I fell in love with a guy who had been hurt by love

Listen to what you say, you and the person you like seem to be students, whether it's college, high school, junior high school, that's all playing, there are few who come together in the future, and there is no real love at all, you feel that he still likes that girl, maybe he has already forgotten about it, if you want him to accept you, you don't have to use the most direct method, you have to use your method to contact him, you don't have to talk to him every day, otherwise he will be disgusted with you, and after a certain period of time, he will treat you as if you are a friend, and the number of times he talks will gradually increase When the time comes, you have to melt him little by little and slowly like you, basically a lot of them are from friends to boyfriend and girlfriend relationships, and I hope you will work hard.

My thoughts, you listened to his friend: he was hurt.

Before he fell in love with other women, he might have been a little decadent.

For men, what is terrible is not the loss of love but loneliness.

If you like it, go brave and be with him.,I'm very similar to the boy's situation you said in the article.,I also broke up with my beloved girlfriend half a year ago.,I've never been in the mood to communicate with other girls.,Just like you said.,I don't want to talk to girls.。 Actually, I just don't want to take the initiative to talk to girls, but seriously, now is your chance, people always need someone to stand up and change everything when they are lost If you don't want to talk, just chat with him when you go online, or text him! Slowly cultivate feelings, he is not a stone, it is impossible not to want to talk to girls all the time.

In my most difficult time, there was such a girl, although we were not together, but I must admit that I am very grateful to her, and I like her very much. Hehe, come on, I hope you can harvest love as soon as possible.

Not to hit you.

It's hard to see the man's relationship with you.

And then there's a nasty thing to say, if you can attract her, not just her looks.

He's infatuated, it's hard to get into his heart and you're tired of loving.

Hehe. If I were you.

Will rush to him and say to him.

I will protect you in the future Grace. Ha ha.

Take good care of him.

Use your love to touch his pain, make him slowly forget his former girlfriend, and then be able to accept you.

It's a bit hard, but if you really put your heart into it, I think he will feel your love and fall in love with you. You can first ask his mobile phone number from his friends, and start contacting him by text message, on the surface he doesn't talk to girls, in fact, he just hides his vulnerable side, he doesn't want others to see his wounds, and he doesn't want to be hurt like this again, it's just a way for him to disguise his wounds. Everyone has to have their own friends, especially someone like him who has been emotionally hurt, and needs a close friend.

You can slowly walk into his life in the name of a friend, and slowly become his bosom friend, of course, you may have to take the initiative to send him more messages and talk more about topics with a common language. I think slowly, he will accept you, these things do not succeed overnight, it depends on long-term communication. I hope my advice will help you a little, make him happy, and make you happy, bless you, sister!

I'm a girl, and I want to help you after reading what you said.

He doesn't want to talk to girls now, it doesn't mean that he never wants to, he can always find a breakthrough, don't be discouraged because he is indifferent to you, the colder he is, the hotter you will be, warm him with enthusiasm, even if there is only one point, there will be a possibility of success, at this time he is using indifference to disguise his wounds, what he needs most is considerate warmth and comfort, to make him feel that the world is colorful, this world still has love, and you.

I hope you can be brave and I hope you can be happy.

You can learn about him from his friends, and you can also use his friends to slowly approach him, try to be friends with him first, and then slowly open his heart! It's just that he can't help the wounds brought to him by the past love for the time being, you should use your actions to prove how much you love him, you won't hurt him like the villain who hurt him, you can give him happiness! If you love him, you shouldn't let him live in the pain of the past, you should save him from the sea of misery and make him happy!

Ignore him, let him wake up by himself, if you force it, he is still like a resentful woman, infatuated is not good, just let him stay by himself, okay, you go to him again, otherwise he will not accept you now.

Try to get closer to him slowly.

Let him understand you from his own thoughts.

In fact, liking is just a feeling.

So he likes you because he has this feeling for you, out of instinct to be good to you and make you happy, on the contrary, he doesn't like you because he no longer has this feeling for you, so he no longer has the heart to be good to you and make you happy.

Everyone has a secret in their heart! You and I too! You can say to him: If you keep the unhappiness of the past in your heart all the time in life, you will not be able to let go! It's like a person carrying a whole lot of garbage all day long! Is there any meaning in that life!?

..Be thick-skinned and ..I'm sure I'll be touched by you!I am a boy

Come quietly! Quietly floating! Flash people first.

Don't touch on his past, as long as he doesn't bring it up.

Then care more about him from all aspects of life, take care of him, and let him feel that you love him.

Emotional injuries can only be recovered by oneself or starting another relationship, if you really like it, try to get close to him, understand him, slowly start with friends, let him change his opinion of girls, don't let him think that all women will only hurt men, let him feel the existence of love.

I often look for him when I'm fine, if I really talk to you! It proves that you have succeeded, and if you catch him, he will love you for the rest of your life.

Love is a mysterious thing. It's not just the attraction of appearance, but also the subconscious behavior of hormone production. It is the communication between souls and souls, and the process of exchanging souls between two parties. If you let yourself fall in love with someone who has hurt you, it's hard for anyone to do it again.

I once talked to a friend about this topic, and she said: It's really hard to say that you love this thing, but you will never fall in love with someone who hurts again, because the harm caused by the same person is really difficult to love someone else.

