Is it okay to keep your thoughts in your heart and not tell them?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-12
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My thinking was a little confused, she said that the person she loved might not be her, and took the liberty of asking, she and she are both gay??! Maybe you should have made a typo, right? Otherwise, the relationship is a bit complicated, I'll just press that she likes another man, okay?

    And then I think you should also be male, first of all, I rely on the old and sell the old, TV often says, the most important thing for both parties in addition to trust is communication. The two of you just lack enough communication, even if you both trust each other and understand each other, but if you don't speak, the consequences can be imagined. If you don't say it, and she doesn't say it, can you still telepathize and not ?..

    And she said that the person she loves may not be him, which doesn't mean that she is interesting to you, waiting for you to confess to her, that he is just a foil. When you look at it from a different perspective and think from the perspective of outsiders, don't you think that the two sides are not lacking each other's understanding, but who takes the initiative to communicate? Empathy, think from her point of view:

    Oh, I've said it so thoroughly, why hasn't he replied to me yet? As a man, do you still want her to confess to you? I think you understand that.

    Okay, that's all I have to say, I hope it will help you, in fact, what I'm most afraid of is the gender of your guys, if I'm mistaken, please bear with me, China's him, her, it's easy to kill people.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In fact, everything has to be said. It is important to know that communication is important. You don't say how she understands. You know, girls will think wildly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Some things have to be said before people will know, if you don't say it like this, people won't know, you have to talk to people more, intimate greetings, more care, give people a sense of security, so that people know.

    If you like it, you have to say it

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's not good, it's going to leave regrets...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1. Something. We know it's wrong. Stick to it.

    Because I am not reconciled. Some people, we know that they are love, but we have to give up, because there is no ending, sometimes. We knew there was no way.

    But it's still moving forward. Because I'm used to it. 2. I thought I was blindfolded.

    You can't see the world. Thought he had covered his ears. You can't hear all your troubles.

    Thought the footsteps had stopped. The heart will no longer travel far. Thought I needed love.

    Just a hug. 3. Those mistakes that have been made. Some of them are because it's too late.

    But they never know how to learn from it. Do some introspection. 4. You don't know I'm thinking about you.

    It's because you don't love me. I know you don't want me. But I still love you.

    It's because I'm stupid. Maybe sometimes. Escape is not because you are afraid to face something, but what you are waiting for.

    5. There are no traces of wings in the sky. But the birds have flown by. My heart has not been cut by a knife.

    But the pain is so clear. The softest part of these chests. A wound that has been hurt by a loved one.

    Far sharper than the injuries to those limbs. And only time. to be able to **.

    Because of the wrong love for one person. And lonely for a lifetime. We can love one another.

    but doomed to not be able to stay together. It's not that I don't love you enough. It's just that I'm not sure.

    This love. Isn't it the most correct. 7. If betrayal is a kind of courage.

    It takes a greater courage to accept betrayal. The former just needs to be brave enough. Or maybe it's just a spur of the moment.

    The latter, on the other hand, tests the degree of tolerance. It's not as simple as impulse. All it takes is time.

    8. Life cannot be used to prove love. It's like we can't prove that we can stop believing in love. in the city.

    Just as Rolex is a material luxury. Love, on the other hand, is a spiritual luxury. But life is fragile.

    There is simply no way to afford that much luxury. 9. The greatest difficulty for people is to know themselves. The easiest thing is to know yourself.

    A lot of the time. We don't recognize ourselves. Just because we put ourselves in the wrong place.

    Gave yourself an illusion. So. I am not afraid of the bumpy road ahead, but I am afraid that I will go in the wrong direction from the beginning.

    10. Living in a city. Or love someone. Or do something.

    It's been a long time. You will get bored. There will be an urge to escape.

    Maybe not tired of the city. Loved ones. Stick to things.

    I just can't give myself the courage to persevere. 11. How many times and how many times. Memories draw life into a circle.

    And we've been in the same place countless times. There is no way to get rid of it. Always want to go back to the place where you first met.

    If I could choose again. I thought I could love more purely. 12. If you know the end of this story.

    You may choose to speak up. Or pretend not to know. Don't stop talking.

    Sometimes it hurts someone else. It hurts to choose silence than to confess...Buried in my heart for a long, long time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you don't tell him. That when he was holding another girl. He doesn't know you like him.

    Do you think it can be sustained? If you like it, you should be bold to say it. Instead of hiding.

    Hide until you like to decay. Then. It's too late for you to regret it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is ignorant to pass it on to a bunch of people, and it is normal to vent to one or two friends, and good friends will listen carefully and be enthusiastic about giving advice.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Of course, I have to say it, there is a saying that happiness and hardship are shared, telling others happy things is happier, and sharing sadness will make the heart relaxed.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Try to be optimistic.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find some interest, I like rock 'n' roll, because it makes me feel better, and if you really can't think about it, tell me in a private message

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Not necessarily, although it is not a secret when it is said, it is not to be hidden in the heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello, I think your understanding is right. Secrets are things that are not known, things. It's a secret if you know it and you don't tell anybody, and you can't call it a secret if a second person knows, because he might tell it.

