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They say that if they don't get married, they just haven't met a good marriage! This cannot be forced. Young people are different from old people, and asking young people with the old idea that "they must get married when they are old" is nothing more than trying to turn their children into copies of themselves.
That won't be happy either. Young people are open-minded, forward-thinking, and not conservative, let alone people who can look at life with wisdom after studying Buddhism? Therefore, a good marriage needs to wait.
Nam no Amitabha Buddha (Namaste).
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Then let it be, they find a way to liberate, they don't want to be reincarnated in the six realms, they can just enter the heart as parents, and how to choose is their own business.
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That's because the marriage hasn't arrived yet, and it has nothing to do with being vegetarian, so wait patiently!
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Don't force everything, it's normal for parents to want their children to get married and have children, but don't be too anxious, believing in Buddhism and practicing doesn't mean that you can't get married. If you really don't want to get married and have children, then don't force it, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, just live every day and have a good time.
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Probably not encountered. What you like. Or the same passerby. Haven't encountered it yet! I think that's why. Therefore. Let them do as they wish! It's useless to be anxious. The man of fate. Didn't show up.
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That's only fate, so what can I do? You can't fight hard. Wait a minute, if karma comes, you will naturally get married.
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The children of Buddhism are vegetarians and do not want to fall in love and get married, this question I think should be natural, after all, try after all, you are an adult, you have your own thoughts, even if you quarrel with him, he will not listen to you, just do your own responsibility.
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Nowadays, there are many people who believe in Buddhism, and more and more young people believe in Buddhism. Since children like to eat vegetarian food and like Anitabha, if they can't be persuaded, just let it be and be happy!
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I don't think it's that they believe in Buddhism and don't want to get married, but they don't want to get married, and they start to believe in Buddhism full. Nowadays, many young people are reluctant to get married for various reasons. Look at the point, they feel happy and happy.
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The people I met who believed in Buddhism were all in love and married. Believing in Buddhism, that isDo not do all evil, do all good
Believing in Buddhism is only forbidden to have extramarital affairs, and legal marriage is okay.
Only a very small number of people do not get married and become monks, one in 10,000.
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Everyone has the right to choose their own life, or should we respect the decisions of others and not interfere in the lives of others with their own ideas.
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Now pay attention to the freedom of marriage, and the children have grown up! Let them be! It's good to have fun!
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Leaving my hometown for eighteen autumns, I don't accept thousands of dollars and rice. Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, don't be horses and cattle for your children and grandchildren. ”
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In fact, most modern young people have this kind of thinking, mainly because they see the failed marriages of the people around them, and they have a certain psychological shadow on it. So they don't want to get married, they just want to live their own lives.
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I don't think I want to get married or fall in love because I haven't met the right person, and I didn't feel about marriage before, but after I met my husband, I felt what love is, and we were very happy after marriage.
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At this time, you can lower your mentality, and then have a good talk with your daughter.
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Then don't believe in the Buddha, what is there to believe in the Buddha, it is better to seek the Buddha than to seek yourself.
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Who said that if you believe in Buddhism, you can't eat meat, stupid x
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There may be various beliefs in a person's life, but it is better not to base your beliefs on the suffering of others.
External cultivation does not necessarily have to be both internal and external! Because you have a concern that you can't get rid of! Maybe you can do it without worrying about them, but they have to worry about you, and if you don't have any scruples, you're also violating the great taboo of spiritual practice!
I don't know if you have been affected by the thoughts, causing you to prefer to love practice, chasing a kind of tranquility and mind in the practice, if you have experienced, then, your current state of mind belongs to evasion, dare not face the reality!
I was divorced, Lao Tzu died early, in the three or four years after the divorce, a child was brought by me during the day, and my mother took it at night to spend four years of torment, and we each had to go to work, when I was at the lowest point in my life, I have been using Buddhist thought to forcibly suppress the negative thoughts in my head, and I have been pressing it for more than three years, I didn't understand at the time, and now I am gradually out of the haze, but the memory of the past is gone! The problem is constantly changing oneself, knowing oneself, and trying to accept a new self! What I have always insisted on is the belief that I am my mother and children rely on, and they gave me the courage to live!
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Believe in Buddhism and tie the knot
Marriage is not in conflict, the Buddha still has du
Wife and children, even if they are monks, they just can't break the color dao vows, and they don't say that they can't have a wife, and they can't answer their fathers, and practice has nothing to do with monks, many monks don't practice, they can practice at home, and they are ready to become Buddhas, Bodhisattvas, in order not to be disturbed, run to the temple If you are not sure about becoming a Bodhisattva, it is better to chant and participate in meditation at home.
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Believing in Buddhism does not mean that you can't get married, you can't fall in love, if you see through the red dust, you can't get married and practice by yourself.
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Faith doesn't have to be practiced, you can also believe after you get married, ask a Buddha statue to burn incense for him every day, and eat fasting by yourself.
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I'm about the same age as you, 85 years old, and thankfully, both parents are complete. You said that if you don't get married, you will be lonely for the rest of your life, I thought about it. However, then I thought that in today's society, it is very difficult to practice and have a happy family.
