The 3 year old boy is introverted and clings only to his mother and grandmother

Updated on parenting 2024-06-14
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It is still necessary to take him to the outside world to see, play with other children, and have more contact with people, after all, people are social animals, and being stuffy at home is not conducive to personality development. In addition, it is necessary to let the father get closer to the child so that he can experience what it is like to be a man. In daily life, tell him that he is a boy and that he should be bold, brave, and wear boy's clothes.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you can't rush such a thing, take him to more places slowly, not too lively places at once, you can be warmer, and let him get used to it slowly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's better to go out and meet people outside, and it's definitely not good to keep him at home because he's afraid of seeing strangers.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Now the child is small, but try to let him play games with other children of the same age, and play together, and after a long time, he will gradually become bolder.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you want to take your children out to play, children are the same, and the more people you come into contact with, you will naturally become lively.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That is to go out and meet men more, or let dad play more.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    That's not the way to go. Children are timid, and I think that if children are not allowed to contact with people from the outside world, their social skills will be affected. Therefore, it is better to take the children outside more often, you can go to a place a little farther away from home, parks, etc.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    **It's okay like this, if you don't come out to play with others at home, then what should you do when you study? Don't you have to meet people! That's not going to work.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can take him out to play more and let him play more with other boys! Or let Dad take him, and the boy should ask Dad to bring more!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It would be better to take him out for a walk, and it would be nice to let the father have more contact with the child.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Take the baby out more often, and have more contact with children of the same age, and it will be good for a long time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The method is very simple, that is, take the baby out to play. How can babies become bold if they are not in contact with society? It's impossible!

    I advise you to let him out to play as soon as possible, it is impossible to let him hide for the rest of his life, what is the meaning of that kind of life. Do you feel so happy? Isn't having an extra baby just because you love your child?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This situation is not good, he should be allowed to have more contact with men, so that when he grows up, it is easy to make people think that he is a mother, and it is good to correct it now, and it will be even more difficult to change it when he is older.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You must let the child have more contact with other children, otherwise it will be very troublesome in the future, for example, going to kindergarten will definitely be unsociable.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When the baby is so old, he likes to be clingy, and when he is older, he wants him to follow you, which is normal.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's okay, when he grows up, he won't worry, don't worry, relax.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The children are three years old, it is time to enter kindergarten, and the children will only grow up when they are with their peers, and you can't hide like this all your life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I feel that what the first two said makes sense, let him play more with his children of about the same age, take him to play more places with more people, and contact more people, it will be better.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In fact, it would be good to go to school and socialize with classmates in the future, and then the family would induce you again, and remember to socialize more with your peers.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hehe, the best way is to take it out more often to have more contact with children and greet people more.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Personality dictates that boys are too clingy to their mothers, and they will grow up to be unproductive.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you stick to other people, then it's your mother's ex-boyfriend, and there are too many genes to mess up.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Personality issues, very introverted that's it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Maybe you're not very nice to him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because it's expensive. Now the family is rich and basically send children to learn musical instruments very good and cautious and pure, children like it, no waste of time and money to learn, children have better talent, not in vain to learn, but if you play socks to tell, even if you play socks, it is not very interesting, and it is very common for people who can play the piano a little in the future. Of course, people who like piano will be more willing to let their children learn it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Children want to try to grind this, even if they don't learn well, they will be very happy, maybe everyone's thinking is a little backward, or they think that this is useless. If you don't agree to him at this time, it will cause some shadows on his growth, and he won't dare to try any career when he grows up.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If he gives up immediately, at least we can help Zi Tanmin now, let him work hard to correct, don't give up halfway, if the trail is in the future, I'm afraid there will be no such opportunity.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Come to Hangzhou Boiling City and definitely support friends who like **.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

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    Don't worry too much. Children have a journey from strange to familiar. You can give him access to the new zhi appropriately

    Friends, slowly discover the environment of the new DAO, strangers can also become friends, playmates. Naturally, he will also become cheerful over time. However, don't let it go, after all, children are still more dangerous in today's society.

