I don t have a girlfriend at the age of 20, and I will be shy when I see a girl, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-14
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Whatever you are afraid of, you will come. Let's go. I don't have a girlfriend either, your mother. Fear is not advisable. Girl, you take the initiative and agree. I want to die too. I was so wooden when the environment was so good.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Communicate more with girls.

    For example, start slowly with people who are close to you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This is very simple to get in my heart, you don't have a girlfriend at the age of 20, so taking into account your own conditions, it is very important, if you are not handsome, then you have to practice your eloquence, usually go to the girl to communicate, how to make a girlfriend if you are shy? It's like there's a $100 bill on the ground and you're too shy to pick it up, so will it be yours?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Try to break the first step in your heart, don't be timid, try to find them to say the first word, there's nothing to be afraid of, there's a bad way to ha, or you communicate more with naughty and lively boys, as the so-called black who is close to ink hehe,

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Under the thunder spoof, you can find a boyfriend to try!

    Actually, it's nothing! You can choose three thousand weak water, I'll only take one vote!!

    If you find what you want, it's the most suitable.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, there is nothing to be afraid of, just treat them as your sisters, you are not shy in the face of your sisters, right? Or be friends with a girl who seems to be more quiet and kind, slowly adapt to the feeling of interacting with girls, and slowly get better, the key is to take that step bravely, come on!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let go and be bold, so that girls will like it, at least that's what I think.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To come in small steps, you must take the initiative to smile with girls when you meet them on the road, starting with a small smile; Then take the initiative to say a few words to them when appropriate, and treat them as boys, but you should be polite and softer than with boys; Then, you can chat. Slowly you will relax! Come on!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Be bold and careful, so you can definitely find it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's normal to be shy, but don't be unconfident in yourself.

    It's not like it is usually said, when you see a girl you like, you confess before you get in touch, if you meet someone you like, try to get in touch with it, such as asking friends around you to help you, and then try to confess after getting acquainted.

    Hope it helps.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Isn't that bad?

    A lot of girls like that.

    Because there are too few boys like pure water.

    Watching the show that is one in a hundred, there is a girl who describes a boy.

    Pure Coffee" chose him, just because he is pure, you are bolder, and things will go more smoothly.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello, your situation is very similar to what I used to be, I am shy when I see a handsome guy and don't know what to say, so when I see a handsome guy, even if I like it, I will immediately retreat. In fact, now that I think about it, it's silly, a person's appearance doesn't tell what the person is, you know, 70 cases are that the more a person pays attention to his appearance, the more timid he is inside. You may also have a relatively small social circle, go out and walk more, and contact more people is naturally good, don't worry, I wish you happiness!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Like me, every opportunity was wasted by me - cups, I just let it go, don't learn from me.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Pay with your heart, you are too timid, your skin is too thin, boys should be brave.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Boys should take the initiative, girls are more shy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Try to communicate more with the girl first, and start from the familiar ......Let's have less contact with girls! To overcome the point.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Treat the other person as a man (pay attention to the scale).

    Get closer to the female relatives around you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The lz Tragedy Emperor is the same as I used to be.

    Unless you're very well-qualified, very few women take the initiative.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Alas.. This kind of thing is not practiced.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It seems that you admit yourself.

    The communicative baii is defective du

    But why don't you?

    What about change? It may be difficult to change the dao, I suggest that you slowly change your communication psychology: for example, chat more online (don't indulge in it), watch more movies or entertainment programs with group activities, ah as long as it is the content of interpersonal communication, you pay more attention.

    By the way, if you're not good at making friends, is it because of what you did in the past, or the influence of your parents, if so, it's going to be troublesome.

    I used to be very sociable, but I learned a lot through the Internet.

    How to get a girlfriend ?? To be honest, I'm struggling with this problem right now, I have a lot of friends, but I don't have a girlfriend yet.

    I hope you find a girlfriend before I do.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Psychological suggestion:

    That's how people copy it.

    In my life, how many more beautiful girls like her can I meet? Life is impermanent, and it's impossible to predict what will happen in the next second.

    So take the opportunity to talk to her and say a few words.

    Why are others so open?

    It's all human, why can't you do it yourself?

    The less timid, the more afraid, the more afraid, the less daring; In this way, when will I be able to interact with girls normally?!

    Take the first step and you're half the battle!

    There must be a girl who belongs to you, who has been waiting for you to take this step, talk to her, communicate with her, hold her hand, and walk together.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Look at her as a boyfriend, and make more jokes about things....Get to know her secretly (strengths and weaknesses, her circle of friends, her likes and dislikes, habits, things she cares about lately...).Be low-profile and natural...

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I'm the same I don't think you're a social phobia, but you fantasize about seeing a beautiful girl and fantasize about it as your girlfriend! Isn't it?

    The best way is to expand your social circle to cover more areas, get used to dealing with girls in work, study and daily interactions, and have time to see a psychologist to give advice. Have confidence in yourself Have confidence in your appearance, and have confidence in your talents.

    People like us won't be embarrassed after a long time of contact with girls, and we will reshape our appearance.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Girls tend to prefer confident, talkative boys.

    Rather than having a girlfriend, don't you think it's more practical for you to solve your shy, unsociable problems first?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This kind of thing is completely different from what you do, you have to actually do it, and you will slowly change your shyness, and it is useless to just say that you don't do it, and you will get used to it after a few more attempts

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    At first, of course, be bold, depending on what kind of person the other person is, whether subtle or direct. After the other party accepts it, I will send you ten more words: thoughtful and thoughtful, careful care.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Chat with women through the Internet first, get to know women, and then it will be easier to do.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Be bold, be confident, and participate in multi-person amateur activities

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's good to be bold, and it's better to have a serious communication with a girl than to say more.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Obviously you are not confident in yourself

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Do you want to kiss in public? Be considerate of other people's feelings, and there will always be times when you are alone.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Hehe, you take her to the beach, or a very romantic place, that place can be very small. But it must be romantic, preferably not too many people, and definitely she will think you are very emotional.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Take her to a secluded and safe place, or she will be afraid.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Internet café private room KTV your home other house、、

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Let's go to KTV, and you can sing and kiss at the same time.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Don't you just want to know why you're the way you are?

    It's obvious that you don't have much contact with girls.

    Especially beautiful girls.

    You lack self-confidence.

    If you want to be liked by girls, if you have a lot of girlfriends in the future, give yourself the courage to at least regain your self-confidence Girls are not so mysterious If you want to find a girlfriend, you must change yourself first Don't think about it Some girls like such boys

    Unless that girl takes the initiative to chase you, you're going to have to kiss you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Gradually getting used to it, maybe what life is doing, is it true that what we are looking for always feels as if God is favoring us, because we love God, right?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    That depends on your age.

    Minors are fine.

    It's not good to be an adult.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Some girls just like this kind of boy

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You're dead, you're destined to have no girlfriend!

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's true that some girls like this type, but most girls don't, you'd better change it, in fact, girls, not tigers, what's there to be afraid of? If you think like this in your heart, maybe the feeling of nervousness and shyness will be relieved, and if you contact more girls, it will be better slowly, and I look forward to you finding the girl you like as soon as possible!!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Cut, shy whatever, and don't eat people.

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