How does a handsome boy face the indifference of a beautiful girl?

Don't be cool, don't talk nonsense, don't be nervous, ignore it, don't play stupid. Only reserved, only rational, only do better, not the best.

Ignore her.

Girls are like this, the more attentive you are, the more she looks down on you, you don't pay attention to her, she will immediately turn to you for courtesy. But in moderation

A tooth for a tooth, a poison for a poison, and a human way for others.

Not all guys will like beautiful and cold girls, because everyone's preferences and preferences are different. However, some guys may be attracted to beautiful and cool girls, probably for the following reasons:

1.Challenge: Beautiful girls are usually more difficult to approach, and can be more challenging for boys, making them want to try and conquer.

2.Mystery: Beautiful and cold girls are usually not easy to understand, which may make boys feel mysterious and attractive.

3.Attractive appearance: Beautiful girls usually have attractive appearances, which may make guys feel attracted and fascinated.

4.Charisma: Girls who are cold usually show confidence and independence, and this charisma may make guys feel attracted and fascinated.

It should be noted that this is only a possible explanation, and there are many other factors in the preferences of boys, such as personal personality, cultural background, social environment, etc. The most important thing is that boys should respect the wishes and feelings of girls, and do not try to satisfy their desire for challenge or personality charm by pursuing cold girls.

Because it's beautiful, it's attractive, and because it's cold, it's not easy to be picked up. This is the general psychology of boys who like girls, but not all boys like cold goddesses, and there are many people who like that kind of gentle and lovely little girls, so girls don't have to care too much about their image, just do their best. There are many types of boys who like girls, different boys like different types of girls, some boys like the goddess of **, some boys like the goddess of freshness, some boys like the goddess of gentleness, and some boys like the goddess of coldness.

No matter what type of girl a boy likes, he has his own reasons, because boys' personalities are different, so there will be many types of girls they like, and some boys like the goddess type, because this kind of girl will give people a very attractive feeling, so they will like it very much.

(This kind of person, the girl should be ready to serve him when he is with him, good-looking people are born to feel superior, and feel that there will be a lot of people of the opposite sex who like it, so he doesn't care about the feelings of the opposite sex, and that coldness is used to attract the opposite sex, pretending to be a personality.) If this person has money, he will be hopeless, if he has no money, he will seduce a rich woman, and when he has money, he will find what he likes. ）

The above is a relatively bad state, Zhang's good looks and good character There are many people, the key is that it takes time to identify, politeness doesn't say anything, and he has a withdrawn personality He will follow his own wishes in everything until he hits a wall. There is no need to change yourself for the sake of a person, it is most natural and best to be your true self, unless he is worthy of your change. Some people you change a lot for him, everything is considered for him, in exchange for him slowly he doesn't care about you, he thinks that you can't live without him anyway, he won't care about your feelings...

This is what I have experienced over the years, many people say that I am very handsome, very beautiful, I am very proud, I was young, a little frivolous, I was cool all day long, there were many girls like me, I disdained it, I was very indifferent, but it never hurt the feelings of girls. At that time, I knew a boy from the same school, Zhang is also very handsome, he is the kind of person in the parentheses above, and it is very good to start contacting real people, but later... In short, it hurts a lot of girls, really, hey, in short, what can hurt people's feelings, some girls no longer have any illusions about men, no longer trust, hurt people and hurt people.

This is a living example, landlord, you can decide for yourself, I wish you happiness.

Even if others say it, it's just an approximation. Not against the one you are. Pay more attention to the behavior of others, and you can guess.

I like girls who really love themselves, not the kind that only looks at their faces.

Have you seen (Mischievous Kiss)? You can refer to it.

It's up to you whether you can understand it or not.

Like the marriage law, in fact, liking or attraction is against common sense The attraction between men and women is a very big topic, and this article will only talk about a certain part of it.

Many girls think that I am kind, sincere, good-natured, gentle, etc., as if I can attract boys.

With a large enough base, it is not difficult to find a suitable boyfriend.

But you will find that when you have this trait, your relationship will not last long, especially during the relationship.

