Why are old people having a hard time?

The old man is having a hard time for a variety of reasons. First, the elderly are old, lose the ability to work and earn money, and need their children to support, and second, the elderly will feel some discomfort when they are old, such as deafness and dizziness, riddled with diseases, and often can't bear it. Third, the life of the elderly is not as clean and neat as that of young people, and there are many young children or outsiders who are not used to it, dislike the elderly, and the elderly have psychological pressure.

Fourth, some unfilial sons and daughters also abuse the elderly! Therefore, the old man worked hard to raise us as children, and worked hard all his life, we must treat the old man well, and we can't pick and choose, saying that the parent's nurturing grace is greater than the sky!

Many old people are old, life is more miserable, there is no especially the elderly in the countryside, no income, every time they learn to rely on the first subsidy to get a little money, they don't dare to get sick at all, they have a serious illness, there is no money to treat, they can only wait, carry, and in the countryside, they have to farm, and the food is planted from the ground, and there is no food if they don't work. So the life of the old man is very difficult.

Because people don't rely on their muscles and bones for their energy, all the functions of the body have declined. It doesn't feel as expensive as the experience it had when I was younger. And as soon as you get older, it's easy to annoy people, uzi daughter-in-law or something? Hope, thank you! aqui te amo。

The physical fitness of the elderly will decline, and the opportunities to earn money will decrease, and the days will definitely be affected.

With the improvement of life, there is the rise of universities for the elderly in every place, which can allow the elderly to regain their interest and return to the class to learn a variety of: illustration, calligraphy, Chinese painting, **, cooking classes and so on. The elderly improve the fulfillment of life through learning, and it will also make the elderly feel a sense of accomplishment and happiness.

Sports & Fitness:

As the elderly get older, various problems and diseases will appear when the body's function declines, so it is necessary to strengthen the physical fitness and exercise. Wake up early and jog a few laps, do tai chi, the exercise will not be too strentic; After eating in the evening, take a walk downstairs and in the park, relax your mind and exercise your body at the same time, which is conducive to your health.

Actively participate in the community:

Nowadays, many communities will organize a lot of activities for the elderly, such as: tea parties, dance competitions for the elderly, chorus competitions, etc., and will also hold various large-scale activities on important festivals: Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, National Day, and Spring Festival.

Square dance: square dance old people are very familiar, it can be seen how attractive square dance is, whether it is the first square there are old people dancing square dance, not only exercised the body, but also met a lot of new friends, their lives are no longer boring and lonely, become colorful.

Grocery shopping, supermarket shopping:

Many supermarkets and shopping malls will have a lot of ** activities on weekends or daily, as well as fresh vegetables in the morning in the vegetable market, many elderly people will get up early to buy vegetables, and it is not necessarily to save money, this is a kind of living habits and fun, and neighbors have to talk and laugh together, life is no better.

Health and wellness tourism: a new concept of health and wellness tourism: relying on the beautiful natural environment, humanistic activities, to promote physical and mental health as the motive, combined with medical care, heart and beauty tourism, leisure and vacation, sports and recreation, healthy diet and other forms, in order to achieve self-cultivation, medical treatment, physical fitness, longevity and other forms of tourism.

If you are in good health, you can travel together, go to various places to see and play, and if you have the conditions, you can even go abroad to see; If you are not physically fit to travel across regions, you can go to nearby attractions to see and embrace nature and enjoy life.

When people reach old age, they have lived for most of their lives, and they have experienced the feelings they should have experienced, and they have also experienced the struggle of life. After basically retirement, you will be officially old, right?

More than half of my life has passed, what kind of old age life is the greatest happiness? The reality is divided into several categories according to the situation, those who have no wife have never married or married, some have no wife but have children and grandchildren living with their children (there are also some who live alone), and there are still wives and children who live together with two people.

No matter what kind of life, those who have an old wife are not so lonely, and being with their children is always different from their old wife, or it is more comfortable to stay with their old wife, and people who have stayed for most of their lives, all kinds of people are accompanied, it is a kind of happiness.

Another happy thing is to focus on the children and grandchildren, the families of the children and grandchildren are not so much life pressure, there are not so many troubles, the father is kind and filial to the son, the children and grandchildren are more filial, often see their parents, give some pocket money and the like. Companionship is something that no one else can do except my wife. Children and grandchildren still have their affairs to do, it is the time of young struggle, and there will not be much time to mix with the elderly.

In addition to these, there is also a kind of happiness is fun, old, retired, no work to do, only idle, more capital accumulation in the early stage, it is good to say, with the wife of the world around the world, all over the world to play and eat, there are a few elderly single people also go to the hotel every day to eat there, there is nothing to do. Experience the taste that you have never tasted before, and see the world you have never seen before.