    Learn to adapt to an unfamiliar environment, and learn to be a local bad guy.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The child is only three years old, so small, it's normal to be afraid of life, introverted, this is not necessarily, but the child is quieter

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Go outside, don't stay at home, and let your child have more contact with people, which can change your child's introversion.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Take him out to play, participate in games, activities, go to some lively places, and have more contact with children of the same age.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It should be afraid that children will have it, because it is normal to be unfamiliar with relatives. If he is not very fluent in speaking, first cultivate his spoken language and let him greet people more.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Take him out more often and play with the children.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    First of all, you need to tell your children to be polite to people and learn to greet people when they meet them. Parents should greet relatives and friends warmly, so that children know that this is a polite way to others. Under the influence of this environment, even if parents don't say it, children know what to do.

    Secondly, take your child out more, not only to play with other children, but also to encourage your child to communicate with him when you meet parents of strange children, and it is okay to introduce yourself simply. This kind of training can be carried out at home, for example, if there are guests at home, you can let the children entertain the guests instead of taking the children away, which is a good educational opportunity. And you can encourage children and guests to take the initiative to greet and communicate, etc.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Caused by too tight management at home. It is recommended that you don't care too much about your child's words and deeds, and let your child's actions go; After all, the child is still too young, so that the child matures by himself in the bumps, and only after experience can he understand the ups and downs of life. For the future of the child, you don't have to plan, no one can predict the changes of the world, let the child adapt to the surrounding environment at an early stage, so that he will slowly change his personality; In addition, take the child to walk outside, get in touch with the society, correctly guide the child to adapt to the outside world, and slowly become lively...

    Good luck to you!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's okay, the child's growth varies from person to person, some fast, some slow, your baby's psychology is a little slow, but it doesn't matter, the child is the same every day, maybe tomorrow you will find that he is different from before. Usually encourage more, don't force the baby to be the same as others, 3-year-old children are still in their own world, they are not so good at cooperating now, and children like to play with older children, you let him play with 2-year-olds, of course he doesn't like it. Don't worry, my girl used to be like this, after the age of 4, it will be much better, as long as the child is not found to be abnormal, adults should not be too anxious, let alone bring emotions to the child.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Introverted, very concerned about other people's opinions, and has strong self-esteem. In fact, he is very eager to play with his friends, take him outside to participate in some children's games, not only to participate, but also to his parents, so that he will slowly find his friends and integrate into them.

    Don't be so strict with him, relax some requirements appropriately, and this phenomenon should get better when you grow up.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    A little introverted, see more of the world.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The mind will be fine. The vision will be low, and it is easy to stay on the surface when seeing things. If you stay with the elderly for a long time, your consciousness will be negative and slacking, your personality will be dull or extreme, and you will be introverted and obedient.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Women will not be seen shy and tiptoeing. Personality depends on what the elders are like.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Not necessarily, look at self-cultivation.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    A child's timidity and introversion are not congenital, but acquired. It also has a lot to do with parents. Since my son was a child, I have trained him to try everything, whether he can or not, he will try it himself.

    Don't discipline your child, you're more afraid of him, and don't keep saying that your child is timid. Some children are actually not timid, parents say when they see people, "my child is timid and introverted" invisibly, you yourself position your child as "timid and introverted", and the child will also put himself on it. My mom said I was a timid and introverted kid.

    Then it will become more and more timid. Try to take him to participate in more parent-child interaction activities so that he can have more contact with children. Otherwise, when you go to kindergarten, you will have a headache.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Boys need their fathers to bring often, if the mother and female elders will be timid for a long time, it is recommended to let the baby be familiar with male relatives and friends. Let Dad accompany him to play games more, and Dad don't lose his temper easily, I believe he will gradually become optimistic and brave.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    My child is exactly the same as yours when he was a child, is your child getting better?

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Most of the time it's customary, just take a beating.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    You can't give him enough love! My child only wants me, and no one wants me.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Intergenerational upbringing tends to be more likely to be detrimental to the next generation.

    Generally speaking, a person's growth requires the mother's unconditional love and the father's conditional love to complement each other in order to grow healthier.

    The former (maternal love) makes the child feel safe, confident, and optimistic, while the latter (father's love) helps the child better integrate into the real life of society.

    Nowadays, the deficiency of many family education is the absence of conditional love from fathers in the family, which leads to excessive self-esteem and lack of restraint in children.

    Childhood happiness greatly affects a person's happiness in adulthood, and in general, it is healthier to grow up with parents.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It's very happy to have my mother by your side, how can you not be happy?

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It's not that there is anything unhappy about a single-parent family.

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