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Anonymous users2024-02-12Why is it that the kinder people are, the more tribulations, because kind-hearted people are often easy to be soft-hearted and hurt, easy to be gullible and deceived, easy to be calculated, and easy to associate with villains, so their fate in life is often more bumpy than that of ordinary people.
Kindness is the most shining trait of human nature, and compared with other animals, kindness is more like a unique psychological characteristic of human beings that is higher than instinct. In fact, people are also more inclined to get along with kind people, and in this process, they can not only have a safer interpersonal experience, but also self-improvement.
Why are good people vulnerable:
1. Kind-hearted people are too soft-hearted.
Just like there is a lyric singing, you are always too soft-hearted, too soft-hearted, carry everything by yourself, others have done unkind and unjust things to you, a simple sorry, you will forgive him, you don't want to embarrass him, and even don't want your family and friends to ask for an explanation for you, hey, good people often tolerate others, thinking that they have given him face, he has no face, good people always think about others, don't want to embarrass people, but forget the pain they have endured.
2. Kind people are easy to trust others.
Kind people are generally very realistic, they are sincere to others, never think about anything else, and take it for granted that others are also very sincere to themselves, and they have no bad intentions, so it is easy to fall into the trap of being gullible to others, and the reason why there are so many ** can deceive good people's money is the fundamental reason.
3. Kind people are not good at playing with means.
Kind-hearted people are kind-hearted, they don't have any scheming city, they don't use some means, they don't do things ruthlessly, and they always have a good attitude towards things, so it is common to be calculated, especially in the business field, if you are not careful, you may suffer a big loss.
4. Most of the kind people have the heart of a woman.
Just like we have learned the story of the farmer and the snake, a kind person is like a farmer, some people who hurt their own people and have poor moral character, they should have drawn a line with such people, or they did not have deep contacts, but they can't stand the soft grinding and hard bubbles of these people, and it is easy to believe in them again psychologically, and the result is that they may be hurt next time.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Because the more kind people are, the more soft-hearted they are, the more gullible they are, and they don't have scheming cities, so there are relatively more tribulations in society.
Kindness is originally the most beautiful quality of a person before a sentence, but too much kindness is the beginning of a person's tribulation. You will easily forgive others for doing too much to you because your heart is too soft, but you will forget the pain you have endured. You will be gullible to others because of their words, and you will fall into the trap set by others.
Even if you have no city in your heart, you will be deceived, used, and calculated by some sinister people. Because these people just grasp your good nature, no matter how much you bully you, you are sure that you will not care about it, so your kindness will make you experience more tribulations than others.
How Good People Make a Difference:
1. Recognize your flattering behavior and stop immediately. Maybe you think that being good to others is a sign of kindness, but there is no need to be good to others, digging Mori Qing just increases the workload and burden for yourself, except that others will be relaxed, and you yourself will not have too much joy because of this.
2. You must affirm your own value. When arguing with others, when your rights are violated, you will sharpen your kindness, and your kindness will only hurt you more, and easy forgiveness will only make others worse.
3. Learn to reject others, only rejection can let the people around you know that your bottom line is in, and people with a bottom line are often more respected.
Because it's just a law of nature.
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