What should I do if my child is afraid of an aunt who has quarreled with me before?

What should you do if your child is afraid of an aunt who has quarreled with you before? Now the child is small and very fragile in his heart. So you must take the child away from this person.

Be sure not to come into contact with this person. In the future, pay attention not to have conflicts with others in front of your children, so as not to cause psychological shadows to your children.

Your son is afraid of an aunt who has quarreled with you before, it must be because the scene of your quarrel is deeply imprinted in his heart, you can conduct psychological counseling with him, tell him that the aunt is also an ordinary aunt, in short, let him understand that the person he is afraid of is very ordinary.

It is because the child is afraid of him, because he likes to stare at him with his eyes, that he is afraid, and he will not be afraid when he is still young and old.

Then take the child away from this aunt and try to avoid contact with this person.

What should I do if my child is afraid of an aunt who has quarreled with me before? You can tell your child what the adults do, and what you shouldn't do. It's okay for a child. Don't let your child be afraid.

Maybe when you quarrel between the two of you, let the child see it, leaving a shadow in your heart, maybe you think that aunt is particularly vicious, so take the child collectively, communicate with people more, don't be afraid of him.

If the child is scared, take the child with the aunt and try to avoid meeting with the aunt.

If you can stay away, try to stay away, and if you have to meet, you have to communicate well with your children. Then make it clear to him, and slowly he should be able to understand.

Hello, the child is afraid of that aunt, then you have to overcome his fear, for example, take him to play with that aunt. The next time you see that aunt, you have a good talk with that aunt, and then the child should no longer be afraid when he sees it.

No matter how scared you are, in fact, many times it is not right to be so noisy, for the sake of your children, do not act aggressively.

Because your child already has a psychological shadow, you should still be properly affected by his psychological disorder.

This requires you to guide him, because the child is very pure, he is afraid, maybe just because his impression is not good, you deliberately enlighten him.

I'm still very scared, if this aunt used to be, then you can only reconcile with this aunt, so that the child doesn't have to be afraid.

Then you take the child away from him and don't pay attention to him too closely.

If the child is afraid that he has quarreled with you before an aunt, I think. The first is to avoid direct contact, and the second is to explain it appropriately to your child.

Maybe in the process of arguing with this aunt, the child saw it and had a shadow in his heart. You should explain this to your child so that he does not cause psychological burden in the future.

After that, take the child to avoid this aunt as much as possible, and then educate the child well, don't let him leave a psychological shadow, tell me that people like him are low-quality people, and there is no need to waste time on them.

You can tell him that there is no deep hatred, and that you don't scare the child so much.

Maybe it's the child who has seen the scene of your quarrel that has made him feel a shadow in his heart, and try to keep the child away from such people in situations like this.

If the child is afraid, I think you can often accompany your own child, so that your child can build this self-confidence, don't be afraid of this person anymore, if you are afraid all the time, it will definitely have an impact on your child's psychology.

For the sake of the child, if you are afraid of an aunt who has quarreled with you before, you can give the child psychological counseling and don't let the child be afraid of him anymore.

I think you must have left a psychological shadow on the child, which is why the child is very afraid of him.

You can try to get him back to his self-confidence.

If he is afraid of that aunt, just let him stay away and not let him get in touch, and you have to tell him that you have to be better and not be bullied.

Since the child is scared now, then let him hide a little, so that he will not be afraid anymore when he grows up.

It is when you quarrel that you create a shadow in the child's mind, so he is afraid to see him. In this case, it is better not to let the child see this person.

If this is the case, let your child not see this person, and let your child grow up well and healthily.

I think there must be a shadow in the child's heart, so try to refuse such a thing in front of the child, and be sure to give the child good psychological counseling.

In this case, you should take the child away from it, pay attention in the future, and don't quarrel in front of the child.

It's not good habits.

Because this will make the child insecure, which is not conducive to healthy growth...

