Let s talk about how to deal with the relationship between university dormitories.

I haven't lived on campus before in college, but now in the second semester of college, my lifestyle and way of doing things are different from my roommates, so I don't need to be too close, I can just chat or help each other out, and respect my personal lifestyle. I heard from a friend that their dormitory is calm on the surface, but it is turbulent in secret, and I still think our dormitory is quite good. The circle is different, don't be hard, be an ordinary friend.

College life is diverse. You don't have to focus your social energy on the dorm. As far as my current self is concerned, communication in college is multi-directional and free.

It's normal to be intimate with someone for one time and be closer to another person for the next time. You don't need to think of your roommates as too important, there are no conflicts, and you can help each other, which is an ideal dorm relationship.

It is important to get to know our roommates well. Knowing their personality traits and living habits can help us choose a better way to get along with them in the future, and it will also be convenient for them to better understand them and reduce conflicts when they do anything in the future. For example, some people are anxious, some people just have a good heart, and some people just love to joke.

There are many people who say that the dormitory is just a place to sleep, and if they don't like it, they go out more. But in the dead of night you still have to go back to that place, no matter how happy you are crazy outside, the thought of going back to that place in the end is cold. Think of it just as a place to sleep?!

But it's a place where you can't even sleep. If you feel that that place is really not suitable for you, only full of negative energy, it is better to change the environment as soon as possible. Go out to live or change dorms.

Don't delay, don't say that the gang will break up in a few years anyway, in fact, those years or two are much more difficult than imagined.

I think it is necessary to have a tolerant heart, because everyone's personality is different, and it is normal to have friction in the process of running-in, and it must be handled rationally.

I'm a freshman.,The relationship with my roommate is the same as you know me.,I know you the same.,Roommates are how bullish x they are all day long.,How expensive clothes and shoes are.,A few days ago, a roommate told me that I just bought a pair of gxg shoes 1700.,I'm just hehe.,I checked the shoes are more than 400,There are a total of 6 roommates.,Only I don't seem to fit in.,That's it.,Everyone has their own circle.,Since you can't fit into this environment,,Then try to escape from this environment,

I spend less time in the dormitory, and if I can talk to my roommates, I will talk for a while, and if I can't talk, I will go to bed early, and if they have any difficulties, I will help them more, and get along with my roommates, mainly in harmony.

Calmly talk to the other person again, put forward your own ideas and requirements, and try to maintain a good attitude. If the other party's attitude is still not good, then stop theorizing.

Don't be limited to the small space of the dormitory I squatted the most in my freshman and sophomore years, except for the library classroom, which is someone else's dormitory My own dormitory only goes back when I sleep Go out more to contact others and pay less attention to the dormitory These There are always people in the world who like to pick thorns Then you also have to worry about these strange things that have nothing to do?

In college, you have to learn to deal with all kinds of random people to deal with, which will greatly expand your mind, the random arrangement of the dormitory is also prepared for you to go out of the society, how to meet the people you want to meet when you go out of the society? College is all about grinding away your edges and corners and living better in society.

Living in the same dormitory, you must manage this unforgettable friendship well, you can have the same hobbies, and if you don't have it, you must respect and understand each other and help each other!

It's good that everyone is equal and helps each other, and there is no need to make it too complicated.

When I used to watch the news, I would always be surprised why there was a murder in the university dormitory. If you live for four years, you will be surprised, why there is only so little news of killing roommates!

After entering college, for various reasons, your roommate is usually the one who gets along with you the most, so how should we get along with your roommate? How to have a comfortable relationship with your roommate, let me tell you about it.

1. Help and care for each other

Reach out to your roommate when they are in trouble, so that the relationship will be stronger, and you should be sincere and not deceive others. When your roommate is upset or in a bad mood, don't make drastic jokes. When conflicts begin to arise, learn to seek common ground while reserving differences with your roommates, resolve conflicts, and don't make radical jokes when your roommates are unhappy or in a bad mood.

