The man s parents don t agree with us being together, do I still have to insist on it, should I let

If you continue to insist, it will involve marriage in the future, and if you get married, you will marry in the past, then, please consider a few questions first.

1. If you go over, will you be able to find a job with your ability? It doesn't have to be a good job, but a job that can support you.

2. If you go there, where will you live? Rent or live in his house?

3. Your boyfriend is from another place, so there must be a big difference in living habits with you, have you noticed this difference, and can you accept this difference? You must know that there are many couples who are originally very affectionate, but they break up because of great differences in living habits.

4. You are an only child, that is to say, your parents are only one child of you, if you pass, how will your parents arrange it? Or let them go??

5. The most important question, your parents are also old, it is normal for the elderly to have a headache and brain fever, in case you need to rush to your side as soon as possible, can you go back? How soon will it take to get back to them?

6. If you go over and he treats you well, of course it's best, but if he treats you badly one day, do you come back? If you come back, will you have no face to see your parents?

7. If you go over, get married, and have children in the future, are your parents willing to come to your side? Judging from the situation that they are not willing to live there now, it means that if you have a child in the future, from pregnancy, to childbirth, to confinement, to taking care of the child, you have to rely on yourself and your husband and his family, are you sure they are really willing?

Think about the above questions before deciding what to do.

How much financial conditions do you have, and how old you are, you come to ask questions to get answers, so I have to come to you from a realistic point of view. Is it possible for the relationship between the two parties, find Jiale to throw a gown, his picking, and his wife scattering for a long time. If the boy is more capable, and you can grasp it, you can gamble.

First, if the man's parents disagree, it means that they don't fancy you, and if you want to enter into marriage, you will inevitably be very tired and have to bear a lot of grievances.

First of all, if the man's parents don't take a fancy to you, the road you want to get their approval in the early stage will be quite difficult, not to mention that you need to try your best to please, but you have to be careful to behave.

In addition, you will always worry about whether your boyfriend will turn against him, whether he will not persevere and choose to give up, this kind of psychological process is also quite tiring.

Then, even if you get a good result, the two families start to sit down and talk about marriage. Those who have been married know the way of the empty clan, and getting married is a very cumbersome thing.

Because the man's parents didn't fancy you in the first place, this process will be somewhat reluctant, and they will inevitably behave very arbitrarily in the bride price and some marriage customs.

And at this time, you can only choose to swallow the grievances in your stomach, because you know in your heart that it is not easy to get this step, and instinct will make you compromise again and again, and even let your parents be wronged because of this.

Second, your future in-laws will not treat you as a family just because you are already married.

You have to understand that the person who didn't want to see you at the beginning will always be unwelcome, unless she suddenly changes sex or you have a fundamental change, so that he has to change his opinion of you.

Even if the parents-in-law don't want to see their son-in-law again, once their daughter gets married, they will make a 180-degree turn to treat this son-in-law, just to make him treat his daughter better.

But the in-laws are different, the daughter-in-law they don't want to see is married, even if they have children for their family, it will not make them change their outlook, and they will even be even more unwelcome, thinking that they are the daughter-in-law who came from Qinyuan.

Third, the long-term absence of the in-laws will affect the relationship between the couple.

At the beginning, the husband will be more or less partial to his daughter-in-law, after all, the newlywed Yan'er still has freshness and feelings, and they will feel distressed when they see their daughter-in-law wronged, and they will help their daughter-in-law say a few fair words.

But as time grows, they will get used to this way of getting along, and even feel that it is nothing, and the daughter-in-law will be somewhat aggrieved by her mother-in-law's cold words for a long time, and the husband is becoming more and more indifferent, the couple is easy to complain and quarrel often because of this, and after a long time, they will have a dislike for each other.

The husband feels that the daughter-in-law is ignorant, hypocritical, and more and more noisy, and the daughter-in-law feels that her husband no longer protects her and no longer loves her, and it is likely that the two will go further and further.

If you are unfortunate and you meet an in-law who does not want to see you, don't be afraid, don't be in a hurry to show goodwill, and don't be in a hurry to escape.

Let's take a look at your future husband's attitude, see if he loves you enough, see if he has enough ability and emotional intelligence to mediate the conflict between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and see if he is unswervingly determined to marry you.

First of all, if a man really wants to marry you, I believe that he will have a way to convince his parents, and he will definitely be with you against all odds. Convincing his parents is his subject, not yours, your subject is convincing your parents.

Secondly, he can't even handle his own parents, how can you do it as a person who is not related by blood? Originally, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been an intractable problem since ancient times, and your intervention will not only not solve the problem, but will easily intensify the conflict, and cause cracks in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law before marriage.

Behind the scenes, if he can't make the decision in his own marriage, whether it is true or not, it can reflect that either he is a person who is incapable of dealing with problems and conflicts before suing Tangerine, or even Ma Bao; Either he just used his parents as an excuse, and he didn't want to marry you or be a sinner in his heart, so he had to use his parents to clear the gun. No matter which of the above reasons, marrying such a person, you will not have a good time in the future.

It's right to live together normally, two generations have different thoughts and behaviors, and they will be happier if they don't live together.

Nowadays, there are many parents who are not very optimistic about their children's marriage, if you really want to be together, talk to your parents and get your parents' blessings.

1. Ask the reason.

If your boyfriend's parents don't approve of you being together, you don't have to worry, you first have to figure out why your boyfriend's parents don't approve of you being together. If it's because of your family situation, don't worry, you can try to make yourself show yourself in your work so that his parents will look up to you. If it's because you have been in a relationship before, you can assure his parents that they will be good to him in the future and will be filial to their in-laws.

2. Strive to change yourself.

If you have shortcomings, you must work hard to change yourself and turn your shortcomings into strengths, although the process is painful, but it is worth it for your future happiness.

3. Discuss with your boyfriend.

If your boyfriend's parents don't agree with you being together, you have to discuss with your boyfriend what to do, don't do stupid things yourself, don't give up easily, let your boyfriend help you come up with ideas, Bi Qi's boyfriend still understands his parents.

It is inevitable that two people fall in love, and sometimes they are blind and their parents don't look down on me, I think the first thing is skin, you have to see how the man treats you? If you like you very much, this doesn't matter, if he can't say 123 is very likely, it is likely to leave you, mainly depends on the man and his parents, in fact, it is just a parent, it is impossible to live with you forever.

What reason not to agree together.