As for those who don't have money, at most they can eat some locally, watch some, dance square dances, or dedicate their time to future generations to bring their grandchildren, and when they are older, most of them stay at home.

When you're old, you don't seem to have much emotional life, right? I don't know if my heart will beat after being silent for too long. I've been curious about a question, probably not, the happiness at this time is basically almost the twilight of life.

People live for a lifetime, from empty-handed, naked, after experiencing thousands of situations in the world, after thousands of joys and sorrows, the taste is like people drinking water cold and warm to know themselves.

It wasn't until later in life that the countdown to life was reached, and the finale was really revealed.

Yesterday's things are like yesterday's death, and today's things are like today's birth. How you live in your old age is indispensable, and even very important, to the meaning of this life:

If you can be happy in your later years, even if your early years are a little bumpy, you can be used as an interlude or a seasoning, but you can add a lot of color to your life;

And if the early years are smooth, but the later years are bumpy, then it cannot be regarded as really blessed; But when you are young, you are proud of the spring breeze and happy in your old age, which is really the icing on the cake.

It's like writing a huge book, and you are the protagonist in it, and the content in the middle is important, but having a beautiful ending is often impressive, or even a bit of a dry touch.

Therefore, being able to make oneself happy, especially in old age, is the ultimate pursuit of everyone. Then people grow old.

1. Good health, no disease and no disaster.

I believe that everyone has no objection to this, no matter how wonderful your life is, without a healthy body as a guarantee, it is all in the air.

It's like a number, no matter how many zeros there are in the back, and there are no 1s in front of it, then everything is in vain.

What's more, when people reach old age, their bodies are already prone to problems, and having a good body and no pain is really a great blessing, and it is also the physiological basis for happiness in old age!

Second, there is abundant money and food, and food and clothing are not worried.

Money is the foundation of life, and in order to survive and develop when you are young, it is nothing to endure some hardships.

If you don't have enough pension in your old age, you still have to worry about money and survival, and the situation will be more miserable.

We sometimes see some elderly people on the street, who are already in their old age, still dragging their weak bodies and pushing tricycles to run around

There are vegetable sellers, there are garbage pickers, seeing such a scene, people can't help but feel sour noses.

As long as these old people have enough money and food, they will not bask in the wind and rain and work hard. This age should have been a comfortable state of retirement at home.

Because people are in poor health when they get old, a person's life is more difficult to manage, and if there is any accident at home, it is difficult for no one to see it.

The life of the elderly itself is not as rich as that of young people, and it takes a certain amount of time to accept new things, and some elderly people may not be able to accept some new things. It's especially easy to feel lonely, and it's a kind of loneliness that comes from the heart. And the elderly are old, their physical condition is not as good as before, if there is any physical condition, if there is no one around, it is especially easy to miss the best opportunity.

You feel that the elderly live a lonely life, and when they are unwell, they cannot seek medical attention in time, which can easily lead to more serious consequences.

Because it is still quite tiring to live alone, you have to face a lot of pressure in life, and sometimes you have no support.

Because it is easy for people to feel lonely when they reach old age, if they live alone, they may suffer from depression and other mental illnesses, so it is better to find someone to accompany them.

The elderly are most afraid of loneliness, living alone, without even talking, the mood will be depressed, and it is easy to get sick.

I went to see my mother-in-law last night, and my mother-in-law took me by the hand and asked me to go out with her alone, and I knew that I had something to say, and I had to avoid other people, maybe she had been wronged.

In the process of chatting, I learned that my mother-in-law had a lot of unhappiness in the process of living with the nanny.

Also, the nanny is out to make money, after all, she is not her own person, she can meet a heartfelt nanny, relying on luck, of course, it is not denied that the mother-in-law is old, and there are some situations that are not considered in the way of handling and nannying.

I said: the babysitter can be changed at any time. The mother-in-law said again: Forget it, it's all the same. Comparatively, it's better to live in a nursing home! People in nursing homes, if this is done to me, how can I live there for so many years?

Today, half a year after leaving the nursing home, because of the tense relationship with the nanny at home, she recalls the days when she was in the nursing home, and Sakura is only happy to be left, completely forgetting why she wants to go home every day when she is in the nursing home.

In the end, my mother-in-law still collapsed and didn't forget to tell me: Don't worry, I'm fine.

How could I not be worried? Didn't get a good night's sleep last night.

On the morning of July 19th.

Wake up at 5 o'clock.

Bedtime: 9 a.m.

Weather: Rain. Mood: Good.

Write consistently for 17 days.