Will eight years of love say goodbye because of family factors?

There are many parents who suddenly know that their children have a partner and they will start to oppose it. Because there are a lot of only children now. This will suddenly make them think that you are robbing their son with them.

Psychology will naturally be disgusted. It's normal, if you really love him, then you stick to it. After all, everyone is an adult, and besides, if you have been dating for 8 years, he should know you very well, so if you both insist, there won't be much of a problem.

Don't care so much about their parents' opinions.

Don't look at what other people think of you both!

Look at what he thinks, if he thinks the same way or is very embarrassed, then I don't think it's necessary, at least I have the confidence to change the status quo with you, and I believe that he will be recognized over time.

Eight years of love, the foundation must be very strong.

Then your him, what is his attitude now, this is very important, you have to have a long talk with him, find out what he really thinks, if he is also reluctant to you, and you love her, I think you can do his family's work well for love, I personally think that if you still love each other very much now, you should work hard to strive for your own happiness, no matter what the result is, you go to fight, lose and win without regrets! Personal humble opinion, just for reference!

As long as you two hold on, there shouldn't be much of a problem.

This aspect should be the primary responsibility of your subject. You can't think it's good for him to leave him, or you'll both be miserable.

Let your partner have a good talk with his family, and show how much he loves you, and if you don't marry or something, I hope to influence his family. If it doesn't work, you can also drink some wine and play tricks, and the last bitter trick will see that the people in his family still insist on opposing it.

Otherwise, just hold on. You have a normal relationship with your partner, ignore their parents, and he doesn't look for other partners, and after a long time, their parents will accept you.

The key is to see whether he is firm, as long as he has the heart to do the ideological work of his family, he will definitely do it.

Your conditions are very suitable, and his family shouldn't ask for anything.

Falling in love is a matter of two people, and parents have no right and should not care! If you find someone who is rich and powerful, but has no feelings, do you think you will be happy? Communicate well with your parents!

If you think she is worth your giving, and you will be very happy after you get married, then don't hesitate to communicate with your parents! Let them know your heart --- you love her! Otherwise, you'll hurt her severely! Let your conscience go away!

If you like it very much, you should communicate with your parents again, after all, she has three brothers and sisters, and sometimes the elders are worried that your life will not only bear your family in the future, because like your girlfriend's family situation, in case her sister will have to bear your life in the future, help, what should you do? Think about it and talk about it.

The relationship is two-sided, if you are confused because of family conditions, it can be seen that in your heart, you still care about your parents' opinions and other people's opinions, and even your own opinions. In that case, you are contradictory. But I want to tell you that true feelings don't care about that.

Let's talk to your parents, otherwise if you are together, your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not get along, you will be very embarrassed, and your girlfriend will not be happy.

Yes There's no way, or just talk to your parents, or we'll be able to break up, and my colleague has the same problem, and finally broke up.

Then you don't learn from your parents' experience! Do you want the tragedy to happen to you all over again?

It's a real social condition, and it's really important, but you can cook the rice first, ahh

1. All your love is not firm enough, maybe you can't give each other what they want.

There may be a lot of helplessness and a lot of bitterness in separation, but since it can't belong to you, why don't you let this love and this love stay in your heart forever, and wish him happiness and happiness. Let go of him, is not the same as let go of all the happiness, maybe in the near future your true happiness is waiting for you to pursue it, if you only know to live in your own world, only live in the pain of losing him and ignore the things around the people around you, the happiness that really belongs to you around you, isn't it really a big loss? People have to look forward, the past can only belong to memories, you can't let time go back because of regret, when you cherish it, you must learn to cherish, when you lose it, you must learn to say goodbye and say blessings like the one you love.

It should be because your love is too calm and has experienced too little wind and rain, so once the storm comes, it will collapse instantly.

Love is not something that can be lived for a lifetime by promise! The world is realistic. People are more realistic. A breakup is a new beginning.

When love and money meet, how to choose, not all love will lose to money, because with money may not be happy, of course, no money is not good, but still have to believe that there is true love. In the face of love, not everyone will choose money. Come on.

People who came over said kindly, don't you don't like to listen Love is difficult to cross the threshold of money Although I don't approve of it, or even disagree with it, but it is really like this You can experience it carefully Good luck

In reality, most of the cases are like this: only in TV and ** will there be any perfect love.

Life and material go hand in hand, in love, love results, before love, what does not cost money, people in life, money is a necessity.

Miscellaneous that, it depends on your family environment!! I guess it's mostly the parents' wishes now!

The choice is yours, and the most we can do is share our insights with you. It's normal to fall in love in college, because everyone yearns for it at this stage. In fact, I used to disapprove of college love, and many people tried hard to talk about it, but then they broke up in tears.

At the time, I thought it was a waste of money, but now I don't think so. I found that there are many people around me who are in love, and they are very happy now, of course, they estimate a lot like you when they don't talk about it anymore. But then I think it's good to be happy when people are alive, the two of them have been entangled in what the future will be, and love will change when they go every day.

I want to suppress my college life, prematurely bound to what you have, how can you be sure of your future development and destiny. Even if you are not together, it is a kind of fate, there is another one that is more suitable for you, and you will be unhappy if you are too concerned about the kind of inappropriate in the past, because it is not suitable and the contradiction will intensify. It's good to make yourself happy now, and don't do too much.

