What are some of the things you can t do?

There are many, many things I can't do, such as not being able to control the birth, aging, sickness and death of human beings, and I can't let the people around me spend a little more time with me, I always feel that these are things that I can't do.

There are many things that we can't do, for example, the things we can't do are that we can't decide our own birth and death, and there are some things that we can't do in this life, as people often say, I can't decide where I came from.

The thing I can't do is that I can't choose my ideal university after learning the results of the college entrance examination, but recently I regret it very much, because the grades have come down, and the grades can no longer be changed, and I can't do anything about it.

The past that cannot be changed, and since time has passed, it certainly does not turn back counterclockwise. Therefore, it is destined to become the past, there is no need to be sad about the last second, and we must work harder for the next second of life, so the good past can only be recalled, and it must not be stagnant.

There are many such things, for example, when I was in college, my living expenses were very limited, and at that time, it happened that my friend had a little financial crisis, although I wanted to help him, but I didn't have that condition.

I really can't do anything, I make up my mind every time, but as soon as I see something to eat, I am wasted, I just can't control my desire to eat, and I can't stop eating after eating.

For example, in your future life, you may not be able to control it, you can only accept it silently, and your own family is not a choice, these are all arranged by God.

Seeing so many disabled people begging for food on the street, I felt very powerless, although I really wanted to help them, but my own financial level was limited, and it was difficult to give them enough care and help.

When I was in high school, my math scores just couldn't improve no matter what, I tried a lot of hard work, and my math grades were still not good, which made me feel powerless.

I wanted to go to a better university, but because my grades were not very good at that time, I didn't get into my ideal university, and although I studied hard, I still couldn't study physics.

I think I've been immature at work, impulsive, improper, and have given a lot, and I think objectively speaking, my attitude to this day accounts for four parts, and the remaining six parts are indeed dark and unjust.

It's normal and normal to feel powerless about some things in life, no matter what your identity is? Any resource will encounter something that makes it impossible for you to do anything.

First of all, let's look at those things, the things that can't be decided, the things that can't be decided by oneself are that I don't have the right to make the final decision, and there are roughly two types of things that I can think of.

It turned out to be his own business, but it has nothing to do with himself, just like the demand for buying a car with a Beijing bullet train license plate is his own, but to meet this demand, he doesn't know when he has to queue up, and he can't decide at all, which also responds to the saying that people can't help themselves in the rivers and lakes.

The other type is other people's business, do not let yourself help, this kind of thing is also a lot in life, even if many parents worry about the future of their children, but children have their own ideas and choices, just like you are bitter in some things to dissuade friends and friends still insist on their own opinions, you have a strong heart, but you can't make the final decision.

For the first type of things, personal advice is to relax your mind, go with the flow, do what you can do first, and then wait for the opportunity to come, and then train to do it well.

And for the second type of things, I think it's not necessary to worry about it, respect is always the first, we can't force others, there is no need to intimidate and threaten them, the consequences of disobedience, after all, if he is not an important person to you, how they live, it has nothing to do with you, and if it is relatives and friends, no matter what the result is, you don't, you have to help, this is your better in advance, for some bad results, ready, to help, it is recommended to mention, But if something happens, you can only help.

Therefore, when we feel powerless in life, we must see the reasons behind the things themselves and then take appropriate actions, knowing that going with the flow is not the best choice, the best choice may be just in their own affairs, in the case, it is more positive, in other cases, it will make themselves lose the opportunity to grow.

We must learn to accept the fact that we cannot change, and not to get into the horns, after all, we are not omnipotent.

Admitting that one's own ability is also a sign of maturity, there are too many things in life that we can't do anything about, and only by learning to accept the facts can we live a happier and happier life. I used to be a rather impatient person, and I couldn't let go of some frustrations. Later, after gradually maturing, I realized that some things were beyond my ability, and I could only choose to let go.

First, learn to reverse the mentality and face the gains and losses in life with a calm attitude.

Our eyes must not only focus on failure, but also learn to be like sunflowers, even if the wind and rain blow, we must also be born to the sun. We are not saints, we can't change all the endings, but we can go against our own mentality.