2. Take care of personal hygiene

There are many examples where the smell of shoes or not taking a shower or washing clothes for too long can be the trigger for quarrels with roommates, so taking care of personal hygiene is an important condition for maintaining a good relationship with roommates. It can be really offensive for some people not to pay attention to their personal hygiene.

Especially for some people who have high hygiene requirements, they may have conflicts with you, at least you can't influence others. Cultivate good behavior habits, respect other people's living habits, do not try to change others, instead of changing others, it is better to try to change your own behavior, form good behavior habits, take care of the public facilities in the dormitory, and do a good job of cleaning the dormitory.

3.The art and skill of interpersonal communication

Interpersonal communication is a science with a certain art and skill. As long as they read, think, and communicate more, they will learn and comprehend many noble ideas from them, and if they know more about how to deal with things, they will be able to "be like a fish in water" and "be able to swim with ease" in interpersonal interactions.

Try not to do things that your roommates can't stand to do, such as reading with the lights in the middle of the night, eating something with a strong taste in the dormitory, talking loudly when playing **, etc., for those students who engage in involution in the dormitory, it is really disgusting, if you want to study, go to the library or study room, the environment there will be better.

4. Go out with your roommates to watch movies, dinners, and travel

Don't be alone, more we can participate in some dormitory activities with our roommates, people are social animals, we also pay attention to maintaining communication with roommates. You can share small snacks together, and occasionally play games together to relax.

Roommates are the objects we get along with, so we have to spend more time cultivating relationships, hoping that we can get more principles of dealing with people in the small society of the university, and we can live a good life like a fish in water when we go out of school in the future.

The dormitory relationship is the most basic interpersonal relationship at the university level, and it is also the most basic unit of daily activities. It is very important to live in a dormitory and have a good relationship with the dormitory members. A good relationship and a good mood are not only good for learning, but also good for physical and mental health.

Clause. 1. Choose to actively communicate, people from all over the world get together, and it is normal for personality differences to be different. Choose active communication to better solve the problem, many times because of a little thing that is not communicated and solved in time, it will accumulate into a big thing. Moreover, the dormitory space is so large, and it will be embarrassing if you don't look up and look down all day long.

Clause. 2. Respect living habits, everyone's living habits will definitely be more or less different, and your lifestyle and concept are different from others'. You can't expect others to be like you. Think about it for a moment, would you be willing to accept someone asking you to change your habits?

Therefore, mutual respect and understanding become the first choice.

Clause. 3. Dormitory culture construction, a good dormitory culture can also better coordinate the relationship between the dormitory, which is also a good way for dormitory members to get along harmoniously. After all, it's right to be close to Zhu Zhechi.

Fourth, change the dormitory, but this is also a choice made only as a last resort, and it is the next policy. If you really can't stand the living habits of the dormitory members, changing the dormitory is also a solution. But what you need to know is that if you change dormitories, you will still have to deal with dorm relations.

Clause. 5. Concentrate on reading only the books of the sages. For different living habits, if you don't want to communicate, then bury your head in learning, don't care about other people's affairs, this is also a way to deal with it. But it's best to help each other out with your roommates, that's the best.

Finally, I hope these suggestions are useful. But don't put up with it in order to maintain a good dormitory relationship, and sometimes you don't need to cater to it, just be yourself. If it is too tiring to maintain a dormitory relationship, you can think that something is wrong, and a good relationship should be very comfortable.

Getting along is a science, and the university is like a small society, and when we enter the university, we come to a new place of life: the dormitory, which becomes the first place to contact new people, roommates, and the first strangers we come into contact with. Roommates must pay attention to details when getting along.

Details are very important, and the following details are quite useful to share with you:

1) If there are other people studying in the dormitory, try not to read or read, or memorize words out loud.

2) When entering the dormitory, try to knock softly and push the door, even if you don't mean to knock loudly, the people in the room will feel uncomfortable.

