Should I care about someone my boyfriend used to like?

Updated on society 2024-06-21
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    This must be cared about, for men, what you can't get is always the best, especially if he can quarrel with you because of another woman, and many times, that proves that woman has an important position in his heart, after all, you are his current position, if you are in a quarrel for half a year, then I am not optimistic about your relationship, although it has lasted so long, but the length of time and happiness do not match at all, that woman is a scar in his heart, can not be removed. It's better to think about this relationship with him, otherwise you will be the one who feels pain. That woman can say something like that to him, I just want to send you one thing - flies don't bite seamless eggs!

    Other people's words are suggestions, the decision is still up to you, and the most important thing for you is to think clearly about what kind of life you want to live in the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The important thing is that you have his love, as for his previous affairs, let him handle it himself, don't be angry or even quarrel for that girl, if that girl knows, she won't be happy to die, so don't be petty, maintaining a good relationship with your boyfriend is the most important thing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're so stupid, your boyfriend said he doesn't regret it, what else do you have to be afraid of? If you continue to quarrel with him like this, you will fall into that woman's trap, stupid!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think it's best for you to be yourself, don't care about the person before him, it's all in the past, the past is in the past, and the most important thing is to grasp the present and the future. Be yourself, and I'm sure you'll be happy!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't worry too much, after all, that's in the past, who hasn't been in the past? People are always ignorant, hard-hearted, and life-long, why should you care about the past when you love each other now.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Everyone has a past, as long as you like each other, trust in each other can last.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Caring too much about the other person's past will only deepen the conflict between you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You should care, but you didn't know him before, and he didn't know you anymore, so why blame him, everyone has some wrong times, as long as he treats you well now, right? If you really love someone, those are all small things, don't often mention those past events, so that you and he can forget.

    It's good for your feelings, cherish the present, live in the present, and since those past events are in the past, don't take it to heart and cherish the feelings you have now. If you care too much about something I think there can be lost, really.

    Two people together to grasp the present! Let the past pass! As long as it's good now, all is well!

    I used to be like you, often mentioning his past girlfriends, and then I was told.

    If you mention it once and he thinks about it once, it's not good for you or him. Later, I didn't mention it because I knew that he only had me in his heart now, so that's it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think I care about his past, because there are some things that he can't change in the past and now, for example, he has a character that has been formed for a long time, so he can actually see a person's character in the past. If I really love someone, he must first have a good character.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I wouldn't mind my boyfriend's previous relationship experiences, and I don't think he should mind either.

    What matters is the future, not the past.

    When two people are together, it's our future that matters, not my past and yours. "I can't participate in your past, and I will accompany you to the end in your future." With you, what is more important is your attitude towards me, whether we are happy together, and there is no need to mind your previous love experience.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Definitely, and jealous, comparing himself to his predecessor. But there's no need to dwell too much on it, because you are in the continuous tense and the future tense, and they are only in the past tense.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Those who say they won't are all fake, and they will care more or less about his past, but they don't say it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, at the beginning, he must be particularly concerned about his past, because everyone will have something that they care about in their hearts. If you get along for a long time, you will have a kind of dependence, so you don't necessarily care about this past at this time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you truly love your boyfriend, would you care about his past? If he's a really upright boy, don't care about his past, as long as he's good now, loves you very much, is very serious, and is a responsible man.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't care about my boyfriend's past because my boyfriend will cherish this time as long as he is with me, and I will forget about my boyfriend's past because I don't feel the need to care about the past of someone I love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't care very much, I think if I really love each other. The other party has a willingness to change for themselves. You can't ignore that.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course not, because the past is all gone, we can only look forward, and people can't live in memories.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No, who hasn't clicked on the past, the past is over, life is not easy, and go and cherish, grasp the present, and look to the future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you really like it, you shouldn't care, who hasn't known in the past? I will belong to you now, just don't do it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you really love a boyfriend, I don't think you care about his past.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If I really love your boyfriend, I don't care about her past, but I will try to understand her past.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'm sure I don't care about his past, because I don't think there's any need to talk about it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you really love each other, you may still be a little jealous when you hear the other person say that you have passed, but you will still understand it after all, and you don't care so much.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think if you really love a man, you have to forget his past, but it's not too easy, if you really care about the past, you will think about it over and over again.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I would be very concerned about his past, and if he had had a lot of girlfriends in the past, I would definitely be very sad and would have chosen to break up.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Of course I don't care, these things happened before I met the other person, so I won't care.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think it depends on something, as long as it's not a matter of principle, it's not a big problem, after all, two people need to run in with each other and understand each other together.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This kind of problem is actually very simple, it depends on how you can withstand the words of those so-called friends and girlfriends who have bad intentions, as long as you don't care about others in front of you, then you can go further.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Let him pass in the past, what you like is him in the present, as long as he is good at the moment, everyone has their own past.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    No, because the other party didn't meet him when he spine, his life didn't have me, and his life didn't have me, so it doesn't matter what he did, and I just need to accept the other person's past, loving someone is not the past tense, it's the present continuous tense and the future tense, all said that it's the past, what's there to care about? The past has not been done Feng Sui Law to start over, and people, who have not passed, really want Yinye Bu to care, can only say that it is too late to know each other, so that the other party has not been accompanied by himself. If you have true love, just think about it, two people have a beautiful and happy future, and don't destroy happiness because of the past that you can't go back.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This is out of his own lack of self-confidence, you have to make him feel your love, you appreciate him very much, you are very dependent on him.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    1. Valentine's Day, your birthday or the other person's birthday.

