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In fact, we all know that the current class reunion has changed its taste, and it has become a legend that everyone is showing off. Buying a car and buying a house, then finding a daughter-in-law, and then settling down in **, how about the salary, probably showing off here that you are living so well, why is it so bad now that it is a class reunion? Maybe it's because this society is more realistic.
If you become more snobbish and have a greater sense of money and fame, is there still a need to participate? Personally, I think it's still necessary, because although it seems to be now, if you don't participate, it means that you have forgotten about this friendship or something, after all, it is still very necessary for your classmates to be doctors in school together.
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Of course you have to participate, class reunion, the reunion between your classmates, although it has changed its taste, but he still has a party, and most of these parties have become a comparison of who is richer and who is married to a good husband. But class reunions, after all, they are classmates. You go and see the people you want to meet.
Disgust people you don't want to see and let them know how good you're doing.
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The classmates will change their taste", you have already set the premise, then of course there is no need! Isn't it going to be bad for all the classmates?
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I really don't think it's necessary, all kinds of faces, too hypocritical, and the mood will be bad, if there is a confidant, it's okay, and if there is no confidant, it's a living sin.
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Youth is a keepsake book, and we can only leave wonderful things in the past. Graduation means parting, and graduation means that life must start a new process. After graduation, as we are all faced with problems such as work, life, love, or marriage, etc., partying.
It seems that it used to be difficult to scream a hundred times.
First: Many of us have a habit of being in groups of three or five when we are at school, and we usually only wait with my classmates who are close to me and have a particularly good relationship. Eat together, go shopping, and even take a bath together.
In fact, classmates' gatherings don't have much of a topic with those classmates who don't usually communicate much, so if my best classmates don't come, I will also retreat and be reluctant to go.
Second: In school, we are classmates, except for learning, we don't have too many ingredients, and friendship and classmates are very pure. However, after we graduate, the road we have seen and the things we have experienced, we will more or less change the appearance of some people who like to compare, and some people still have the same appearance when they were studying.
The topics they talk about are different. Stuffy others talk about things and talk about things, and don't speculate for more than half a sentence, so if you are bored and boring, you will be unhappy at the next party and don't want to go again.
Thirdly, after graduation, the work of Peijia will always take up a large part of our time, and the working hours will be very different depending on the workplace we are in. Some people just got off the night shift, or some people can't come back from a business trip, or some people just don't feel well.
Fourth: When we get together, we will see the person we once liked. I may have had someone I like or is married, and I don't want to see him or her.
It is said that the gathering party also came to Mazhongyuan for a date. Some of my classmates can understand these truths, so they prefer to hide.
Fifth: If it is a meeting of older classmates, they may not be able to attend the meeting due to some unexpected reason that they are no longer there.
Today's classmates feel that they have lost their original taste, and they originally participated in the alumni meeting to exchange feelings, but now the alumni association has become a place for comparison.
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I think it's because everyone's work situation is different, some people may not have a good job, and their economic situation is not very good, so they don't want to participate in the class reunion, and they don't want to let their classmates know their embarrassment.
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Now it is very crooked, and many people don't like to participate in class reunions, because many class reunions are some of the better people who have developed and buried their friends to show off. There is no previous friendship at all.
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Because the class reunion is no longer just chatting with old friends, Hermione has become a place to show off his capital, and the stool posture makes many people feel very uncomfortable.
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1. Playing too crazy and not going home at night: Class reunion, either KTV, or playing mahjong in a private room, not returning home all night, playing too crazy, hurting your mind and body.
2. It will increase the psychology of comparison between classmates and classmates: watching this classmate drive a brace, that classmate driving a BMW, he is riding a bicycle or taking a bus to the meeting, or looking at the hall classmates who were uglier than themselves back then, and now they have become female classmates that everyone wants to approach.
3. There is too much gap between conditional and unconditional students: Conditional students, above the class reunion, speak at a higher decibel volume, and unconditional students can only sit in the corner silently, without saying a word, which seems very unsociable.
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Whether it is necessary to attend the Tonghui Morning School meeting depends on the specific situation. If you have a good relationship with your classmates, a party can be a great way to stay connected and bond. In addition, participating in the Tong Can Bisen School Gathering can also let you know about the recent living and working conditions of your classmates, and also expand your network of contacts, which will help you develop in the future.
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Class reunions are a kind of nostalgia and mutual exchange, and an opportunity to see each other. I used to party with my classmates. But after decades, people's contacts and people are weak. The party itself is a good thing, talk to each other about their own affairs and concerns.
During the meeting, I found that the classmates were not talking about going to school when they were young, but about their current position and how much they earn now. They have been separated from each other, and they have reached the level of living between people and treated each other. At this time, several people are low-level employers, with low wages, and they slowly begin to distance themselves from each other.
There is a sense of layering. Words are not speculative, they can only be separated after saying goodbye. So class reunions are getting more and more boring.
The classmates have lifelong friendships, but although their material life has improved, they have become a difference between the top and the bottom. In this regard, many students have different opinions on this. But for the sake of the face of the classmates, some classmates can only say, "You are gathered at this moment, I have something to do, hurry home."
Huff. After getting together twice, I found that there were fewer classmates, and I was notified again, but I politely declined.
Status and salary are not a reunion of classmates, but to find out feelings in the party, it is also the joy of nostalgic reunion!
This should be the inevitable trend of society, engaged in different jobs, no common language, the previous feelings are almost forgotten, the good ones look down on the bad ones, they think they are superior, they are inferior to the poor, and they don't want to mention the status quo, so they have changed their taste.
Compared with other relationships, the feelings between classmates are relatively pure, and contain the least interest color, so my opinion is that those who can participate in it as much as possible, and being in a positive and healthy class reunion is actually a kind of emotional exchange, network communication, and a beautiful vision.
I've never been to a class reunion, not once. What kind of psychology is inferiority, people are admitted to college, but they don't. I'm in my 40s, and our admission rate at that time was too low, less than 20 on average, so if you're not in the top five in your class, don't get your hopes up. >>>More
After the age of forty, men and women in the workplace generally have a certain career foundation, and this time is the best time to share resources with each other. You can negotiate a lot of business, get a lot of contacts, and find a lot of business opportunities in the communication of classmates. It is also a good opportunity to regain young memories and good feelings in addition to the tired marriage and family.
Generally, there are a few people who have a good relationship, and everyone gets together to eat and chat. It's usually in the afternoon, but it's been a year, and it's good to talk to a few confidants and friends about how you feel about a year.