Because you are not beautiful or handsome, what grievances have you suffered?

Updated on amusement 2024-06-21
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Before going to college, my appearance made me unhappy, and I also suffered some grievances, which lingered, so I had the motivation to change myself when I went to college.

    I used to be very dark, and I was very fat, probably because of male hormones, and I actually had a beard as a girl. I was young and ignorant, and I became very inferior because of my appearance, and that inferiority complex made me feel even more wronged.

    The thing that impressed me the most is that few boys will look at you. My good friends are more beautiful than me, and I am often appreciated by others and may be chased by male friends. And I don't have this kind of opportunity, except for being seen as a bad guy by boys, when the puberty sprouts, I don't want to fall in love.

    There's also being with my friends.,I've always been a green leafy existence.,I'm rarely praised in front of adults.。 They don't like me because I'm more well-behaved, the truth is similar, I have a girlfriend who looks sweet and cute, and she is very popular with the public.

    The teacher will automatically skip me as well. Obviously, my grades are higher than the other girl, so I think I am better than him. But because she wasn't beautiful enough, the teacher gave her the opportunity to participate in the composition speech. I was also very aggrieved at the time.

    It was a while in high school. The boys in my class really didn't ask me if I wanted to treat me as a man, but they were also little girls in their hearts. Take out the garbage and call me if you don't call other girls, and clean the windows and think I'm the most suitable girl.

    I'm also speechless and aggrieved, I don't want other girls to look like they won't do it.

    I wasn't really pretty until I decided to change, at least not up to the standard of a girl. I am often laughed at by girls with beards. I was really desperate and aggrieved, but I couldn't do anything. I feel that I am being wronged every day of my life.

    At that time, I felt that this time was the world of looking at faces, and the most aggrieved thing was that I was forced to do things I didn't want to do a lot of the time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This is the era of looking at faces, I remember last year my roommate went to cut the same hair as me, her hair was about the same length as mine, she cut 20 on the first day, and I cut 25 on the second dayI asked the haircut, and he said they were all 25... In fact, I know that my roommate is very beautiful, goddess-level, and I look like I can't describe it, so I will be charged 5 more yuan for cutting my hair.

    And a friend I met on the Internet, and one day he called me to meet up, hang out, and then see me. He said a word to me indifferently, without saying hello, he rode up and ran, and he ran fast, and his friend told him to wait, but he didn't ask. I was so embarrassed at that minute, he kept telling me to go out, and when I went out, I had that attitude, alas, in fact, I knew that the reason was that I was too ugly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This world of looking at faces, I can't afford to be hurt if I don't look good, I didn't like to dress up before, and I was dirty. Those boys, seeing that they were always shaking their heads, they felt real and inexplicable at that time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I've been better than the girls around me since I was a child.,When I was young, because I studied well and was sensible.,So I was taken care of by the teachers.,But what I didn't expect was that this was jealous of the girls around me., There are palace fighting scenes going on every day around me, and if there is a chance to do it all over again, I would rather my appearance is just like that of ordinary people.

    When I was in junior high school, once in physical education class, the teacher asked to run 800 meters, I had a high cold and fever that day, and I was dizzy, so I asked the physical education teacher for leave, because I rarely asked for leave, and I actively completed the tasks assigned by the teacher every time I went to class, and I was a member of the school volleyball team.

    At this time, several other girls in the class also asked the teacher for leave, and several of them would ask the teacher for leave every time in physical education class, and each time the reason was menstruation. This time, the teacher didn't give them permission, and told them that if they really couldn't finish it, they should jog in the back, run as fast as they could, run as much as they could, and run as much as they could.

    When I got back to the classroom after gym class, I heard the girls who didn't succeed in asking for leave talking about me not far away, all of them saying that I was seducing the teacher or somethingI was so angry that I almost fainted, and I was really going to go up to them to theorize, but then the class bell rang.