When you get married, you have to break your body, and if you break your body, your cultivation will be difficult and slow. With a child and a significant other, Yu had two more concerns when he died. In addition, if you are married, if you are lucky, find someone who believes in Buddhism like you, and you can continue to fast. If you are unfortunate, find someone who does not believe or does not believe in the truth, and will force you to kill, burn meat, and eat meat, and after a long time, even your Dao heart will fall.
Day after day, in the blink of an eye, I will be desolate, I will not go anywhere, I will go to hell to experience life. It's better not to get married and strive for a lifetime of achievement. Of course you, it depends on fate.
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People want to follow fate, whether they get married or not, this depends on fate, it is better to follow nature. I didn't believe in Buddhism before I got married, and when I got married, all of a sudden, it changed, not because the other half believed in Buddhism, but because the good karma arrived, which had a subtle impact on me, and I called my other half my Guanyin Bodhisattva, and I came with the fate. Since we have joined the WTO, we should do the things that we have entered the WTO, and don't always think about doing things in the world, don't we also talk about human Buddhism when we study Buddhism, and we can implement the Buddhism into our lives, and correct our behavior in our lives, and with your continuous understanding of the Dharma, you will gain more.
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Brother, I used to have the same troubles as you, but my parents are alive! The most important thing in life is to find your own value, to be honest, if your character is really what you say, maybe you want to find someone who really understands you and understands you is a little difficult. But you don't have the constraints of your family, you can go on with your life, and if you can meet someone who really understands you, you can also marry her.
If you've been single, you can live on your own. Find some friends who share your beliefs, but you have to be mentally prepared that you will be lonely in the New Year. Happy to you!
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Get married. After all, the Buddha can't be the same as his husband
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I'm a year older than you I'm better than you I still have a mother I don't care how others look down on me No matter what I do or say, it's according to my own rules I think it's all natural I once wanted to become a monk I think the Shifang offering is not so delicious I am ashamed to do it for Shifang Whether there are good results for myself Slowly I don't care about material things and don't care what others think of me and evaluate myself Why care about it in an environment where material desires are very heavy I think material things are enough Food and clothing can be enough Have a fair heart and be at peace As for marriage, let it be.
I don't know to what extent I believe in Buddhism, how much I can understand, but I hope to understand the truth of the world, see the world clearly, wish you well, don't be pessimistic.
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You should look for it, monks have wives, not to mention those who believe in Buddhism, you can have it in your heart.
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This is not absolute, there are several levels. There are no hard and fast rules for the voluntary follow-up of the folk worship, and those who take refuge in the practice of receiving the five precepts are those who take refuge in the practice of three pure meat, six fasting days, and ten fasting days, and those who have received the bodhisattva vows develop bodhicitta and practice the bodhisattva path as vegetarians.
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Eat, drink, and leave that alone.
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It's good to be vegan, I think.
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Personally, I feel that there is no need to deliberately eat vegetarian, just have a Buddha in your heart, you can read the Diamond Sutra and copy the Diamond Sutra!
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Moreover, Buddhist laymen can get married, and it is of course best to be vegetarian.
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It is recommended that you go to the vegetarian bar and have a look.
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Hold the vegetarian scientific and reasonable, with nuts, dry goods, roasted food, fruits, vegetables, soy products. It will not affect you to get married and have a baby.
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Vegetarianism is equivalent to releasing life, if it really doesn't work, don't kill and eat, eat three clean meat, and slowly have to quit.
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You can eat fast first. Slowly overeat a vegan diet. There are many benefits of vegetarianism, but there is one point, remember to balance it. There is no problem with being a vegetarian in science.
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After taking a vegetarian diet, I found that my body was getting better and better, and I didn't catch a cold easily, and even if I had a cold, I would get better quickly.
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Worried about running out of nutrients? I'm from here, and I used to worry about it, but it turns out that there are so many benefits of being vegetarian.
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Eat more whole grains to supplement nutrition.
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You're not a girl, you're a South China Sea goddess.
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There are only benefits to being vegetarian, and there is no harm in doing so.
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See if you have confidence, confidence, vegetarian is no problem, many vegetarian brothers give birth to vegetarian babies, no confidence, try to eat vegetarian, meat, is the corpse of sentient beings, eat one less bite is a mouthful, one less grudge will pay off the debt one less, less repay the debt more blessing,
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Speaking of eating meat, I dreamed of eating meat last night, and saw that it was vegetarian, noodles, and the result was pork, and the smell of blood circulated in my mouth, and I vomited nauseously.
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Eat less meat, kill less. There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south.
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Need not. It's the same as believing in Buddhism, you can believe it or not. You think it's bad to be vegetarian, so why force yourself? Or should you think about your career and body. It is better to design your own happy life with a healthy and upward belief concept!!
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If you haven't gone to the monastery to take ordination, then eat meat side dishes.
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You can drink two glasses of milk a day, milk can supplement people's daily nutrients, and vegetables and fruits are also rich in various nutrients. There is also a belief in Buddhism does not mean that you must be a vegetarian, believing in Buddhism pays attention to a kind of faith and state of mind.
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You can also try to temper your boyfriend and let him embark on the path of cultivation.
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If you really want to clean up, how can you care about your boyfriend's performance?
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It's normal, it's a tribulation, it's a test, and you have to have these things to practice the Dharma, otherwise you won't be able to see your true heart.
You use your wisdom in everything to maneuver around, and it usually doesn't take long...
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Go with the family, don't be special.
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