitable person to marry him when he gets married in the future). When he said such a thing, I am sure he must have thought about it for a long time, and he must have been the most helpless and painful of all.

In the end, he chose to hide you in his heart, I think because he didn't think he could give you happiness and what you wanted. As you say: passively separated by reality.

As for (see the title) why a man can hide the person he loves the most in his heart and marry the person he doesn't love the most Because happiness is in his own hands, marrying her is not the one he loves the most. I accidentally learned on the Internet that Lin Yutang seems to be such an example, and the title of the article is "I didn't take you because I love you", which is not very easy to understand. What men want to see most is that their beloved woman is happy and happy!

Since you can't do it yourself, then let it go. It's a bit tragic! ）

In fact, men and women are not different from each other psychologically, except for a little difference physically, and they all think about the same. It is recommended that you go outside to play when you have nothing to do, in a new environment, see new things, new people, there are many things that are easy to figure out...

Although we love each other deeply, we cannot be together for many reasons, because women rarely marry the man who loves her the most, and men rarely marry the woman she loves the most.

Landlord, shouldn't you think about what your husband paid for you.

Think of your husband in the dark.

Don't be stupid, love can only be you and your husband's

I don't know how to say it, love him so much!

The person you love the most is not the one you love, the person you love the most is the person who lives with you every day, you are right to think like that, beauty is the past, life is life, not thinking, do you know that you will be happy after being with him? Reality and imagination are completely different, let's just say me, 2 men are the same, I don't have the same as my favorite one, because things are too beautiful and too perfect will become more unsightly, how much do you have to pay behind the beauty, have you ever thought about it.

Seriously, my current situation is like what you are now, I don't know what I should do, no matter which decision I make, it will not be perfect, there will always be people who are hurt, choose to be with the people they love, the relatives around them will be sad, choose to live like this for a lifetime, then for themselves, they will spend a lifetime of regret, so the pain, sad to bear alone, I am not resolute, there is no way to make a decision, I can only live one day at a time.

- The carefree, long in nature, content with nature, natural and only.

There are some things that cannot be forced

There are some things that can't be avoided

Since love him. Just respect his ideas

This question goes back to 10,000,000 years ago, and women never understand a man's heart, and you can't understand it.

One-sided summary is: dedication.

Some men will give up everything for their careers, and some men will give up everything for women.

Love and marriage are fundamentally two different things, and sometimes, marriage is just a transaction, so there is a "political marriage".

You're a little selfish, and now that you have two men who love you, what are you praying for? Do you want both? Isn't it nice to have one in your heart and one by your side? You also have to be more considerate of others ...

Don't write about such questions in the future. Ay...

Many times we can't be with the person we love the most, but the one who stays with you all your life is not your favorite, and many people walk together but don't know how to cherish each other! ——

Love comes quietly, and those who go don't say hello, so we should cherish fate!

Vary.

It can be countless or unique.

It depends on what kind of person it is, if it's a lover, it will definitely have an impact.

I'm just one.

I love my current girlfriend, but I miss one of my former girlfriends.

If you don't promise, you will be sad if you can't realize it when the time comes, and you feel that he can't be trusted Men are not easy to do, no matter how hard they work, they don't say anything, and they take everything in their hearts alone, but sometimes it is possible to say it to you when it comes to the extreme, don't worry He just doesn't make you sad and wants to carry it yourself