It s really hard to choose something like this, and when you encounter a tangled matter, you need to

Wake up! Realistically, it's better to break up!

If you still have a lot of youth to kill, just wait for him to wake up from his dreams!

Or you tell him what you want and how much time you give him.

If he still has the same as always.

Just give up your hopes.

Love is no match for reality!

Unrealistic people, always living in fantasy.

In fact, it's not easy to say that it's not easy to leave, and we've been together for a year after all.

But you also have to do something and give him an opportunity and a moment to behave. If it ends up like that, don't hesitate. Let's just make a decision.

Be realistic!

It's better to be realistic, leave as soon as you still have a way to quit, life is a lifelong thing, and now the contact feels bad to show the other party, and it will not be easy to delay it again.

Now in the real society, everything must be based on one's own interests, and you must find people who can eat according to their own ability.

When you don't know how to choose, it's the same no matter what you choose. There's still a long way to go. Forget about it.

I'm afraid that this kind of person can't ask for it, it's just a helpless person, and he can eat for a lifetime by relying on relationships?

What if you can't find a relationship? Eating at home and waiting to die?

Think about it yourself. There are always some things that you have already said above that are very clear.

Either you can talk calmly, and if he's really that useless, you'll disperse.

Not much really!

Hope you understand!

When faced with a difficult decision, I consult with different people, and listen to other people's opinions when I stand my ground.

When I feel that I can't make a choice, I will choose to consult my relatives or friends, and then choose according to my actual situation; I think it's best to listen to other people's opinions and discuss when it's hard to choose, maybe we won't change because of what the other person says, but at least I have a general idea to make a decision.

For example, if I want to quit my job, but I feel that it is difficult to find a similar good job after quitting, I will list many reasons for the benefits of quitting and many reasons for the bad of quitting, and then compare. I really don't think it's comparable, so I ask my friends and relatives and ask them to give me ideas.

Sometimes I will encounter some difficult choices and entanglement things, usually at this time my heart is very tormented, I will first ask friends, parents' opinions, to see the opinions of others, after all, many times the authorities are obsessed with bystanders, and then combined with their own ideas to make a choice.

The lesser of two evils.

It's a bit of a serious statement, but that's what it means.

If you are faced with a difficult decision, it will be easy to accept the result of comparing which side to choose.

It's like going to work for two companies, one company has a higher salary, but it's inconvenient to go home, and the other company has a lower salary, but it's convenient to go home. If it were me, I would choose the latter. Because in my heart, it is very important to spend time with my family.

When we are faced with a dilemma, we will make ourselves anxious and at a loss, at this time, you need to face it calmly, calmly analyze the pros and cons of this matter, and discuss this matter with family and friends, how to solve it.

Life is so long, you may face a choice at any time, when I am facing a difficult choice, I will not make a decision quickly, I will first adjust my mentality, let my mood remain calm when making a decision, I think only when the mood is calm to make a decision is the most correct.

I've heard such a method before, when you can't make up your mind about a thing, whether to do it or not, and have been hesitating and wandering, then you might as well choose to toss a coin to decide, when you toss once, and want to toss again, in fact, you already have the answer in your heart.

Usually people think about many aspects and ask themselves if they can go down this path. What if you have difficulties in this area? Usually I think that at this time you should follow your heart, choose what you like the most, and then work hard.

I'll think about it carefully, and it's always a good idea to "think before you act". When faced with something difficult to choose, I usually get used to listing the pros and cons of two things first, and then analyzing them myself before asking for the opinions of others.

But the opinions of others are just opinions, and the final decision is still up to you. In the end, I will always choose the thing that will benefit me the most and help me the most, and respect my inner thoughts.

The most important thing in the face of a choice is to give yourself an explanation, as for right and wrong, it is not so important.

Don't be emotional, calm down if you don't calm down.

Seeking truth from facts, people are always willing to believe in what they believe in, but in fact it is not, reality and objectivity are the most important, excluding their expectations for choice!

For responsibility, if you choose well, you will take the consequences yourself, if you don't take responsibility, you will always linger in regret.

