I ve been working for more than a year, and I m very confused about where the future is

I'm in a similar situation to you.

If you want to be competitive and irreplaceable, and feel secure, I think the most important thing is to reflect your differences.

In fact, it is normal to do very basic and unskilled things after graduation, but we must know in our hearts that this is just the beginning, we can't go on like this, we must have our own career plan, know what we want to do and what we like to do. And improve yourself consciously and purposefully in ordinary work. Take time each day to learn and improve.

It's not that hard, it's hard to persevere.

Also, I know a lot about architecture, construction sites, because my family is in this business, except for myself. I've experienced it too. When I talked to my dad about his work, he often emphasized the importance of on-site construction experience, and of course, a certain amount of theoretical skills.

From time to time, I complained that the college students who just came to the project department didn't understand anything. Therefore, practical experience in this industry is particularly important compared to other industries. It has to be accumulated.

As for the company's protection system, don't have a dependency mentality, don't expect something, there are 12 out of 10 things in the world that can do what you want, nothing can protect you, everything is up to you, you have to have a strong heart, keep independent thinking and clear mind. That's what I've been doing all along. I think that's important.

It's normal for you to be confused, but at this time, you should calm down and think about it, analyze the current situation well, and find some older and experienced people to ask for advice. Remember, take the initiative in everything, take the initiative and take the initiative again.

The above is all hands-on, heartfelt words, I hope it can help you.

Everyone's path is their own, as long as you want to believe that you can do it! Then it will work!

Give yourself a transition period first. If you don't have any skills, first find a position as a skilled worker, and then learn a skilled job.

You should study hard and calculate your own tastes, otherwise you won't be able to find a job when you enter the society

What is your major?

Don't be so anxious.

I also graduated for more than a year.

It's just a matter of course.

Think about whether you want to find a job or continue your studies.

As a career planner, your problems are a contradiction between the level of personal development and social pressures. According to you, your basic life needs can be met and your job is relatively stable. I felt like I had no development behind my back, a poor sense of belonging, and a stressful family life.

I don't know if it's appropriate to understand your state that way. To achieve happiness in life, we need to adjust our goals at different stages and you are hungry and you can't do anything for you at this time. The first thing to do at that time was to hurry up and eat.

Once you've eaten, you'll have to start doing something else. Stay there and keep eating, you won't feel any satisfaction, but you'll eat badly. After eating, the next thing you need is to find a safe place to live.

After staying, the next need should be to start a family. With a family, the next need is for the family to multiply and develop. It's the same with your job.

Although you haven't had a stable career in the past few years, you should have a circle of friends.

I really want to find a career with a rewarding development, and I want to rely on this circle. Don't feel that the people around you are incompetent. You can always find the person you want.

Family and children are also important. I have just had a child myself, so I understand how hard it is to take care of my child while working. So they take you to a higher level.

It takes time to master a skill or a profession. Since you can do it well, you can find a job that will provide you with enough ** and take care of your family.

At first, you must be bitter and mentally prepared. There must be no problem in doing this. Career planner Lao Bai.

I'd like to start by talking about the principle of meaning, that is, every moment of our lives should be as meaningful as possible. Meaning and purpose are inextricably linked. Your goal is to win the World Championship, so all your hard work is meaningful.

Your training methods are different from those of a professional athlete. The choice of meaning varies from person to person. The meaning of life is not absolutely singular.

You have to make a career plan for yourself, then analyze your strengths and weaknesses, think about what kind of life you want, and set a goal, and the goal must be more detailed.

1) Let's face it, as long as you can get food and clothing, and have a certain income, you can get material enjoyment from it2) Start from reality and do a job that you don't like the most. Do the work you don't like to do "good enough", and then talk about what ideals to chase.

3) Gradually realize your ideals, do the job you don't love the most, and work the job you don't love, earn enough money, solve the problem of eating, and then go to do the job you love the most.

Elevate yourself. Because only by improving one's own strength, one will not be confused, and one can enhance one's competitiveness, so you should learn more and improve yourself.

You should calm down and think about it, what do you need, you should think about your hobbies, what kind of person you want to become, and then work hard from these aspects, you should cut off some useless social and brushing, and let yourself move, so that you can slowly find direction and motivation.

If you encounter this situation, you should ask yourself what kind of life you want to live, what kind of lifestyle you want to adapt to, and what kind of job you want to do, so that you can have a clearer picture of your future.

Calm down, slowly ponder the knowledge in your field, and think about what you need. Make a plan for the next five years and tell yourself that you must accomplish your goals.

