The first love that has been separated for more than two years after breaking up, and now that they

Updated on psychology 2024-06-21
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I'm similar to you, my girlfriend and I have known that we have been dating for 6 years now, we have been dating for 1 and a half years, and we lost contact for 2 years after the breakup, and then we were together again, she went back to South Korea, I am in China, I don't know what the future will be, I am so far away from her, I can't even see each other in 1 year, what I can do is to continue to improve myself to bring her a happy life in the future.

    The important thing about long-distance relationships is communication, trust, understanding. Communication is the most important thing, so as not to misunderstand each other.

    She and I often have conflicts, and now the temporary solution is that I write a diary to each other every day like an hour later, sharing my day's life, which feels very romantic.

    In fact, whether it will last long or not, no one can say that it doesn't count, only two people continue to operate, and the bitterness and sweetness are experienced by themselves.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It depends on the character of the landlord! Different personalities may make different choices! In fact, no matter how much I say, it doesn't make sense, the landlord already has the answer in his heart, doesn't he? I wish you all happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes, my boyfriend and I have been separated for five years and together again after five years, but we have a good relationship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's easier to break in love between two places, not to mention that you once had cracks! If you must be together, please manage it well!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you don't have an emotional foundation, it's dangerous to be in the same place.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course there is, but the opportunity is not to sit still, it is to take the initiative, if you really like each other and want to be with each other, then you must take the initiative to get in touch with each other, so that two people have the opportunity to meet. If you are obviously very in love, but neither of you is willing to take the initiative to contact anyone, and the two of you are in different cities, then the opportunity to meet is really rare.

    I would like to share my two views on this issue, which I hope can help you.

    First of all, if you meet not for the continuation of the relationship, but because you miss each other, then there is no point in meeting like this, which can only increase the pain between two people, so it is better not to see each other. Because if you meet, it will only bring up many good memories, and two people can't part with this relationship, and the reality is that it is impossible to be together again, you can only experience the pain of separation again, so I think that if you don't meet, the relationship between two people will become the most beautiful memory over time, and we can also calmly recall this beautiful time, why not.

    Secondly, if you meet for the continuation of the relationship, then you must be mentally prepared, because the problems of the breakup will appear in your life again, if you are ready to overcome these problems, and have the confidence to solve these things that hinder your relationship problems, then boldly pursue your own happiness. Because it is not easy to meet someone in our life who loves each other, and since you are ready, you must let go of everything to pursue your own happiness. Happiness is to be fought for by yourself, and there will be no regrets if you work hard, and I hope you can overcome all difficulties and be happy together.

    In short, if the breakup cannot be forgotten, then it is better to work hard to overcome all the problems that stand in the way of your relationship, as long as you are firm in your beliefs, you may continue your relationship path. Therefore, if the purpose of meeting is to continue the relationship, it is better to meet, and if you can't go back to the past, it is better not to see each other. You tell me?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Not necessarily, sometimes the world is small, although two people used to be in a long-distance relationship, there is also the possibility of meeting.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Personally, I think that it is basically impossible to see each other again after a long-distance relationship breakup, because after all, it is difficult to meet each other because they do not live in the same city.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There will be a chance. Emotional things, sometimes it really depends on fate, who meets and loves whom is unpredictable, maybe you will have the opportunity to meet in the future, do your best, live up to the encounter.

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