Even if you've been hurt, you'll still love him because you really can't let go. If I could put it down, I would have put it down a long time ago. Because you're in love with someone with all your heart. But there are people who give your heart to you, and you don't want it because you don't love.

If that person has nothing to do with you and is the one you love the most, it hurts the most. When you try your best to maintain your relationship with the other person, you are hurt mercilessly again and again. Because I can't let go, I will continue to love even if I am hurt.

This is the most painful thing in love. After being hurt by someone you like, it is difficult to love a broken heart again. It's just that I'm reluctant, so I forget the pain in my heart again and again. Someday, the pain will pile up, and then you will know that letting go is only a moment for you.

If you let go, you will be relieved, you will no longer be hurt, and you will not be heartbroken; If you don't let go, you'll be sad. You've been reluctant to go, just because you want to cherish it, but you don't want to cherish it. We talked about this topic during the chat.

At first, it was neutral, because in the heart, the girl was soft-hearted and coaxed. Maybe it's because I can't let go of love, so there's a lot of complicated love.

No matter how much a man hurts you, if he hurts you the first time, there will be a second time. for it was caused by his character and thoughts; Some people's personalities and thoughts cannot be changed; If it can be corrected, it will not be separated, and it will not bring so much pain to your heart; It is precisely because he can't change that he will do things that hurt you; After the same thing, he will still use the same method; Although love again; Don't allow one person to hurt you twice.

No, because I was already far away from him when he hurt me, and I wouldn't have tried to reach such a person at all.

I might fall in love with him because he used to hurt me in a way that wasn't intentional, and he might like me too, so I might fall in love with such a person.

No, because I don't like someone who hurts me, and it's very likely that I will still hold a grudge against the other person, and I won't like it.

Love still needs to be believed, if you don't believe in love at this time, then this kind of happy life may not be found in the future, so no matter how much we are hurt, we can calm down for a while, or say a different environment to live, and then mainly when you feel okay, then come back and continue to look for the person you love.

I also hope that you can find a true love of your own in the end, because at this time you can't be hurt anymore.

The best way to forget a relationship is to commit to a new one. Don't be afraid of being hurt, if you love, love with all your might, these are precious experiences on the road of life.

To put it simply, who hasn't met a few scumbags in their lives. Exercise your keen eyes in case you meet such a person again, and believe that there will be someone who will make you believe in love again.

You have to believe in love, don't stop believing in love because you are hurt by a scumbag, and believe that you are also worthy of love.

Then let the time slowly ** yourself, live with your heart, until you meet the boy you like, and then start a new relationship.

Then go with the flow, and when the real fate comes, and when the love that is really suitable for you arrives, you will open your heart.

Even if you don't believe in love anymore after being hurt, there are many good men in the world, so you must give yourself a chance.

If you know you're in pain, why continue?

Learn to give up ...... slowly

True love is acceptance, not endurance; It is support, not domination; It's a condolence, not a question.

True love, to thank but also apologize; Be considerate and considerate; We must admit our mistakes and correct them.

True love is not to stare at each other, but to look in the same direction together.

Perhaps, love, is not the search for a perfect person; Rather, learn to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect eye.

If you hold hands, don't do it, just say break up.

Perhaps, love is to give willingly and share joys and sorrows.

Don't wait until you lose it to know how valuable it is; Don't wait until you're hurt to beg for forgiveness; Something is lost and will never come back.

If a person confesses to you, please cherish his love for you no matter what, even if it can only be an ordinary friend; Perhaps there will not be a second time for a person's innocent confession.

Because of kindness, so cute; Because it's cute, it's beautiful; Because of beauty, so yearning; Because of yearning, so in love.

It's not because you're lonely that you love each other, it's about making those who love each other not feel lonely.

It's love, not time, that is able to ** all the trauma.

In a person's life, there will always be a large period of blandness, interrupting unsatisfactory encounters, it is love that makes us think of beauty, and there is still hope.

With love, you don't feel that hardship is a burden.

It is far more important to cherish what you have now than to pursue what you don't have.

How to say it, it's like a person has a good temper, but there is a limit to people's patience and temper, if you usually violate or break this bottom line, it may lead to this person to do some extreme things.

To be honest, when a person's heart is full of resentment, he must find a reasonable way to vent, including preventing the sequelae after venting!

So from your above situation, this guy is in a state of venting, but he is looking for the wrong way to vent! And you can't stop him by using a "reward" method, because it doesn't really remove his anger!

At this time, you should shut up, don't say a word, and stay by his side every day to take care of him.

He goes out to drink, you can, you pour it for him; He is drunk, and you sleep for him in loose clothes; He is suing on his mind, you should listen quietly to the side without interjecting!

Although this method may not be 100% feasible, as a woman, it is difficult for a boy to resist taking advantage of a woman's tenderness!

I can only say that two people are together, if there is a quarrel, only if the other party is calm, both parties will have leeway!

The premise of saying so much above is that the two have a good relationship; If the relationship between the two is only shallow, then there is no need to hurt each other like this, and break up as soon as possible!

If you get bad, you may be injured, you have hurt others many times, maybe he doesn't believe you very much, he thinks he will still get hurt, and he doesn't do anything Maybe it's just natural.