After so many years, the confusion in your work is certain. You may feel that your current job may not be able to arouse your passion for life. It's a good idea to engage in technology, just see if you have a foundation, whether you have this relationship, and whether you are sure to enter the field you want to enter and give full play to your talents.

If you can't do it for a while, you might as well start doing some technical odd jobs while you're familiar with them, even if it's just to help others. It may be time for you to leave your current job when you have the chance, but it is recommended that you consider the pros and cons and weigh them when you are ready to make a job change.

I used to be confused and didn't know what to do. I set my goal only after I started my business. Now the company is doing well.

Actually, there must be a way to get there. I still feel lost at work. I think it starts with a mindset.

It should have become a family, work and family should come first. Work is just a tool to make the family better. Don't let the family lose stability because of the chaos of work.

If you return home, you still have a pure heart, the drive and energy of a young person, and a well-off family.

Consider quitting your job and starting a business. Although entrepreneurship is the job of young people, it has also been proved that many middle-aged people will also succeed in starting their own businesses. Although they lack the vigor of a young man, they are experienced and have the stability that a mature man should have.

I'm still confused about my current life. I can try to start a business without affecting my family. However, if we can only support our family in our current job and do not have superior skills, then we must calm our mind, do not feel inferior, and do our current job with peace of mind.

I feel that I am currently confused about my work, which mainly reflects the confusion about life. I think the most important thing is how much my work can benefit my family. You have to be motivated.

You'll have to think about it. Today, you work hard and work actively. In the future, children can go to better schools and have a better quality of life.

In fact, at this age, don't think about unrealistic things.

You have to analyze your strengths and weaknesses, and you must think clearly about what kind of life you want to live, so that you can determine the future, make a career plan for yourself, think clearly about what you like to do, what kind of achievements you want to achieve, and then realize your future according to your goals, realize your own value, and stick to it no matter what you do.

At this time, you should make a strict career plan for yourself, and you should also follow your inner thoughts, determine a goal, and follow your own plan, strictly implement, find a job that suits you, and continue to work hard, so that you can determine your future.

Find your own interests and hobbies, and then learn some things you like to do, and then do these things you like to do the most exquisitely, so that you don't have to think about it, you can also go out to travel to see the outside world, to relieve your mood, and then find what you like to make it a career.

<> there are many times in life when we are confused, just like a person in a hurry to a crossroads, and it coincides with a foggy day, at such a moment, we will be particularly confused, not knowing which road to choose, and not knowing where the chosen road leads and what the prospect is. In my experience, if I encounter such a situation, the first thing I choose is to stop for a while, not rush, just rest in place, read a book, watch a movie, chat with my best friend, or simply find a beautiful place to have fun. When you have rested enough, you will find that the fog in your heart has long receded, although you are still standing in place, but where each road leads, and what kind of scenery there is in the distance of the road, you will see very clearly.

At this time, you can think about what kind of scenery you want, what kind of distance, and then take a solid step and start your life journey! To put it mildly, it is in a state of being high but not low. That is, your talents do not match your ambitions (or ideals).

Two ways to lower your requirements and improve your abilities.

Many people don't want to admit that their talents are not enough, and they prefer to believe that they are not talented. I can talk about leadership problems, interpersonal problems, etc., but being able to effectively communicate with leaders and colleagues is a kind of ability in itself. In fact, there is no shame in admitting that one's own abilities are insufficient, and there is no shame in lowering the requirements.

It is nothing more than seeking different solutions to their different problems. The scary thing is not to evaluate yourself correctly, and you will end up ruining yourself. Life is never smooth sailing, if the real challenge comes, first of all, the mentality is adjusted to face the face, more than the upper than the bottom, you feel that your life is not easy, in fact, there are more difficult than you in this world, a road is not passable, we don't need to force, change an attitude and change a direction, maybe it will suddenly open up, no matter how difficult it is to live, we still have a day of counterattack fate!

So be yourself, work hard for your own life, and don't be affected by the life around you.

Perseverance is very important, it is best to do a line of work and see a line, even if you don't love it, don't change it casually, it's not nonsense to change careers for three years, private and public have their own problems. As for how you plan your life, first of all, you have to ask yourself what outcome you want. What qualifications do you have?

What's missing? How can the bad part be realized? Get these questions out of the way and you'll know how you should go.

This requires understanding your inner thoughts, so that you can better determine your future, you need to understand your own advantages, understand your own desires, and you can try, so that you can better determine the future.

I think you should calm down, but also understand your own interests and hobbies, and also understand your strengths and weaknesses, and then calmly analyze some problems in the current workplace, and then make your own future plans.

You can learn about career planning, and you can also think about what you want to do in the future, what you want to do in the future, and what kind of achievements you want to achieve, and then work hard.