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Actually, there is, because I can't deny all the girls' thoughts, the world is so big, there must be that kind of girl who doesn't mind money. Take the rich second generation as an example, they don't mind, because they already have enough money to guarantee the rest of their lives, and even she can guarantee the future of their other half, so they naturally don't care whether the other half is rich or not, because the poverty of the other half will not cause any pressure on their lives.
But for ordinary girls or girls whose living conditions are not so good, they are still more concerned about this problem. Because they can't guarantee happiness in the second half of their lives, who doesn't want to eat, buy, buy, buy Who doesn't want to see a favorite outfit and take it with a wave of their hand?
They also want to enjoy enough material world, because the current society is such a reality, those who are rich are uncles, and those who are rich can be looked down upon.
And if your other half can't even guarantee yourself the most basic food, clothing, housing and transportation, then why do you want to live with him? Is it necessary to suffer and be burdened to be with him? So for most girls, money is still more important, because the happy life of two people like a prince and princess still exists in fairy tales after all, in reality, we all have to be involved in things like firewood, rice, oil and salt, no one wants to quarrel over those few dollars as a whole, but life forces you to do this.
Of course, if your appearance is high enough, then you are also very promising. Because some girls are Yan Kong, and they don't care about money, they belong to the cynical kind, and they don't look at the problem long enough, so naturally they don't mind if you have money or not. What they think is that as long as you are enough, if you treat him wholeheartedly, then she will accept everything from you.
But after all, there are still not so many girls who like fairy tales in reality, so you should work hard to earn money.
So as far as I'm concerned, I think I'll mind that kind of question. But if my partner is self-motivated enough and has started to develop in the right direction, then I don't think I value his money so much, because I can work hard to earn with him, everything to support our family. It's because I saw hope in being with him, and that's why I did it.
But if you're the kind of person who has no money and isn't motivated, you'd better die of this heart, because it's not easy for someone like you to find a girlfriend.
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This one really exists, although not much. Existence is existence, there are such examples around me, I can only say that the boy's ancestor accumulated virtue to encounter such a good thing. I think in both cases, the girl doesn't mind the other half being poor.
The first is that the girl has a good family background and does not need a man to buy a house or a car, and her own family has a lot of tickets. The second type is that the girl has an average family background, but the girl loves the boy very much and is willing to work with the boy.
I've seen both of these girls. Let's talk about the wealth of my family first. A girl from our neighborhood often came to our neighborhood for a walk, and by chance, the two of us met.
Her family is wealthy, her father is in the tobacco business, and her mother is a university professor. Later, I got to know her and started talking about personal topics. Girls, when they are together, they like to talk about it, especially about some love.
Her current husband is her college classmate. She had always liked the boy, but the boy's family was very poor. In addition to classes, it is to set up a stall in front of the school.
She often went to accompany him to set up a stall, and after a long time, the two of them were together.
But the two families with too different economic levels have always been a pain in the hearts of boys. But she didn't mind at all, insisted on being with the boy, and married him despite her parents' objections. The two love each other very much, and their parents don't care about anything anymore when they see this.
After getting married, the boy was hired by his father-in-law to become the vice president of a tobacco company, and he was smart and capable, and soon achieved great achievements. He really married Bai Fumei and reached the pinnacle of his life. This woman changed his life.
Let's talk about it, the girl has an average family background and is willing to work hard with the boy. The sister of a girl's boyfriend in our dormitory is like this, she fell in love with a boy with poor family conditions, and the two of them had a good relationship. But when it comes to talking about marriage, I am worried, the boy's family simply does not have enough money to buy a car, a house, a wedding bride price or something.
She just said a word at the time, she didn't want anything, as long as they were together, there would be everything. After getting married, the young couple was very thrifty, getting up early and going to sell vegetables at night. After two years of hard work, life gradually got better.
The house was bought, the car was bought. Their story is like a drama that is hard to believe. But it's happening, right under everyone's noses.
Girls like this are really rare in the world, and boys have really picked up treasures. Generally, such girls can endure hardships and can get by. If you're used to living a good life, you can't do that.
In fact, things are man-made, and it is really a last resort, don't break up for the sake of material. As long as you are still in love, don't part easily. Just work hard together.
There will be a house, there will be bread.
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I think there are girls in this world who may not mind that the other half is poor, but there are also girls who mind very much.
The reason why she doesn't mind that the other half is poor is because she may feel that whether the other half of the family is poor or rich, it is not earned by the other half, but by the parents of the other half. She thinks that no matter whether the other half is poor or rich, as long as the other half is very hardworking and tolerant, she will use her own hands to earn a family property that belongs to the two of them, which may be enough. I think such a girl and her significant other may be true love, he will think that as long as you have hands and feet, you will get what you get, it's just a matter of time.
As for some girls, they will be very concerned about the other half being poor? I think this kind of girl can be very realistic. Because she may consider a series of problems after marriage, if her other half is very poor, then she may not be able to cope with major things.
She may think that if the other half is very rich, any problem is a trivial matter, and everything will be solved. This kind of girl's mind is probably the thinking of most people today, whether it includes adults or those who are very realistic. Maybe they think their other half is very rich, and they can show off their other half like their friends or colleagues.
I think the question of whether you mind whether your other half is poor or not can reflect a girl's attitude towards her other half. It can be seen that when choosing the other half, is she pursuing true love or pursuing a rich life? So I think it's possible for girls to accept that the other half is poor, but it's also possible that they won't.
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Yes, my best friend married a guy who came to the city from the countryside to work, and they have been living in my best friend's house since they got married. The work is also unstable. I think that if love is deep, every girl can not mind whether the other half is poor or not
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Based on my personal experience, it makes sense to be right, after all, this is the idea that has been handed down in China for so many years, but as long as it is true love, you should not be afraid of any difficulties, work hard, even if the difficulties are overcome, if the two love is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight.
