In the countryside, uncles in their fifties and sixties would rather die alone than choose to remarr

In the countryside, uncles in their 50s and 60s would rather die alone than remarry because they don't have the strength to remarry. In other words, very few women are willing to marry an uncle in their 50s and 60s who has average living conditions. Reside.

For such an uncle with good economic conditions, many people choose to remarry.

1.In the countryside, there are retired uncles in their 50s and 60s. Generally, two or three years after the death of their wives, in order to take care of each other and live together, they will still choose to remarry.

Because of the pension, it is easy to find a wife, and many women of the same age who have lost their husbands are also willing to find a wife with good economic conditions. Therefore, it does not mean that all uncles in rural areas will choose to be lonely and never marry, and some still choose to remarry.

2.In rural areas, most people's families live in average conditions and are mainly engaged in farming. When the uncle of 50-60 years old is widowed, if the child has not yet started a family and still needs to work hard, or although the child is married but has a low income and average living conditions, they rarely choose to remarry, because they know very well that not many people are willing to suffer with them except for marriage.

And because the same widow has worked hard for most of her life, it is also very realistic. If the wife you are looking for is still poor and white, and going alone is equivalent to becoming a mother, then it is better to be at ease alone.

3.If they want to find a wife to accompany them for a lifetime, most people have the concerns of their daughter-in-law and are afraid of the gossip of the villagers. After a rural man in his fifties loses his wife, there are not many people who are willing to remarry under normal family conditions.

Rural widows in their 40s and 50s rarely hear of remarrying unless they are married to wealthy retirees.

Rural uncles in their 50s and 60s would rather die alone than remarry. Some of them choose not to marry because of the memory of their wives; Most of them feel that their conditions are poor and no one wants to live with them, so sometimes it is a helpless choice.

I have a cousin who is a few years younger than me. A few years after my aunt died, he has been looking for a wife in Zhangluo, but he can't pass the hurdle of his son and daughter-in-law. The daughter-in-law said

A lot of what you eat, a lot of what you wear, but what are you doing with that burden? Besides, if there is an illness or a disaster in the future, who will wait for her." It is only one situation that children like this oppose.

The second situation is that the woman, regardless of her age, will ask for a certain amount of bride price, saying that the old man cannot be allowed to take advantage of it for nothing. There are those who don't mention the bride price, and they also lie that they used to treat the "dead ghosts" and owe tens of thousands of yuan for "famine", and you have to help pay back the money. And the uncle who can come up with this money doesn't have many in the countryside, so he has to give up.

Because they did not have enough money to marry a new daughter-in-law, they chose to die alone rather than remarry.

The main thing is that after reaching this age, there is actually no such idea, and a person's life is relatively chic.

It may be because the price of marrying a wife is too great now, and basically spending all the savings of the first half of your life may not be enoughAnd because the imbalance between men and women is becoming more and more serious, these fifty or sixty-year-old uncles in the countryside would rather die alone than choose to remarry.

In rural areas, there are retired uncles in their 50s and 60s, who usually choose to remarry two or three years after the death of their wives in order to take care of each other and live together. Because they have their own pension, it is good to find another spouse, and many widows of the same age are willing to find a spouse with good financial conditions

Here we will not discuss the good and evil of human nature, but in the real life of the countryside, everyone is very realistic, especially people in their fifties and sixties. Therefore, not all rural uncles between the ages of 50 and 60 will choose to live alone and never marry again. Some still choose to remarry.

In rural areas, many people live in ordinary family conditions, mainly engaged in agricultural production, when an uncle aged 50-60 loses his or her spouse, if the children have not yet started a family, he or she still needs to work hard, or even if the children are all married, but the income is meager, the living conditions are generally in this case, they rarely choose to remarry, because they know that not many people are willing to suffer on their own except for marriage.

And because in the same way, widows work hard for most of their lives, and they are also very realistic, hoping to find a better partner without having to suffer. If you're looking for a wife who is still poor and already works like an old lady, you're not comfortable with any of them

Therefore, fifty or sixty-year-old rural uncles would rather die alone than remarry, and some of them choose not to marry againBecause of their nostalgia for their married wives.

What's more,They feel that their conditions are poor and that no one wants to live a hard life with them, so they are willing to die alone.

I think it's because these uncles still have some feelings for their deceased wives.

Because they're old and don't want to toss anymore. It's good to live your life like this.

Compared with the direct opposition of the children, the bigger problem is that although the children support the remarriage of the elderly, they will always have a gap that can never be crossed with the 'stepfather and stepmother' emotionally.

Because the cost of remarriage is very high, and there is no point in remarrying someone you don't love.

Children do not agree and do not support the remarriage of the elderly, which is the majority.

Because people are older, they don't have the energy to say that they love someone or whatever.

It may be that it is good to live alone, and the whole family is not hungry when one person is fed.

It may be because the other half in life is very difficult to find and stressful.

There's no need to remarry at the age of fifty or sixty, isn't it good to live alone?

Because they feel that they have adapted to it and that it is difficult to change.

That's because if he remarries, then he needs a lot of money to maintain the second marriage, so they won't get married again.

I think it's probably because in the countryside, if you remarry at the age of fifty or sixty, you will need a lot of money, and then there is no need for this.

When the elderly adapt to living alone, they will not choose to remarry unless they are not in good health and cannot take care of themselves.

Because the cost of marrying another daughter-in-law is too great, it is better to save some money alone.

It's good to find someone who has the same interests and can live a good life.

Marriage needs fate, not age, sometimes the eyes are right, that is, fate has arrived....

It's up to you, the key is fate.

If you are 50 years old, if you want to remarry, you must be cautious.

Find someone who is slightly younger than you, or older than you, depending on how well you get along with the other person.

If two people feel that they are both suitable for each other, a little bigger, a little smaller, it doesn't matter, do you say yes?