    Nozomi adopts!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes, a secret is something you know and what you don't let others know.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is not called a secret, it can only be called privacy, and a secret can be a fact that is known to a very small number of people.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes. Is it still a secret when you say it? That's called well-known.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes. Anyone who is told is likely to be known by the outside world.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The secret is the treasure in the crevices of the cave, and once it is dug up, the cave will disappear forever... It makes people lose the space to be alone.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    OK. However, it is easy to misunderstand.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No feedback, only giving. How long do you think you can hold out on your own? Let the other person know that you are good to him. The other party can repay you again. Aren't you more motivated?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not good, you're going to be very sad when you leave one day...

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It is a sign of maturity, but it is also perfect to share happiness with friends appropriately

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Congratulations, you're starting to get a city. Begin to enter another level of life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because I can't talk about my suffering, I don't know who to talk to, and I'm very tired.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There are two situations, the first is that you will continue to do this if you adjust properly, and the second is that you will become more introverted. It is recommended that you watch "Yes Man", a movie that has a good inspiration for life. I used to be like this for a while, but suddenly one day I changed, and now I talk so much, you can try to fall in love.

    It can also change your personality. Because every day I can talk to my little daughter-in-law for 2 hours in one breath... She thinks I'm grinding.

    Please downstairs, the landlord didn't say she was married when he asked the question. Your advice can easily make someone else's marriage go wrong. Landlord, don't close yourself off to your husband.

    I also often let my wife have ideas, but when she is not satisfied, she will tell me that I will stand up and help her at that time. I love her because she never hides her thoughts about me, and it's important that she and I avoid our crisis in a timely manner. As long as there is no barrier between two people, all problems will be solved.

    Try talking to your husband.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Please, upstairs, people are married, do you want people to fall in love? Please, how can you encourage the emergence of a junior?

    I was just about to see the topic that MM popped up in my baidu, so I still want to talk about my thoughts

    You can choose to read books and find answers in books, many things in life are the same, right?

    And you can listen to **, touch the soul once, **let you say, you will find a soulmate.

    Again, have the opportunity to talk to your girlfriends, when they are not busy. Or you can go on a trip, relax your mind, haha, even if you like to travel.

    Now I realize a truth, when you are confused, don't talk to a man other than your husband, brother, and father, you know this, not to mention. Hehe, of course, ask a question in baidu and say it again, so it's okay to be more public, hehe

    But what? People who feel introverted may read books and **, which will be more suitable for you.

    I really hope that friends who haven't seen each other are happy, hehe

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Many people will hide their hearts, most of such people are particularly insecure in life, or they are particularly unconfident, in life, they always dare not express themselves, such emotions seem to have nothing to do with Leo, but in fact, Leo people are just the standard, hiding what they want to say in their hearts, and they don't want to express themselves.

    Because Leo people always show a particularly strong appearance in life, but in fact, this is all Leo's disguise, Leo's heart is very much hoping that someone can understand themselves, even if others don't understand themselves, Leo will not explain, or say more, becauseLeos have their own pride, and they think that it is particularly hypocritical to say these things to others, like what a little girl does, so Leos never express what they really think.

    Leo's heart is actually very sensitive and fragile, they are reluctant to express their thoughts, in fact, they are afraid that they will give a sincere heart and end up being trampled on, and a proud person like Leo does not allow himself to be in such a situation, so they prefer to choose to hide their thoughts and not give others the opportunity to hurt themselves. Everyone expresses it differently, Leo just hides the expression of love in his heart and rarely expresses it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Leos are like this, because they always feel very cold and not easy to touch.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Of course not, Leo can't hide anything in his heart at all, and will ask any questions.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In my opinion, among the zodiac signs, Leos always keep what they want to say in their hearts because they don't want others to know.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Leo is hot on the outside and cold on the inside, looking at the most rigid and yang, in fact, there are many things hidden deep inside.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Leo's characteristics in this regard are still more obvious, because they always feel that no one is listening to them or that they are not confident enough. But the heart is on fire.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Yes, Leo has this trait, and the guru is cold on the outside, but on the inside.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It depends on what kind of idea you have, whether it's a good idea or a bad idea. Whether it's a simple idea or not, it's not necessarily a bad thing to leave a little privacy at the right time.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    To classify, it would be a fool to talk about everything...

    However, if you are always holding it alone, you will be depressed, so you should also release it appropriately!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Not good... Isn't it uncomfortable to hold it in your heart? It's uncomfortable. If you feel uncomfortable, just say it. Even if it's for the wooden people.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you have an idea, it's best to talk about it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    After a long time, everyone no longer understands you and cares about you, and you can only live in your own world.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Let's be bold and say it! I used to too, and I didn't like to tell my friends and family, including my boyfriend, what I thought. Always hold it in your heart. After a long time, I feel that I am so tired from living, say it! I've been holding back that it's not good for my body and mind!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Well, everyone should have their own secrets.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If it's not good, you have to say it, or if you don't hide it in your heart, what is the use of taking it?

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Individuals have their own privacy, if you don't chat about sad things, you can let it go.

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