How can I let go of being deceived by the person I trust the most?

Congratulations, you have tested your true heart and avoided the more harm he caused you in the future.

Tell yourself that no one can be trusted, only you will not betray yourself.

Eat a trench to grow a wisdom, don't believe it easily in the future.

I used to be the best college classmate, best friend, he borrowed me 1000 yuan, and then finally blocked me, I couldn't contact him, I was deceived by the person I trusted the most, I was really sad, I deleted him directly, and forgot about it.

To be honest, it is very painful to be deceived by someone who trusts him very much, and the trust in him in my heart, 100%, collapsed in an instant.

If it was a deception that hurt me a lot, I would have given up on this friend and kicked out of my life. Of course, there is nothing to deceive, and it is impossible to do it yourself, so why ask others.

Now that it has happened, it cannot be avoided. Don't care too much about it, just let it pass, but you can choose not to forgive.

I didn't lie to anyone, and others didn't lie to me.

Explaining is tantamount to covering up and giving the other person a chance.

The pain of being deceived is very unbearable, especially when the deceived person is the one we love the most, and it is deeply hopeless and heartbreaking. In this case, we may be faced with the choice of whether or not to forgive him. And for this problem, we have to analyze it according to different situations.

First, we need to understand the specifics of deception. Deception is not all the same, and some small lies or misunderstandings can be understood and forgiven, as it may only be due to a momentary mistake or to not hurt your heart. But if it is a major deception, such as serious betrayal, deception, concealment of the truth, etc., it can cause hurt and violent emotional reactions, and even lead to emotional disintegration.

Secondly, we need to consider the emotional foundation of ourselves and the other person. If we have a deep emotional foundation with that deceitful Edge, we may be able to forgive him more easily because we have developed a strong bond and trust relationship emotionally. However, if our relationship foundation is shallow or there are already problems, it may be difficult to re-establish trust and affection.

Third, we need to consider the other party's motives and attitudes to deceive. If the deception is done with malicious or selfish intentions, it may be more difficult for us to forgive him, because it shows a lack of integrity and responsibility. But if the other party cheats on you out of inadvertence or impulse, then it may be easier for us to accept and forgive.

Finally, we need to think about our inner feelings and future development. If we choose to forgive, we need to assess whether we have the courage and strength to face complex emotional issues and consequences, and consider whether we can rebuild a healthy relationship in the future. If we can't overcome the emotional difficulties and no matter how much we try, we can't be the basis for a relationship recovery, then letting go may also be the best option.

To sum up, whether or not to forgive a person who deceived us is a very complex issue that needs to be taken into account. In the face of this situation, we need to calmly analyze and think, and make appropriate choices based on the specific situation and our own feelings. No matter what choices we make, the ultimate goal is to allow ourselves to gain more happiness and peace of mind.