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I don't think being short or tall has any impact on marriage But there is no stable income It is a big impact on your future life I am a northerner Generally, the northern woman's family requires that the boy should not be too short But I don't know in the south As for the size is really not too big a problem This world is always "ability is greater than charm", it can also be said that "money is greater than face" is very rare for 2 people to come together, but you also think about it in the future After all, there are still children in the future There are too many problems to consider Put the height aside for the time being Let's calmly consider the actual situation Brother, I am a tall and handsome type I have a stable job But I don't have much ability The family conditions are not good So I didn't find any girlfriend Someone introduced me I always have low self-esteem After all, men's abilities are at the top of the list Then there is appearance and height Another one you have to see if he has a future I ask you to raise your fist carefully and deeply and swear to ask you a few times: "I'm sure he is the man I want to marry in my life."
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What's wrong with being short? Do little ones bite? Don't listen to them, I'm more than one meter and a half tall, don't I live a sturdy life now!
It's not easy to find a good match.
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I mind if you forget it, how can you live without money in this society now, be realistic! Before I got married, I was very affectionate, but after I got married, it was different, and I would be discordant for money!
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Isn't that easy? Marriage means happiness in the future, as long as you and him are sincere, there is no problem.
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He's married to you? Or marry your family?
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At first, you may dislike your boyfriend for being short, but if you spend a lot of time with your boyfriend and find that he is a more reliable person, then you may not dislike it.
In the eyes of many girls, if a person's appearance can't get into your eyes, then it is difficult for him to enter your heart. When many women go on a blind date, they will set a lot of rules and regulations for each other. For example, if the other party is a civil servant, he is required to have a house and a car, and how tall the man is, if it is lower than this range, then he will not be interested, and he will not give the blind date man a chance.
This is bound to lead to such a phenomenon. This man was originally a high-quality man, but because of his height, he was rejected thousands of miles away.
When many people fall in love, they always regard appearance as too important. I feel that finding a boy who is relatively short is not only not very compatible with himself, but also more embarrassed in front of his friends. In fact, after getting married, among the many rules and regulations, appearance is actually the least important.
Because, you don't live with a vase all day long, you live with a flesh-and-blood person, if a person only has good looks and is a mess in terms of character, your life will definitely not be easy. Therefore, many people understand this truth after entering marriage, and it is not so important whether a boy is short or not. As for the problem of children, genetic inheritance may account for most of them, but as long as you give him a better meal, many of them will be higher than their parents, so don't worry too much about it at all.
If it's my mu chain, I may have been a little mindful at the beginning, but what I care about most is the character of the other party, if the other party conquers himself with other aspects, I think height is no longer a problem. If the other party doesn't have very special advantages, doesn't treat himself well, and is relatively short, he may still mind.
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Summary. Dear, there is no way to change the short stature, if you don't like to talk, you can let your boyfriend change it, as long as you love each other, you insist, believe that I must be your parents who compromise in the end, because I, including many people around me, are like this, and finally my parents agreed, because parents want their daughters to find a better half, marry well, and live happily, as long as your boyfriend makes your parents believe that he has this ability, short stature, and not like to talk, these are all small problems.
My parents dislike my boyfriend for being short, not talkative, and disagreeing with our marriage, what should I do?
Dear, there is no way to change the short stature, if you don't like to talk, you can let your boyfriend change it, as long as you love each other, you insist, believe that I must be your parents who compromise in the end, because I, including many people around me, are like this, and finally my parents agreed, because parents want their daughters to find a better half, marry well, and live happily, as long as your boyfriend makes your parents believe that he has this ability, short stature, and not like to talk, these are all small problems.
I've been talking to my boyfriend for more than five years, and he's been very nice to me, it's just a bit far away, and it's more than two hours by train. My parents don't want me to marry too far, my boyfriend's height is about 1.72-1.75 meters, and I am only 1.62 meters, and I dislike my boyfriend's short stature. It's not that my partner doesn't like to talk, he just doesn't understand what we say, I don't know how to communicate these things with my parents, and I don't want to give up this relationship.
Dear, this son is not short, it is the average height of men in my country, it may be that your parents don't want you to marry far away, so these have become shortcomings, you have to do more of their work, tell them that you love each other very much, and he is usually very good to you, tell them what your boyfriend does for you, and usually teach your boyfriend to talk about your hometown, if your boyfriend doesn't want to be separated from you, you must be willing to learn, since you both want to go on for a long time, you have to work hard.
So how do I communicate these things with my parents, and in what ways do I communicate them?
Dear, tell them that I know you love me, and I hope that the person who accompanies me in the future is the best, the best, but I think I'm very good now, at least for now, I think he is the best for me, and I hope you don't rush to deny him, he usually works hard for our future, and then talk about how he usually treats you, and then talk about the height, he is 175, you are 162 This height is a good match, even if you wear 5 cm high heels, you love him more than him, besides, no matter how tall the person is, he may not necessarily like you, Two people need to like each other when they are together, not one-sided, and it's not that he doesn't like to talk, but he doesn't understand our words, and he's working hard to learn for me now, etc.
It's all come to this point, what else is there to say?
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