    Another time when I was in college, I somehow received a message from a guy saying that he had liked me for a long time and wanted me to talk to him on Saturday. Of course I didn't go, it felt really inexplicable. But the next night, a girl blocked the door of my dormitory, saying that I had seduced her boyfriend, and I said that I had never known this person, but I couldn't argueIn short, I have lived in the shadows throughout my student years.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Now in this society, some good-looking girls will always be sour.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Once, when I was in college, I somehow received a message from a guy saying that he had liked me for a long time and wanted me to talk to him on Saturday. Of course I didn't go, it felt really inexplicable. But the next night, a girl blocked the door of my dormitory, saying that I had seduced her boyfriend, and I said that I had never known this person, but I couldn't argue

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Some people always think that good-looking people get things that they don't get by their own efforts, and they will be excluded and isolated.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In this era of justice, all good-looking people seem to be living smoothly.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It may be the kind of person who relies on your own efforts but others still think you are incapable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is nothing wrong with being good-looking, but you will be aggrieved because others question your good-looking and spread rumors.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A good-looking girl will give a feeling of being unapproachable.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, wow, isn't it normal to look good, and I haven't seen anyone ugly by me.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I may never experience this grievance in my life, after all, I am ugly! Cry.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm used to being excluded or being independent.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You have to emphasize countless times that everything you have is not something you can get in exchange for your face. You tell people how you can catch up with the opposite sex. Others nodded the whole time, thinking that what you said made sense, but after nodding, he would tell you, in fact, it is useless for you to say so much, what is really useful is that Zhen Nachen gave me your face to Yuzen.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When I was in junior high school, I was bullied by the boys in my class because I was fat, dark (I went to Xinjiang to play with a tan at the time), my grades were not good, I couldn't dress up, and I wore glasses like the bottom of a beer bottle. When I got to high school, I slowly came back in vain, and in the third year of high school, because of the pressure, I also smoked the lead shed family. After I went to college, a photographer asked me to take pictures, and I took pictures of the plane and made extra money after studying, and I took some of the photos with a smile on Weibo, and many students knew about my photography.

    A boy classmate who bullied me in junior high school directly said that I had cheating plastic surgery under my Weibo, and I rolled my eyes. Oh, Lao Tzu just didn't spend a penny, and he became beautiful without moving a place, what's the matter.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Elevator, unknown shirt bench lewd man, accosting. Where do beauties go? I ignored him, got into the elevator, he was outside, and when the door was about to close, he came to a dry and blind sentence, pretending that you were not numb.

    I was trembling with anger! I only hate that I didn't have the power to uproot the weeping willows to go up and beat that stupid dog! It's still ****** angry when I think about it now.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    A few years ago, I went to Baochun Slow Horse 4S shop to do maintenance, because the time was long between the round mold and did not wait, go out to take a taxi to go back first, on the way the driver all the way to the yin and yang weird tone, I don't remember the specific words, probably means that the current girls do not love themselves, are raised, do Miss or something is so rich. The more I listened, the more I didn't taste, I picked up my phone and called my husband a ** and said, I have something to do today, you take the child.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When I was born, the doctor said that he had never seen such a beautiful girl, and that he had to change things with my mother, but of course my mother disagreed. When I got out of the delivery room and learned that I was a girl, my father's family disappeared. I don't know if my father's family knows that the doctor likes me, so they plan to replace me.

    My mother was very scared, and she had to be vigilant at all times during confinement, and Qingyou was vigilant for a long time afterward. Later, my dad came back to accompany me, and when he saw me, he didn't plan to replace me anymore.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because I look too good, I always give the boys around me a feeling that my mate selection standards must be very high, and I must have a lot of people chasing me, and it is difficult for me to catch up, so on the peach blossoms, it is not as good as the kind of girl who looks just better but is more down-to-earth.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When I was in front of the junior high school mask, because I looked pretty good, I was scolded by the head teacher every day for clearing the vase, and said to the boys in the class, you will find a wife in the future, you can't find me like this, it is useless to look good, and said that in the future, the IQ of the child who regrets it is 80% inherited from the mother, so looking for me like this will affect the IQ of the next generation. I wanted everyone in the class to stay away from me, but my grades were not good in the class at the time, but they were average. Sometimes when I fall one or two in the rankings, I scold that I must be hooking up with boys.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There is a bend of Qin Jinji buried in the first office to train a girl, by the way, I also asked her how many girls (the best looking ones in our department) have fallen in love or not, made mistakes, this girl said no, the director said: No? I don't believe it, don't hide it from me.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I'm 163 tall and weigh 108, and my flesh grows on my legs, which are particularly meaty. Then my classmates laughed at me every day for my thick legs, in fact, it was okay to tease me so occasionally, but they always talked about it. I'm also helpless.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    One time I went out to play, everyone went to see the stars at night, I knew that I didn't look good, so I didn't let others take pictures, but a boy said that your hands are very good-looking, borrow it, it was winter, it was very cold and windy, my hair was shawl hair, not tied up, there was light when shooting, and then another boy said wow it's scary, and then when the other two beautiful girls took pictures, the boy said wow so beautiful and beautiful, alas, ......

