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That's because you haven't shown each other's true side yet. There will always be some contradictions between two people, it just depends on when these contradictions start. And these contradictions are the root of your quarrels, and they are also your verification of whether your relationship is strong.
I want to ask the landlord, are you all good-tempered? If you have a good temper, that's normal. My husband and I have talked for many years without quarrels, only the two years of marriage will have conflicts, but these contradictions have been resolved, and our relationship is getting better and better, because through these contradictions, we understand each other better.
It is often said that couples who quarrel a lot will not divorce, and the more they quarrel, the better. And couples who never quarrel, if they really start arguing once, it's over.
But you've just started to fall in love, which is completely normal, and the landlord doesn't have to worry.
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No way? It's not normal to talk about not quarreling for half a year, although it is said that there is no stiffness for big things, but there will always be contradictions in life because of small things, and the more noisy the feelings, the better If you haven't quarreled once for half a year, you are indeed a little worried about your future life I have been talking to me for half a year, and now there are constant contradictions and constant quarrels, but the feelings are still hidden
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Insipid. My first love with me was only more than seven months, during which we had a conflict, but we didn't quarrel, at most there was a cold war, and then he came to me, and I should forget about it.
I used to think that two people were together and that it was good to be plain, but after the breakup, I woke up and felt that I had many shortcomings in love.
I was jealous and pretended to be very magnanimous, my boyfriend was not allowed to touch me, at most I held hands, I never lied to me, and I didn't say anything about love, so I was very bored.
Therefore, the dull love life is not long enough.
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It's not good to break out after being suppressed for a long time...
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Couples who have never quarreled, whether these two people are true love or not is not very certain, because true love cannot be determined just because of a quarrel, and it is also related to many factors, such as the personalities of two people. <>
Some couples will especially like to quarrel after being together, whether it is a small or big thing in life, you must quarrel to know the result, and the relationship between the two people will become sweeter and sweeter, but there are always some couples who have never quarreled once, how many people think that such a couple is true love. In fact, I think this sentence is too absolute, because there are some couples who have never quarreled, it may be that two people don't care about each other so much, so no matter what bad things the other party does, they won't care, so they won't quarrel. But there are also some couples who really love each other too much, so they are willing to tolerate each other, even if the other party does something not very good, they will be infinitely tolerant, so the two will not quarrel.
Couples who feel that they have never quarreled are not necessarily true love, but they are not necessarily fake, after all, there are many factors that are related to two people falling in love. <>
Like there is a couple around me, who have never quarreled, and they have always been very affectionate, even if they want to quarrel, they can't quarrel, because two people want to laugh when they see each other, and their eyes are distressed, so they don't quarrel at all. I feel that if this situation is like this, it is definitely true love, because two people feel too sorry for each other, so they are unwilling to spend time arguing. In addition, there are some people's personalities, which may be like this, they don't like to quarrel, and they don't like cold wars, as long as they encounter problems, they will face them directly, so as to solve this problem, so this kind of couple is often true love.
It can only be said that true love has a lot to do with many things, so it cannot be concluded based on just one conclusion. <>
Finally, I hope that your feelings are true love, don't let yourself regret it, and I hope that every couple can live a better life, don't quarrel often, otherwise it is easy to hurt and angry.
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Personally, I think yes, couples who have never quarreled, and the two of them are truly in love, which shows that both people don't want each other to be hurt and care more about each other's inner feelings.
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This situation is not certain, it is not true to use quarrels to judge whether two people are true love, and quarrels will not affect the love of both parties for each other, so I think that whether they have quarreled or not will not affect whether they are true love.
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Generally speaking, yes, because it is normal for couples to have conflicts in the course of life, and couples who never quarrel show that they care about each other, can tolerate and understand each other, and communicate in a timely manner.
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Although it doesn't look good for couples to quarrel for three days, but think about it, if you are willing to continue to quarrel, it may also mean that two people still care about each other, if you don't love at all, you don't even have to quarrel, you have already separated, just like two people in a marriage, some are also quarreling for three days, but they are reconciled soon, such couples may not be in a bad relationship, and some couples are not willing to quarrel even after a fight, can you say that they are happy?
Therefore, if two couples quarrel, they should consider it according to the cause of the attack and the person's character, consider whether they will be willing to leave each other, whether they will miss each other and be sad when they leave each other, and if they will, then analyze why the two will quarrel for three days? Is it for something meaningful? Think about it, try to change yourself, change the number of quarrels, slowly, maybe the relationship between the two will get better and better, try it, fate is not easy to come by, not all people can meet, don't wait until you really lose it to know how to cherish!
The quarrel between the two ends of the three days is high enough. What is the reason for the quarrel, is it a quarrel or a general argument? After each quarrel, in what form do you get back together?
What are the feelings of both parties about such a situation? Quarrels are usually triggered by conflicts between people that are difficult to suppress and reconcile; The high frequency of quarrels reflects the diversity of contradictions. For couples, such a phenomenon occurs; If both parties have the will to change themselves in order to reduce the intolerance between each other, it means that the feelings of the two individuals are still there, and they can communicate and solve it.
Otherwise, it is necessary to think deeply and make a decision. The affection is shallow, and when it is broken, it is broken; When the interruption continues, it is chaotic.
