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First of all, after you go, before you go to the table, you ask your girlfriend to introduce her relatives first, and you are responsible for getting cigarettes for them. If others don't smoke, you have to be interesting, and now you basically don't care about the seats when eating, but if there are places where you still know, then listen to them, and you also have to let the elders sit on it, and if they have to sit on it, you can go. You take the initiative to pour tea for them before serving the food, and don't let the waiter come.
Then it's important to talk to them and speak in a generous and steady manner! I won't explain the "why" anymore. If the wine comes up, you pour it, and if you can't tell which one is longer, start pouring it from your father-in-law, taking care to keep smiling all the time.
First lead everyone to drink three glasses, and if the amount of alcohol is enough, start with your Yue and then toast one cup per person. Be sure to decide according to the amount of alcohol you drink, if you can't drink, drink less, of course, if you can't drink, you have to learn to politely push the wine, and finally you toast everyone with a glass of wine. If you ask about the house, you'd better say that you want to make some money to start a business first, you must have a house to live in now!
In a word, remember 'pretend to be good but not grandchild', if you don't pretend to be good, they will say that you are too arrogant, but if you are too well-behaved, they will think you are useless and cowardly. Hope it helps, I'm going to work......
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1. Follow the customs, be polite, obey the arrangement, and be courteous; (Sitting).
2. Drink moderately, respect the elderly first, blend into the atmosphere, and never say much; (in the middle of the seat).
3. Seek truth from facts, look forward to the future, put feelings first, and strive with words! (House).
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The way to treat the elders is good, be decent and generous, and you can't be petty; The key is never to drink too much!
What's wrong with the house?
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It is most important to make a good impression when you meet your parents-in-law for the first time.
1. You can ask your girlfriend if her parents have any taboos, because different places pay attention to different things. It's better to pay more attention.
2. See if her parents are more conservative or more fashionable. If you are conservative, you can send something affordable, if you are fashionable, if you want to buy cosmetics for your mother-in-law, you can buy cosmetics for your mother-in-law, etc. are all good choices.
4. If you feel that the gift is not easy to decide, ask your girlfriend's parents-in-law if they have any preferences and interests. Do what you like, and your effect will go without saying.
The above is a suggestion for you about gifts, and a few more suggestions for you to meet your parents-in-law!
This is my mother's request to her son-in-law, both of whom are elderly, and should have the same idea.
Be sure to look steady, clean, but not rigid! There is also a comparison of things. Be mindful of what you should and shouldn't say.
Also, you must show that you care about your girlfriend very much, you are so good to their daughter, how can your parents-in-law not worry about handing over your daughter. Hehe! It's a bit much, I hope it inspires you! :
I wish you all happiness!
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In fact, no matter what you give, the elders will be very happy, because it means that you still think about him in your heart and think about him. In addition to sending moon cakes, you can also send wine, and drink a few sips when you are fine, which is also good for your body. Friends say that Niya wine is very good, and the origin comes from the Tianshan Mountains in Xinjiang, one of the world's three major grape cultivation bases, which is still very good.
Recommend Niya Riesling dry white wine, with a mellow taste, suitable for the elders to maintain health and express their filial piety.
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In fact, most of the fathers-in-law are very satisfied when they see that their son-in-law has this heart
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Get a comfortable chair! Good for the elderly!
The brother above said it well enough, give him extra points.
Watermelons, apples, plums, grapes, etc.
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