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Yes, I'm the one! But it didn't end very well! So I hope you are a person with a lot of ambitions, at least that will be right for her.
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YesMindAfter all, it's a matter of opening your eyesThe era of spending money
1.It's too poor, two people pay it back togetherIt's hardFinish.
In this day and age, being very poor means that this family member is not working very hard. Just imagine, if the other half is also a non-positive person, after finding him and the two of them together, the family will not be very good by relying purely on personal efforts. After all, in this era, it is everyone's own efforts to get the life they want.
I'm not afraid of others being poor, I'm afraid that I'm still so poor that I can fight rightly, this is that if I want to live a good life, it's far away! That is to say, at the beginning, you may not mind the other party's poverty, but I am afraid that the other party does not want to make progress at all, is content with the status quo, and has no idea to change the word poverty!
2.The door is not right, it is not trueIt's hard to get married
There are still many vivid examples of this in ancient times. After all, when a rich lady marries into a poor boy's family, she doesn't let the poor boy's family treat her well at all, on the contrary, she may use the young lady to ask for money endlessly from her mother's family. Of course, there are also good husbands and young ladies who are very rare.
This also clearly shows that being too poor cannot achieve a good marriage at all, and it can only be said that it is really necessary to be a good family! Starting at the same level, it is still very necessary for two people, not that they have to be rich and expensive, they should be almost family!
3.Poor couplesPepsi mourns
Maybe it's possible that you don't mind being poor together. But the days of living together, the daily life of firewood, rice, oil and salt also slowly grinds out people's patience. After all, love and reality really need everyone to recognize it seriously!
Maybe love is indeed very beautiful, but real life is also very ruthless. I need to work hard every day to survive, and in this period when everything needs to be spent money, it is really difficult to live too poor. It will also boil two people with good feelings into sufferers in life!
Parents are the responsibility of two people, and they must be brave to bear it, and there is no excuse to back down!
So having said that, the other half of the people who are too poor still don't approve of it. After all, life is really not about trying, but it takes two people to go on bravely, and if you don't have the strength and courage, you should think twice before you act!
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I won't mind, but my other half must be self-motivated and determined to change, so that the relationship between the two people will get better and better, and they will live a better life.
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I won't mind, because I don't think feelings have much to do with money, and if two people are happy together, they should work together.
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I don't mind, because I think two people should work together when they are together, and money is not an emotional hindrance.
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In the relationship, the other half is very poor, but he is very self-motivated. Be willing to work hard to change the status quo. I wouldn't mind if he was poor.
If he is poor and unmotivated, he belongs to the kind of person who can see the end at a glance. Then I guess I'll mind.
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Personality is simple and idealistic, as long as you fall in love, you will tolerate everything about the other party, even if the other half is poor, you are willing to create a future with him: although this type of person is in the modern world, but the inner world still belongs to the Ashin type of ancient people, will think that since they have identified each other, as long as the two sides have one heart, nothing can be difficult for themselves, no matter what kind of object the other half is, they all feel that love is the greatest, as long as they love each other.
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Dear, hello, the other half is very poor and may not mind, if they really love each other, he is also very good and motivated, you can work with him. Then we will definitely end up rich, and if we are not motivated, there is no need.
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Poverty depends on how poor you are, not that there is a saying; People are not exhausted. As long as you are willing to work hard, self-motivated, responsible and responsible, it doesn't matter if you are poor, there will always be hard work. But a man who doesn't want to make progress, even if he is rich, he can't have such a man!
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The other half is very poor and can struggle together, if he is self-motivated, willing to endure hardships and work hard and plan the future of the two of you together, and make unremitting efforts for it, I think you can consider going together, after all, such a relationship is indestructible!
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I won't suggest it, because if he wasn't a scumbag, it is estimated that he would take you to earn money every day, and if he was a scumbag, he would pester all kinds of rich girlfriends to eat, drink and have fun every day, and spend all the money you earned, then I wouldn't mind.
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If poverty means that his family is relatively poor, has no social status or no connections, then I still will, I will not mind, as long as he is self-motivated and a potential stock, I will not mind.
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If I like my other half very much, I won't care if he is poor, after all, a happy life is made by my own struggle, and we will work with him to create the life that the two of us want.
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I shouldn't mind, because liking someone is not because of his money, if a person is very rich, but his character is not good, then will you still like him? It's the same thing.
If I love him, I will accept everything from him. The outer is always not as good as the inside.
Won't mind! Divorced men and women have certain "advantages", after a marriage change, no matter what the reason, they (she) must have a calm thinking process, learn from the pain, and will definitely find out some reasons from the divorce. Remarriage will definitely take the initiative to develop strengths and avoid weaknesses, overcome the lessons of the failure of the original marriage, and cherish today's life more.
Definitely, I mind. If it doesn't matter if it's a boy or a girl, if you have a girlfriend of the opposite sex, I think there is still a deep relationship. I'll tell you a list of things in life first, there is a male colleague who has a very good relationship with her as a woman, and the relationship together can be said to be a girlfriend of the opposite sex in today's words, and the relationship is very harmonious together, and there is nothing to talk about more than giving it to her wife, and the meeting is also very intimate, and finally I feel very strange, I said how can you have such a harmonious relationship with a woman, and he finally told me that this girlfriend of the opposite sex is his first girlfriend, and I suddenly realized. >>>More
Nowadays, men and women are very open-minded and don't care much about these things. Elementary school students are all starting to fall in love, let alone an adult, who doesn't have a past.
Of course I mind, after all, there are a lot of such things now, and if the two of them are very close, it is easy to have problems.