My daughter is 5 years old and doesn t want to walk by herself, what should I do?

Motivate her with a reward, if she walks on her own, it can motivate her.

Self-confidence is very important in a child's development, and it will accompany the child's growth throughout his life. When they speak, it is their self-confidence that encourages them to shout out the first words of Mom; When learning to walk, it is self-confidence that makes them take the first step in life; When they enter kindergarten, it is their self-confidence that encourages them to talk and play with their children. Self-confidence is the magic weapon for every child to succeed.

Pay attention to children's requirements: Many parents think that their children are always thinking of what is and is self-willed. Ignore the child's requirements, so that the child does not feel valued, in this way, the child will wonder if he is making the wrong request, in the long run, the consciousness of his own mistake makes the child lack self-confidence, so parents must pay attention to the child's requirements, try to meet the child's correct requirements.

Give children the opportunity to choose: When many parents buy things for their children, they always choose according to their own preferences, and their children's objections are not at all appropriate, and they do not give their children the opportunity to choose. Children should be given the right to decide for themselves, and buy what styles they like, so that they can learn to think independently and build up their own self-confidence.

Cultivate children's hands-on ability: the feeling of being needed can give people a lot of self-confidence, so parents can appropriately ask their children in their daily life to help them do some small things, such as getting some newspapers, etc., so that children feel that they are needed and feel that they can help their parents, so as to enhance their self-confidence.

Occasionally let the child take charge of the house, let the child do what he has not done before, and meet the challenge, it will be a good way to build the child's self-confidence.

Let the child play freely: give the child a free space, if the family can open up a small world, give the child a free space, let the child play freely in which space, unfettered, the child will be very proud of having a space of his own, so as to enhance his self-confidence.

Cultivate children's communication skills: communicate with children on an equal footing, parents always have a kind of educational guessing when talking to their children, which makes it easy for children to feel that their status is relatively low. Therefore, when parents communicate with their children, they should reason with their children with the mentality of friends and an equal attitude, which will help to enhance their children's self-confidence.

Then the mother should encourage her child more, and give the corresponding reward after the child walks.

That's because you are too reluctant to let the child cry, so at this time, you should let the child be independent, you can leave him for a few hours, or let him cry all the time, he is tired of crying and feels that no one has come to hug him, he will go by himself, let him walk more, and then he will get used to walking by himself.

1. I feel that no matter how old a child is, there are always people who don't like to walk. But at the stage of learning to walk, you have to pay attention if you don't like to walk. My baby didn't like to walk before, I was really anxious, other people's children of about the same age can walk, and I can't help it.

I've read a lot of articles about baby development, I think it's pretty good, I read a Hanna's baby motor nervous system development course, which talks about how to train baby motor development, promote baby walking exercises, I also followed the content to try to guide the baby, but I didn't expect it to work.

In fact, the most important thing is to use the right method. Hanna expert's content, babies really don't have to worry about learning to walk at all.

1. The reason why the baby does not like to walk by himself.

1. The baby is very lazy. Mom and Dad have always been holding each other, so the child has developed a bad habit.

2. The baby is deficient in calcium and does not want to walk.

3. The baby is timid and worried about accidentally falling.

4. The baby is more afraid of life, so he is reluctant to leave the people close to him.

5. The baby's leg strength is not enough, and he feels very tired after walking a few steps.

1) The child's gross motor ability may be insufficient. When children have a lack of motor skills, they will avoid sports. We can focus on strengthening your child's physical strength and coordination, and improving your child's gross motor skills.

2) Strengthen nutrition: Sufficient nutrition can inject vitality into the child's body, so that the muscle development can be better and better, and the development of large movements can be smoother. Parents should ensure that the baby consumes the appropriate amount of milk and appropriate complementary foods every day.

3) Prepare suitable shoes Generally speaking, shoes with soft tips and strong heels will help children practice walking and standing firmly, while shoes that are soft overall are not suitable for children to learn to walk. In addition, the shoes should fit the little feet, be tight, and be replaced in time to match the child's growth and development.

4) Timely reassurance and encouragement.

In the whole process of learning to walk, falling is inevitable, parents should give comfort and encouragement in time, so that the child has a sense of security, do not feel distressed because of a few falls and hold the child, give the baby more opportunities to move freely.

Children have to walk when they can't walk, but they don't want to walk when they learn to walk. Every child is like this, it takes a process from learning to walk smoothly.

Don't let the child be willful, it will hurt him. Fighting wits and courage and letting him walk happily is your only option.