When I encounter frustrations in my life, I turn my grief into motivation instead of dwelling on the grief of the past. We should look forward, don't stare at the broken things, and only by being calm and relieved can we have a better future.

Second, it is good to have a clear conscience, there is no need to strive for perfection in everything.

As long as you do your best, you will not have regrets in your life, whether you succeed or fail, you must learn to accept and let go. Mutilation is also a kind of beauty, and in the face of unchangeable facts, we must learn to treat it with an inclusive attitude. Setbacks are the norm in life, and only by honing our mentality can we have the courage to face life with perseverance.

Third, learn to be content, don't always care about what you lose, and cherish what is in front of you.

There are gains and losses in life, we should not be limited by the things that fail, we must learn to open our hearts to accept beautiful things, there are many things in this world that are free, such as innate family affection is worth cherishing, and heart-pounding love, these beautiful things make life more meaningful.

Therefore, admit your own shortcomings, accept the facts that cannot be changed, and then work harder and confidently to face life, in order to have a more beautiful life.

Recognize the facts and take the initiative to admit your own shortcomings. Leave this opportunity to solve the problem to someone else who is capable.

Even if you have realized that there is nothing you can do, it is better to give up as soon as possible. Don't put any more psychological burden on yourself. You have to guide yourself as much as possible, if you want to open a little, just go with the flow.

When we are faced with something we can't do about it, the only thing we can do is to calm down, change our mindset, and then face it positively and see what else can be remedied.

Clear your mind and confirm if there is really nothing you can do. If there is really nothing you can do but wait, the best way is to do nothing and avoid mistakes.

I think that in the face of powerless things, I must have a good attitude, face the future with optimism, and be full of confidence in the future.

Nothing can be done, when it is decided, people who have no fate in life, should give up, depressed and obsessed in the heart, and should leave. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke pointed out that only the eternity that belongs to oneself is taken.

There are many difficulties and setbacks in a person's life, and people will experience all kinds of things in their life, what should you do when you do everything you can, but you find that you can't do anything.

1. Find a quiet place to baptize yourself, relax and adjust your mentality. Don't overexert yourself. After all, the body is the most important thing.

2. Go for exercise. Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

3, look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

4. Do some activities that are not related to the current specific matters. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

5. You can also go to the morning vegetable market to take a stroll and feel the noisy crowd.

Everyone has their own joys and sorrows, but as a new day arrives, a new hustle begins.

Feel the smell of fireworks and look at the faces of each worker for a while. Maybe the mood can be much better.

Finally, I wish everyone a happy and happy heart. Hope it works for you.

We will encounter many problems in our lives, even difficult things, but we still have to continue to live, and when we encounter things that we can't do, there may be no solution, but one thing that should be clear is that we should not give up on living a good life for this reason. Everything has its solution, and even has its two sides, we usually only see the pain and misfortune that life gives us, and ignore the growth and exercise that the world brings to us by the difficulties itself, in fact, suffering can always bring us growth, which has a high value.

Therefore, although there are many difficult things that cannot even be effectively solved, we still have to treat them with a positive attitude, and the change of mindset will give us a new understanding of things, and then, these problems that seem to be an endless cycle suddenly become less important, and the failure in this matter does not affect the happy life, it becomes no longer important, and it is solved.

If you can't, you can try to change your mentality, objectively and rationally analyze what kind of impact this matter can not solve with lead to you, and then judge whether it can be recovered, once you find the standard to measure the problem, it will naturally be more fair to judge, and it will no longer have a great impact on you.

Thank you for your question.

I think that there are many things that people can't do in their lives, and this is the truth of life, which needs to be accepted after all.

What we can do is: think about it, is there really nothing we can do about it? What point am I stuck? What would happen to the world if my business was solved? Because there is another sentence in the life hall: it is called another village with bright willows and flowers.

Are we willing to be willing to take responsibility for our own lives, and how much effort am I willing to put in for this? How much power can I put into it? Perhaps, there is some powerlessness that can be revealed.

Bless you and hope mine will help you. ❤️