After meeting her husband, she becomes fragile and easy to cry, is there a tendency to be depressed?

1. Tell your lover exactly what you think.

in your intimacy.

You are dependent on him in your relationship when faced with problems. So in the process of getting along, I gradually lost my independence, and after being protected, I gradually began to rely on each other in my heart, thinking that I could get it in this way. However, this is a bad way of behaving and will continue to damage your intimacy.

You meet, gain affection, and start to build your family together, and in the process, you lose your independence from yourself and choose to rely on him more. So when there is a disagreement, and you are afraid of the impact on your relationship because of the disagreement, you start to show a series of behaviors such as vulnerability, and want to solve the problem by avoiding it. It shows that in the past, such a way of behaving has been recognized.

Second, let the family return to the normal development that is both independent and inclusive.

To get out of your current state, you first need to tell your lover exactly what you think, so that your relationship will not be shaken by your fragile behavior. Since you can open your heart to him and show the hidden side of you, then, with his help, it is easier to find the real reason.

In general, such behaviors are formed by the environment in which children were raised and the parenting style of their parents. If you want to solve the current situation, you have to go back to the family environment you were in when you first formed your behavior, the way your parents handled it, talk to your past self, and reconcile with yourself. Let the family return to normal development that is both independent and inclusive.

3. What other ways can you express your expectations?

You say that when you argue, you will have a lot of emotions coming out. Now it's time to experience the last quarrel, what kind of message are you sending with so many emotions? We can now think about it, in addition to expressing ourselves emotionally, do we let ourselves keep ourselves rational and peaceful to communicate with our husbands, express our expectations, and ask my husband for help?

Of course, you still need to deal with emotions before you can solve things. Your crying is also a form of catharsis. After the emotions are processed, return to reason to solve the problem.

Fourth, what did you get from your husband.

Think about it, what are some of your husband's behaviors that make you so emotional? Experience it, is this scene familiar? What has your husband done to make you gradually disappear your independence and become more and more dependent.

Is it because of my husband's favor that I can make myself very presumptuous, or is it a little bit of a feeling of wanting more when I get something here and what I wanted to get but didn't get before? You can talk to your husband about your changes. Because your husband has witnessed your changes step by step.

You can also take a look at the changes you can talk to about him.

This may be because your marital relationship is not in harmony and there are no frequent quarrels, and your husband does not understand you, if you are in such a relationship for a long time, then you will be depressed, and you will become very fragile, cry often, your mood will be very depressed, and you will be very sensitive.

I think yes, it may be that you already have a tendency to be depressed, you must adjust your mentality, don't put too much pressure on yourself, do something you like, and be sure to adjust your state.

This is indeed the case, and if this happens often, you should go to the hospital for a proper examination.