In short, look at whether the quarrel is fierce or not, as well as the actions after the quarrel. It's normal for couples to quarrel with each other, and after the quarrel is over, they quickly forgive each other, or the other party will coax you to be happy, and they are still so good to you, then this is the way to get along, but if the quarrel is too fierce and both parties do not give in, then I think it is good to give up, such a couple is estimated that both parties do not love each other very much, and it will be more uncomfortable after marriage.
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I think yes, there is no need to persist anymore, if two people keep arguing and arguing, it means that the relationship between the two people is not good, the three views do not agree, and it doesn't make much sense for the wheel to stick to it.
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I feel that there is no need to insist anymore, because I am already arguing, and arguing is very emotional, so it is better to separate.
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That's definitely it, which means that the two can't get along at all. Anyway, my ex-boyfriend and I just quarreled a lot and then broke up.
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Quarrels between couples, I think it's a normal thing, if the relationship is still there, there is no need to break up, in the continuous running-in, the personality can be changed, if two people are still in love, it is possible to be willing to make changes for each other.
One, how to face the quarrel of two people? When two people refuse to make concessions, it will evolve into a quarrel, if it can be made clear that quarreling is a scourge that hurts the feelings of two people, they will definitely be able to control their emotions, and they will never quarrel.
Self-righteousness, self-esteem is the root of quarrels, if you always look at the problem from the other party's point of view, always put the interests of the other party first, and always regard the health of the other party as more precious than your own life, then when the problem is **, even if there is a disagreement, you will make concessions accordingly, and you will not quarrel.
On the basis of feelings, if two people are willing to change themselves for love, and when they have different opinions, they can give each other tolerance and understanding and even humility, and they will not quarrel.
Ask yourself if you love each other or not? If you love, try to change yourself, touch the other person with love, give up if you don't love, don't hurt the person who loves you, or learn to respect and tolerate.
Second, how to deal with quarrels? Actually, it doesn't matter if two people don't have compatible personalities. As long as one person laughs, the other makes trouble.
One advances, one retreats. It's not a big problem for two people to tolerate each other. The key is to know how to be patient.
To say forbearance does not mean that you can forgive him and accommodate him. But it's not that I'm succumbing to him and leaving him at his mercy. There must be a scale, two people have feelings but often quarrel, I think this kind of thing must be there...
In other words, both people are optimistic about their personalities, but their personalities are complementary.
Many people ask whether their parents' marriage is better or if it is better for similar people to be together, and I think it is the same person. There are fewer quarrels together, and because they are the same people, it is easy to understand. It is different, people are easy to quarrel and have conflicts when they get together, but because they are different, there will be attractive things, and a husband and wife with complementary families will develop more rapidly.
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It's normal for couples to quarrel with each other.
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There is such a couple in life, they never quarrel, in life is more of a bland, as if nothing can trigger their emotional fluctuations. And these couples who never quarrel, I think they will eventually enter the palace of marriage, mainly for the following reasons.
First, more rational. People who never quarrel in life, and few people who can not quarrel, show that both parties are very rational people, knowing that the output of love and daily chemistry can not bring any benefits, but it is a kind of harm to this relationship. And sane people in married life.
They are more able to live in harmony because they have the same goal, which is to make their married life better. Only rational thinking and rational communication can make the relationship between two people closer and closer. <>
Second, know how to tolerate each other. Two people who never quarrel show that they know how to be more tolerant and tolerant, because there will always be all kinds of contradictions and problems in life. People who never quarrel will have a more tolerant personality, be able to tolerate each other's shortcomings, and will not blindly blame each other, but will treat themselves more strictly.
As the saying goes, don't do to others what you don't want to do to yourself, and they know more about this kind of life. When two people who are strict with themselves live together, they will naturally be more tolerant of each other. <>
3. Know how to cherish each other. Two people who never quarrel, they both know that life is short to learn to cherish each other, and it is very not cost-effective to put a good life on the matter of quarreling. Therefore, learning to cherish each other can make the life between two people better and better, and it is precisely because of such a sincere sense that they can be more magnanimous.
To a large extent, a career is a person's guarantee, so that you have a way back, but also to keep moving forward. <>
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I have seen some couples who never quarrel, they are actually very happy and happy, mainly because they feel that it is useless to quarrel, when the other party's temper comes up, he chooses to tolerate, and only communicates with the other party when the other party calms down.
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Once there is a conflict between those couples who never quarrel, the two people will fall into an impasse, and it will seriously affect the relationship between the two people, and even go to the point of breaking up.
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I've been living very happily, there are many such couples around me, their temperament is relatively slow, maybe because of the relatively high cultural quality, I rarely hear them quarrel because of contradictions.
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will break up in the end, after all, such couples often have a very flat relationship and can't stand a little toss.
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In the end, they all broke up, because they didn't quarrel, they kept their resentment in their hearts, and when they accumulated a certain amount of dissatisfaction in their hearts, they broke up.
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In the end, they both entered the palace of marriage, and the two of them were relatively happy in their love lives.
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These couples who don't quarrel, they may all end up in the palace of marriage because they are very suitable for each other.
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