Who is the last person you want to forgive? You don t need to forgive anyone

The last thing I want to forgive in my life is one of my best friends, at that time, I liked a boy in our class, he looked very much like Harry Potter when he was a child in the movie, he was very popular and sought after by girls, I wrote these in my diary, and then put the diary in my best friend's place, and as a result, my little secret was known to everyone in the class, and I became a big joke in the eyes of my classmates.

The last thing I want to forgive in my life is because of my junior high school Chinese teacher, because the most unbearable thing is for others to insult and bully my parents, and this is still done by the teacher, I really feel that he has no teacher morality.

The scumbag who used me as a spare tire and showed off to others, I used to think that he was too young and ignorant, and I was too serious so that I was like this, so I became a spare tire and suffered emotionally.

A person looks at money more than love, and it is also his flesh and blood, but because he is the poorest, he chooses to give up his own son, ignores it, and his son's wife and children are also denied six relatives, and I don't want to see her again in my life.

A boy in the first grade of junior high school, at that time, his family was poor, and his socks were often mended and mended, and once his socks were torn again and again in physical education class, he stepped on my shoes over and over again behind me, and many people laughed behind him, and he couldn't forget that kind of embarrassment until he died.

My broadcasting teacher, when he graduated from high school and learned my art exam results, actually scolded me in front of the comprehensive class because my broadcasting did not pass the line.

A very good colleague was found by me to sue me in front of the leader, just to get promoted to the position of supervisor.

I always seemed to be nice to me, and I thought we were "best friends" who talked about everything, until I found out that she spoke ill of me in front of others, and we were no longer friends.

My first love, we have been together for a long time, because it is a long-distance relationship, on his birthday I went to his school to surprise him, and I saw him with other girls, very intimate.

I was the only art student in the class, and in the eyes of our class teacher, art students were rubbish, and they didn't know anything.

You never have to forgive anyone.

Regardless of whether the person concerned has it or not, you don't have to force yourself to celebrate magnanimously.

Anyone, anything brings you not only harm, but also growth.

But those actions or practices that make you uncomfortable, you have to have your own attitude, and growth is a process and progress.

If you blindly forgive, forget it, and tolerate it, it will only make you stagnate all the time.

Confucius said: Repay grievances with virtue, how to repay virtue.

In this ever-changing world, we can't ask others to change, and no one will change for you.

So how to adapt, the only way to adapt is to change yourself, change your thoughts and attitudes, to deal with and feedback those people and things that make you uncomfortable.

Make yourself stronger, independent, autonomous, and capable.

No one can easily bring the Qiao clan to hurt and wrong.

Of course, we must also go with the flow, and respond to all changes with the same, filial piety is the eternal way of survival.

The depth of love will lead to responsibility.

But our sharpest response is to do nothing and ignore it.

The more you don't care and focus on your own things, the more you will stay away from those dangers and injuries.

Personally, I will not forgive those who have hurt me by apologizing to me.

Because of the hurt suffered in the past, it will not be made up for because of a few words of apology written lightly today, although accepting other people's apologies can also make me feel more comfortable, but the facts of the past are the same as the iron key spike brother bucket, and it cannot be changed at all, if there is no injury at that time, my life may become better now, and my personality may become more cheerful, precisely because the impact of those injuries on me has continued to this day. So it's hard for me to forgive someone who has hurt me.

Therefore, I think that a person who apologizes to others should show his sincerity, and it is best to use some money or some material compensation to the people who have hurt. Otherwise, it is simply impossible to perfunctory the other party with a few understatements, and it is also more dangerous for those who have hurt others, if the person who was apologized at this time is already developed, or there is a possibility of revenge. It is possible that the injured person will use various means to hurt the person who has hurt him.

There are some people who are not relatives who are not forgivable compared to strangers, but it is still possible for me to forgive the hurt of my parents or elders. Because the harm from relatives may be caused by unclear information, for example, the harm of parents may be the harm caused by the betterment of their children, and because of their ignorance, it has brought great harm to the manuscript. However, those strangers are simply trying to hurt on purpose, so this kind of hurt is unforgivable.