Therefore, it is best to avoid quarrels in front of children, of course, arguing with the world will not solve any problems. Pei back to pei.

As a child, don't care about the affairs between your parents, you should be more considerate of the hard work of your parents.

When your parents are arguing, you go out and walk around, or close the door and don't hear it.

Don't interfere in the affairs of adults and ask for trouble.

What you have to do is to study hard, do your own thing, and don't care about it, and you can't control the things between them.

It is normal for husbands and wives to quarrel, and if one party is unhappy, it is natural to take out anger on the other.

Hehe, small problem! A harmonious family must mature through contradictions, and parents will only be more familiar with each other in negotiations and even quarrels, and will better organize the family! Of course, some may break up unhappily because of this, but many families have a lot of conflicts, so you have to see clearly!

Each has its own things and troubles, only to understand more, to tolerate more, in order to live a harmonious life! When they are arguing, of course, you must not act aggressively, and you should ask them at the right time: What is the purpose of your quarrel?

Or, will your theory have a positive effect? Can you give me a positive example? Of course, you should also talk to your father or mother when you are alone, get to know each other, and your parents will take your feelings into account in order to better persuade them!

And your studies may be an excuse for them to quarrel, but you will feel guilty if your academic performance is not satisfactory, but you don't have to! Your grades are never the real reason for their quarrels! As a child, you should study hard, one is your responsibility, and the other is that excellent grades will make parents proud, which will change their mood and reduce quarrels.

But don't embarrass yourself! Learn to see their contradictions, persuade them at the right time, and study hard!

Talk to your mother, express your thoughts, and think that you need a harmonious family environment. Husbands and wives understand each other, not accuse each other.

I also talked to my dad and asked him to care more about his mother, who was in a bad mood when she was working outside, and she needed the support and consideration of her family.

Then have a meeting together and make sure to study hard!

Mom and Dad must be tired after a day of work, so be more considerate of the parents and worry less about the parents, such as: take the initiative to complete the study tasks, take the initiative to help with some housework, etc. When Dad is reading, you can also take a book to read with Dad, and Mom sees that you are also reading next to Dad, first of all, she sees that you are reading and doesn't want to disturb you, so she may not quarrel with Dad, and secondly, she is very relieved to see you so active in reading, and I feel that you have grown up and sensible.

You can also spend more time with your mother to relieve her irritability, what do you think?

Me too, I study very well, but my parents always quarrel, I am too slow to add words.

You first look for the reason from yourself, and then see if your requirements and expectations for your child are beyond your child's capacity. Personally, I believe that every child's nature is to play, to play freely and freely.

Parents' requirements or expectations are often very high, both want the child to be like this and not let him be like that, the child's nature is bound, so you say that the child is against you is also a normal reaction? Personally, it's not right to be demanding from children, just imagine: have we adults done it?

Why should we impose our unfulfilled dreams on our children? Maybe we often say that if the young don't work hard, the boss will be sad, and if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you, etc., but did we all listen to it when we were young, and did we all do it? Listen carefully to the child's opinions and requirements, he may not recognize the root cause or consequences of things, but we can not tell him what should and must be, but should first encourage his positive meaning, and then tell him the essence of the problem.

We nurture children, not only the children's bodies, but also the children's intelligence and mind.

In fact, the root cause of your quarrel is for the good of your children, but it is because of your different views that it leads to quarrels.

So, this can be solved by exchanging views and reaching an agreement. Two people can say their thoughts, just like the pros and cons of the debate, each speak, and then come up with evidence to explain, and finally see who is more reasonable to listen to whom, if both sides insist on their own opinions, you can consult experienced, you can both trust the past to be a referee, and after the conclusion is made, the child will be treated according to reason.

It's all for the good of the child, why make a noise to make the child feel that you are not in harmony, which will have an adverse effect on the child's psychology.

For the sake of the children, don't make any noise.

Yes, yes, it's almost the same as drawing on a blank sheet of paper.

No. It's inherited from the personality of the parents.