Why? Because that's not really attractable.

It can only be considered appropriate.

Or the boy is lonely, empty, and cold.

It's cruel to say that you're just doing it as a pastime.

But it's just the truth.

And the attraction here does not include the material basis and the personal changes it brings.

Because not all of them have a deep material foundation.

Beauty and coldness can be a real attraction at the genetic level.

How to understand this problem?

I'll give you a male example:

For example, Guo Degang, Yue Yunpeng.

They bring laughter to people.

If you put aside that layer of identity, role, and role.

From the perspective of men and women, in fact, there is no real opposite sex.

Of course, men and women have a completely different understanding of attraction.

To put it simply, men come to Mars, and women come to Venus.

Suppose you are a beautiful and enthusiastic girl, and the other girl is beautiful and cold.

Then, the boy's choice will be with the beautiful and enthusiastic girl.

But the psychology is thinking of beautiful and cold girls.

There are two reasons for this.

First, there is the polygamous presence of males.

We all know each other very well, so I don't need to say more about it.

Second, socio-cultural awareness.

First of all, what does Gao Leng have to do with it?

For example, the glamorous little sister, the handsome big brother, the cold royal sister, the domineering president, etc.

You will find that they all have a cold side.

And all of this will make us feel on a psychological level that these people are valuable.

Because you are cold, it is valuable and attractive.

Although, this does not correspond to the logic of facts.

But in accordance with the logic of the psyche.

And the logic of psychology is unreasonable and factual.

At the same time, because people are "seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages".

That's why we're attracted.

That is, they are associated with the ** value.

But you won't think of Gao Leng being with migrant workers, cleaning aunts, and Meituan takeaways!

Here's an example. From this screenshot, we can clearly see.

Beauty and coldness are very attractive to boys.

But some people will wonder, is it not good for us to be beautiful and enthusiastic?

Mine is, of course, the best if from the point of view of being friends.

But from the perspective of men and women, it is not very suitable.

If it's **, it's the stupid kind.

A woman who can pretend to be more cold for him.

There is a tiger in the heart and sniffs the rose type: the heart is a bit domineering, but it can be retracted freely. A girl who knows how to discover the beauty and fun of life.

Pretending not to like it.,Deliberately indifferent.,Always like to look in the direction of him.。 When he sat behind me, I often used my phone as a mirror to secretly reflect at him. I really wanted to find all kinds of excuses to get close to him, but helplessly, he never took the initiative to find me. It's really helpless.

15. Every time you chat, you must make a draft in advance, and every time you hear a reply reminder, your heart will mention your throat.

16. It can be seen from the eyes, as if the little stars under the eyes are sticking to you.

17. Find a topic to chat with him, but you have to suppress your excitement. When I saw him, I would be excited for a long time, like a madman.

18. It will be particularly cowardly. When I meet someone I like, I often want to kiss him, but as soon as I get closer, I get intimidated. Usually I kiss others and can kiss them.

19. In front of him and in front of others, he behaves differently, such as being restrained, and smiling brighter than usual.

20. Other people don't know, anyway, I like a boy when I see him, and I talk a lot.

This kind of guy usually doesn't like to be colorful, and liking a girl may just be manifested in details such as being willing to say a few more words, and if there is a blush, it will be obvious at a glance.

The chance of taking the initiative to confess is half and half, at least he will secretly look at it and change his signature, so it doesn't seem too indifferent.

I want to confess that what I am waiting for is actually a suitable opportunity or a hot head, the key is to see if there is such an opportunity.

I think it's okay for girls to take the initiative to confess, since it's a love affair, why bother so much, wasting youth and giving others a chance, and it's yourself who regrets it.

This kind of girl is very good at hiding her feelings.

Even if you like it, it won't be revealed.

As for the performance.

You can pay attention.

She always wants to see someone.

her space. A little notebook of her own memoirs.

She showed casual inquire.

Or who you like to talk about.

One more word. If you're a guy and you really like a girl like that.

I suggest you take the initiative to confess.

This kind of girl would rather rot in her stomach if she likes it.

I won't take the initiative to say it.