You see, so many couples in the university talk about the future every day, and then don't talk about it. Not to mention that ordinary men and women in college will break up one day, why bother so much. I think you come up and say, if a lot of us support it, maybe you can talk about it, but make yourself happy, you know, it's also an experience.

Wishing you happiness!

Why think about it so much? College love is to pass the loneliness. College graduation breakup season.

Follow your heart. Falling in love is not a game, but it needs to be walked with a sense of responsibility, and if you are not ready to take responsibility, don't set foot lightly.

This is actually a problem of outlook on life, if you know that you can't go together, some people choose to give up altogether, after all, there is no result. Some people choose to love well, cherish the bits and pieces together, and give her infinite happiness that will be unforgettable for a lifetime in a limited time. It's up to you to which you belong.

No one can say for sure what the future holds. You should be a person in charge of that, I think. Of course it's okay to be in love, it's natural for two people who like each other to be together.

Then you said that there is not much hope for us together in the future, so do it, if you break up, it's good that girls won't hate you. Be at peace with what you encounter, you're a boy again, if you want to love, be brave and love...

It's okay if you're going to take a little, and if you don't think it's very good, forget it.

Don't do impossible things, so as not to harm others and yourself, and get along with her as a good friend.

I think I still need to think about it, maybe my thinking is more conservative, I think since I choose to fall in love with the other party, the ultimate goal must be to hope that the other party will become my wife, otherwise why waste so many feelings! If you feel that the difference is really big, and the chance of being together in the future is small, it is better to divide it, and the long pain is better than the short pain. But in other words, if your relationship is really good and has an emotional foundation, then nothing else is a problem.

You must think about it yourself, otherwise your feelings will be hurt.

For college love, now Chinese parents, really some think too beautiful, primary school is not allowed to fall in love, middle school is not allowed to play ambiguous, high school is to study wholeheartedly, and even some parents in college are not allowed to fall in love, and then, as soon as you graduate, your parents want you to immediately bring a ready-made object home to get married, and everything is good. How can it be so easy, in fact, there is really no need to worry so much about college love, you can be together if you like it, and there are not many monetary or material factors. Although this tastes like being together because of boredom and emptiness, it is better than the materialism in society.

Let's fall in love, young people, don't think too much about it, follow fate, and if you feel that you can tolerate all the shortcomings of the other party in the future, you will propose to get married. College love should be the last thing you decide before you enter the society, and at worst, it should be regarded as the experience of falling in love in the future.

Hope. Wishing you happiness.

Yes, but with sincerity.

It's a headache. On the one hand, there is family affection, and on the other hand, there is love. Please forgive me directly, if it were me, I would choose family affection, family affection is only once in a lifetime, love can be two or three times. Weigh it up for yourself. Adopt it.

I think family and love are equally important, and with love, there will naturally be a harmonious family.

If you love her, then you will love it, but it should also be good for your family.

Because it's love, it's going to be tiring and it's going to be painful! The more true the love, the deeper the wound! Tired!

That's because it's not a person you "love"! Suffering! That's because you can't bear to hurt anyone!

Can you "love" just one person? No! So you can only get tired!

Would you hate to "hurt" either of them? You can't bear it, so you can only bear the pain! Love is a long and temporary road, a smooth and bumpy road If you want to go to the end, you can only rely on yourself!!

So you still have to grasp what you should grasp Give up what you should give up Cherish what you should cherish The fate of life is 3 points, 7 points are destined to rely on hard work I think love is the same So stick to the end and you will win Come on friends.

Family and love, they are half each, nothing more important, if you choose a lover, others may say that you are unfilial, but if you choose a loved one, some friends may think you are ruthless. In fact, you can choose both, you can use time to change them, didn't you say that your lover is rural? You can justify your choice because of certain material efforts, and when you live a happy life, they will actually be happy for you, even though they were against it before, because that's how I chose.

Family affection and love are the most difficult trade-offs for people! I hope you can talk to your parents a little more. Let's see if they have the possibility of giving in, if it really doesn't work, I hope you can choose love! Because a lover is someone who can live with you for a lifetime

There are always shortcomings in love that cannot be affirmed by the family.

Sooner or later, you have to face it, find an opportunity to reveal a little bit first, and see 、、、 first

You have to meet your parents sooner or later, and if your parents don't agree, it depends on whether your relationship is firm. You know that his family's conditions are not good, so you must be prepared to endure hardships, and don't end up getting married and regretting it.

You can communicate with your parents first, see what your parents want from your future son-in-law, and be mentally prepared.

I think you're a pretty good girl. Don't care how good his conditions are, work hard, improve yourself, and take your destiny into your own hands. Don't rely on his money, he will love you more. We must be independent, work hard, and be self-reliant.

The rich are as deep as the sea.

Please be cautious, in fact, it is difficult to say that his parents will not dislike you if they will never be outdated, even if he loves you very much, but the father's life is difficult to disobey.

Marrying into a wealthy family will definitely be different from ordinary working family life,,, love must have courage, and marriage needs to think clearly.

It's not that when you're with someone, you don't think about anything, and you're together without hesitation.

But now it's not about falling in love.,It's about thinking about getting married.,,Thinking about things are different.。。

If your boyfriend can overcome the pressure from his parents and wants to be with you hard,,, then bless you.

Think more about yourself... But I still hope you can be happy.