    Confessing on Valentine's Day, the success rate will increase a lot, Hu Hong is generally very romantic because of this kind of festival, and will also meet a lot of people to show affection, some single people will have envy, you can confess at this time with the help of the romantic atmosphere as a driving force to improve the success rate.

    It is also very suitable to confess on the other party's birthday, because on her birthday, she must be in a good mood, and if she confesses while she is in a good mood, it may have a good effect

    2. When the two get along with each other the most. Wise people will not choose to confess when they just know each other, but restrain their desires, choose to start with each other as friends, in the process of getting along with each other, constantly figure out each other's thoughts and temperament, and adjust themselves accordingly, and then continue to warm up the relationship, improve the tacit understanding between the two, so as to enhance the pleasure of the two people getting along.

    After that, slowly plan a romantic date with him, gradually deepen the relationship, and when you feel that the other party has feelings for you and slowly accept you, it is the most appropriate time to confess.

    3. When the other party is in a good mood. When the other party is in a good mood, it must be easier to talk, so after you confess, they are likely to happily agree!

    4. Romantic environment. When you are in a strange and romantic environment, your emotions are easy to fluctuate, and you will also be affected by the romantic environment, and your emotions will soon enter a romantic state, at which time you confess again, and the chances of success will be greatly increased.

    5. The people around you have treated you as a couple. A pair of close friends of the opposite sex are treated as a couple by the people around them, if one of them does have feelings for the other, this is the time to confess, however, if the other party responds violently, explains to everyone with a serious attitude, and at the same time, minimizes the chance of being in and out of the pair with you, you are not very suitable for confession.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    What are you still struggling with about this, I think it's normal, every girl wants her boyfriend to love her best, and she wants to be the only person he likes.

    Not only yourself, but everyone, whether it is a boy or a girl, hopes that their love partner only likes them alone, and there will be no one else in their hearts.

    There are more people like this who quarrel because their exes are angry, and they all like each other too much and care too much about each other, which is also a kind of possessiveness.

    My cousin is still angry with his partner every day, just because his partner once liked a girl, once died for that woman, and did a lot of things for her, my cousin is very concerned about this matter, and always compares himself with his ex-girlfriend, and the boy will be very disgusted, so they are not in harmony until now.

    I feel that this kind of thing is still very important for girls, and they all hope that the person they like is only themselves in their hearts, so that they will have enough security and give you all the courage to like him.

    But sometimes think about it from another angle, who hasn't liked someone, can you forget your first love so easily? In fact, there is something on everyone's mind.

    But what he cares about most at the moment is you, and that's enough. Boys hate girls going through old accounts the most, and they hate girlfriends taking care of themselves the most. Ex-girlfriend comparison. Compared to the past, because those things have passed, there is no need to mention them again.

    If nothing big happens, I think you'd better not mention it again, it will only hurt feelings, and it will make the guys especially offended.

    So I feel like you're particularly concerned about the girl your boyfriend used to like, which is normal, but you need to get over it, and if he's nice to you, I don't think you need to care anymore. Because it will only add to the annoyance of the two of you, and it will not make the slightest sense.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    There are many female friends who are very concerned about the girls that their boyfriends have liked, and this situation is very normal. In other words: it takes a lot of grace to be able to be completely unconcerned about your boyfriend's ex.

    There are many reasons for this, but there are three main ones.

    First, the suspicion of girls. Many female friends are wary of their boyfriend's friends of the opposite sex, let alone the opposite sex that their boyfriend once liked. Every girl is the same, and her boyfriend can be single-mindedly good to herself alone, ignoring all the opposite sex around her.

    These friends of the opposite sex are a threat to their girlfriends, and they will worry that the opposite sex around their boyfriends will get too close to their boyfriends, or affect their boyfriend's relationship with them, which is not what girls want to see.

    Second, the lack of self-confidence of girls. It is rare to see a girl who can completely ignore her boyfriend's relationship with the opposite sex around her, which is a sign of a lack of self-confidence among girls. On the basis of caring about their boyfriend, they will worry that their relationship with their boyfriend is not strong enough; fear that other members of the opposite sex are better than themselves; Worrying that you can't stay by your boyfriend's side all the time to prevent him from glancing at other members of the opposite sex is a sign of lack of confidence.

    Third, there is a saying that makes sense: the scariest thing in the world is your ex-girlfriend. Your boyfriend may break up with you because of a word from his ex-girlfriend, and the reason can be bloody :

    She's a girl, she can't even unscrew the bottle cap, she needs my protection and so on, so every girlfriend will have lingering feelings about the girl her boyfriend used to like, because she is likely to become her rival.

    There is no shortage of girlfriends in the world who ignore their boyfriend's ex, etc., thinking that these are all in the past or that they don't matter. But the vast majority of female friends will still be jealous and will care a lot about their boyfriend's ex.

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