3) When you enter someone's dormitory at noon, you can send a message in advance.

4) If you think that you might go to bed late, do your washing well in advance so that you don't bother others very much. Also, remember to negotiate a schedule with your roommates!

6) Use the computer when others are resting, and if you can, try to tap the keyboard softly, and don't use the mouse if you can.

9) If you can gently flip through a book without making a sound when others are resting, it means that you are a very considerate person.

1.Think more about others and less about yourself. It means that you must know how to empathize.

There are as few as 2 people in a dormitory and as many as 8-10 people, and if you want to manage the relationship with your roommates, you need to be tolerant. This is not for you to be selfless and dedicated, but to take into account the feelings of others in the dormitory, for example, if your roommate wants to sleep when the lights are out, and you are still studying, at this time, turn down the brightness of the desk lamp, you can study with peace of mind, and your roommate can also sleep with peace of mind;

2.Know how to share. There is a saying that gives roses to people, and leaves a lingering fragrance in your hands. It can be a snack sent by your mother, or a good thing you bought, and you can share it with your roommates. After a long time, your roommates will remember your goodness, and your popularity will become better and better;

3.Take care to protect your privacy. Because no matter who you get along with, you need to leave some "mystery", and you don't know what happened to your roommate more than ten years ago, so you still have to protect yourself when you are studying alone.

Not all roommates become good friends for life.

The dormitory is a place where every college student must live, and it is very important to manage the relationship between the university dormitory and the university experience for the next four years. First of all, suddenly 5-8 people from different places and different families live together, it is inevitable that there will be many different places, for example, different work and rest times, only if everyone works together and abides by each other, can we reduce conflicts and eliminate friction, if everyone sleeps, and you start to wash, it will make noise to roommates, which will inevitably cause conflicts. Do not engage in small groups, a dormitory of 6 people and 5 groups, this is a common phenomenon in the university, this is not right, should be treated with an equal attitude to everyone, do not favor one over the other, and some people are hot, and the other part of the alienation ignores, some people always like to whisper behind the back of some other people, which can easily cause dormitory conflicts, is not conducive to the establishment of a good dormitory relationship.

Don't violate the privacy of your roommates, everyone has their own little secrets, and when a person has a barrier to themselves, when you insist on breaking in, it is unwelcome.

The dormitory relationship is very important, and if it is not handled well, it is a small Zhen Huan biography.

1.Distance.

You can't go far without a sense of distance. For economic issues, the AA system is necessary, the food money is not in arrears, and the common property is divided equally. Don't inquire about other people's privacy, just remind it as a friend.

2.Friendly. Be kind to friends, but don't be a good person, refuse appropriately, learn to refuse, treat people sincerely, be kind to others, and friends will do the same.

3.Learn to understand.

Everyone is different, it is normal to have different ideas, it is normal to have contradictions, at this time we must learn to be tolerant and understanding, do not die on the tip of the horns, be generous, and then ask questions at the right time, communicate calmly, and solve problems.

4.Learn to be self-conscious.

Do things more considerate of other people's feelings, do not be self-centered, when others sleep, consciously turn off the sound or put on headphones, do not talk and play unscrupulously underneath. Tell someone before using someone else's things, and don't take it without permission.

It is normal for students from different regions and different nationalities to be present in university dormitories, with differences between the north and the south, and local customs. These are inevitable, you can follow your usual habits, we may not understand some of the habits of roommates, but we must not despise or look down on such behavior, there are roommates who have bad living habits, you can communicate slowly, communication is the best medicine to resolve conflicts.

Don't let your roommate do what you don't like to do, for example, if you drink milk tea by yourself, your roommate wants you to bring one for him, but you don't want to, then we shouldn't force others to bring something for you.

Don't snoop on other people's things and invade other people's privacy. Everyone has secrets that they don't want others to know, and maybe some people don't think these secrets are nothing at all, but since people don't want people to know, they must have their own reasons, don't keep asking.