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    My parents are both very good-looking people, but when I was a child, I didn't know if it was a "genetic mutation" or "malnutrition", and I looked like a water rat. There is a girl next door to my house who is two months younger than me, and she is said to be quite good-looking when she was a child, with big eyes and white eyes and a smile, while I am the opposite. Most children, even if they are not so cute, relatives and friends will praise them for being beautiful, white and cute.

    And when I was a child, my relatives would only show a very embarrassed expression when they saw it, and under my mother's expectant gaze, they would say "This child looks so smart". As it turned out, I was really shrewd and really a reading material. Later, when I grew up, I was taller, my face was whiter, my eyebrows and eyes were opened, and I thought I was a water rat.

    It's not pretty, but I'm not crippled.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The mother's fetus is still single, and I am still a single dog with no object! Because of the bad appearance and figure! I'm ugly in clothes, so I don't even have the idea of dressing up now.

    I don't know how to wear clothes, and I'm always told that I don't look in good spirits. ......I won't come out of some grievances, I'm bitter in my heart!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    What's wrong with my appearance, I'm not ugly or ugly, I think most people are like that. Because I have other places that are more worthy of the attention of others, I haven't been wronged for the time being because of my low appearance, maybe there is, but I don't remember, so it's not important, so, why do you care about this.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    My classmates. I'm pretty good-looking, my classmates aren't ugly, she learns better than me in her majors, and she is very good at talking, and boring things can become interesting when she comes out of her mouth, but she's fatter. We went to the interview together, and she answered very well, I didn't say a few words the whole time, and I was hired.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    See for yourself. I'm now in the third year of junior high school, and I'm going to be promoted to one year soon. When I entered the school in the first year of junior high school, I was the kind of person who looked comfortable, looked good, and was thin.

    So there are always people around me who are chasing or paying attention. Until one holiday, I ate ten pounds of weight, and since then I have been out of control. Although the facial features are still there, it's an expansive version!

    Then, throughout the third year of junior high school, a sentence was endless. "Xiaojia, why are you fat again, look at the flesh on your face. "At first, there were only a few **, and I didn't take it seriously with a smile.

    Later, classmates started, and people who didn't know each other also started. People said, "What's the matter, I've gained so much weight, and the longer I grow, the uglier I get."

    In fact, I am a more confident person, my parents have never hit me since I was a child, and my teachers also pay special attention to me. But self-confidence is not my flesh stubbornness at all, and under the blows of others day by day, I also began to have no self-confidence, and I always felt that I was very fat and embarrassed to meet people.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You see, this kind of psychology of yours has seriously affected your peach blossom path.

    First of all, you can't feel that you are born with incompetence just because you are not beautiful and you have lost at the starting point. You don't have confidence in yourself, so who can you expect to be discerning?

    Secondly, you can't take prettyness too seriously. Are there fewer beauties being scolded now? Good looks sometimes directly make people subjectively give up the pursuit of her connotation.

    You have to grasp the key factor that determines a person's personality and taste, and that is internal. The temperament is better than anything else. It's not up to you to decide what kind of face you have, you can't let people fall in love at first sight, and I think it's better to be a beauty at second sight.

    The accumulation of connotation is not formed in a day or two, and it is absolutely true that there is poetry and writing in the belly.

    Finally, who pointed at you and said you were ugly? Who forced you to say yes to someone you don't like? Who dares to educate you like this, directly smack him with a big mouth. Chinese men have a serious surplus of resources, and if they like us, they will chase after us, and if they don't like us, they will dump them

    Ugly women can be invincible, in the 21st century, can women still wronged themselves?

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