All roads lead to Rome, any road can go out of the future, there is right and wrong to choose, and there is no right or wrong in hard work!

When we are faced with a difficult choice, we should do the following:

1. Ask your friends for help, tell them what you are confused about, and let them give you advice and find a solution.

2. Communicate with your teacher, listen to his advice to you, and then make your own decision.

3. Discuss with your parents and tell them what you think, hoping to get their approval.

Life is always full of all kinds of choices, from trivial things to the decisive intersection of life, always hovering between constant choices and making decisions, what to do when you encounter difficult choices?

1. Be calm, you must control your emotions and let yourself be able to calm down, so that you can make better decisions;

2. Analysis, no matter from which aspect, should be comprehensively analyzed, and benefits, difficulty, process, results, etc. need to be considered;

3. If you really don't know, you can ask your friends or family for their opinions, and consider it comprehensively;

4. Don't regret when you make a decision, face it bravely!

There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not.

Love is a two-way emotional exchange, the admiration of two hearts, the joy of two feelings, and the spark of soul and soul collision. If two people love each other, they don't need to deliberately change themselves to please each other. If she (he) doesn't like you, it's useless to pursue it no matter how deliberately you try to pursue it.

If you really like each other, it's too late to like it, and you need to be desperate to please them? Even if you move her (him) with sincerity, the feelings you get are a little reluctant, she (he) did not accept you so much, it must be that some of your conditions are not so in line with the requirements in her (his) mind, and you are moved by your temporary actions, but after a long time, if she (he) meets the ideal person in his mind, it is difficult to guarantee that she (he) will not change his mind. But it is often said that:

Give up on her (him), I can't live, I love her (him) so much! In fact, this idea is ridiculous, in life, who can't live without it? Without whom, the earth cannot turn?

Unless you really don't want to live anymore, no one can stand in your way. Usually what we think is the "only" thing is not true, it's just that we don't bother looking for it. True love stems from the heartfelt admiration for each other and is built on the basis of mutual affection.

Anyone who only cares about loving others like crazy and doesn't care about whether he is loved or not, or who only cares about taking and not knowing how to give sincerely, will not end well. How many fateful people will be encountered in a person's life? Those who love you, those you love, all pass by.

But the only thing you remember the most here is your first love. Experience the sweetness of love for the first time, deeply imprinted in my heart.

Why do you want to treat me like this in love?? Some things are really hard to choose ...

I think it's medical. Medical ethics are very important! If it's all right, then go there, don't have to work the night shift, it's what you yearn for!

People go to high places, water flows to low places, I think we should develop ourselves better The leader says you can do it, then you can do it Work hard and earn money No matter which position, what kind of job, you will encounter trouble Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read You still have to live hard Then it will be more and more exciting.

Believe in yourself and choose what you want.

The choice is determined by the amount of information a person has and his understanding of society and human nature. The difficulty of choosing is actually quite high. A person who sees that others are "lucky" to choose a good major is smooth, but in fact, he does not see the efforts made behind the person for the choice.

People really have a lot of choices in life, and sometimes making a choice means giving up other options. The more you give up, the more you need to prove that you're making the right choice.

And as the options increase, this proof becomes more and more difficult until it becomes impossible to complete.

But why should we justify the choices we made that were so difficult to accomplish in the first place? Because, every time we make a choice, it is a costly grinding. More options mean more to give up. The time and effort we put in at the beginning was why we didn't want to give up.

From reading a book to having a career and family, it's all like this.

The more choices you have, the higher your expectations.

For example, when people buy clothes in the supermarket, the more products they have, the more miscellaneous the categories, and the higher their expectations, thinking that they will definitely buy more suitable goods than before. But this will only lead to a decrease in satisfaction. It will make people confused whether the original choice is correct and continue to persevere.

So, a lot of people miss out on some real opportunities in the constant choices. We often say that choice is greater than effort, but in fact, you have to have insight and growth mindset above others to be sure that this choice is the right one when you seize the opportunity.